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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So hi everyone, sorry if this have been covered in loads of threads previously...

I have never been to a club before and find myself drawn to the thought of going.... seeing men and women scantily clad socialising and playing does sound appealing!!

Where do people recommend to go? And any advice would be greatly appreciated...

I would be going as a single male... unless any ladies want to take me along haha

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By *inkyDragonsCouple
over a year ago

Ammanford

We're the same, debating it but not been before. We're looking at Bristol and the 2 clubs there the office and dare to but want to see what people think....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes Bristol is close to me aswel as one in Worcester so I'm a little bit curious as to which is best,

Hopefully someone will comment with some advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go read the club reviews and decide from those, as everyone wants something different from the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go read the club reviews and decide from those, as everyone wants something different from the experience. "
Good advice!

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By *inkyDragonsCouple
over a year ago

Ammanford

We're off to Dare to . Had good reviews and friends have recommended .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only one way to find out and that is to go and see for yourself. If you dont like what you see then just leave. Hopefully you will enjoy yourselves. Remember swing clubs aren't what people think they are in as much as they are generally very relaxed places and no one is going to jump on you the second you walk through the door. That kind of stuff is what you read in the tabliods, the truth is very very different! x

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford


"There is only one way to find out and that is to go and see for yourself. If you dont like what you see then just leave. Hopefully you will enjoy yourselves. Remember swing clubs aren't what people think they are in as much as they are generally very relaxed places and no one is going to jump on you the second you walk through the door. That kind of stuff is what you read in the tabliods, the truth is very very different! x"

Very true

Just be yourself, socialise & enjoy OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how did it go?

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Looking firward to hearing all about it.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven't been yet I'm away with work until the end of September, my plan was to hopefully arrange a meet when I get back just to have the company ofnice lady and ease myself back into society haha then go to a club after

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks sally I will be sure to let you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're off to Dare to . Had good reviews and friends have recommended . "

How was it?

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon. "

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down "

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down "

That's fully understandable. Can't expect people to drop everything for us.

We are going back as it was a nice relaxed evening.

Will try others too in the near future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then"

Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then

Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes.. "

I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah

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By *rs PickWoman
over a year ago

North Wales


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then

Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..

I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah"

Clubs are absolute great fun. Cant beat face to face than on here thats for sure. Shame you're so far away as Townhouse is a great club. Lush surroundings with sexy friendly people. Single guy friendly too

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We're the same, debating it but not been before. We're looking at Bristol and the 2 clubs there the office and dare to but want to see what people think...."

Office is widely regarded as bloody awefull, dont go it will put you off clubs completely.

Dare To is very friendly and has lots of different events. Tonight is liberations, should be a good mix of people. The fet nights are also fun, if you fancy seeing a different scene.

Couples can turn up, but bring some ID, it has a bar and you will be happily shown around and introduced to few folk, if you want.

Singles need to book, be vetted (vouched for, have a varified fab account) always ring before attending to insure access.

Myself and wiggles help out at club and would be happy to make you feel welcome and comfy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Clubs are absolute great fun. Cant beat face to face than on here thats for sure. Shame you're so far away as Townhouse is a great club. Lush surroundings with sexy friendly people. Single guy friendly too "

I'm very tempted by them! I always read the reviews from People and they sound so exciting!

I just have no idea what I like haha

Face to face is deffinately better! And I'll be looking for some meets when I get back home,

Where is this townhouse then? I love being surrounded by friendly people as I like to have a laugh and fun with people around me, hahaha is that a hint?;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're the same, debating it but not been before. We're looking at Bristol and the 2 clubs there the office and dare to but want to see what people think....

Office is widely regarded as bloody awefull, dont go it will put you off clubs completely.

Dare To is very friendly and has lots of different events. Tonight is liberations, should be a good mix of people. The fet nights are also fun, if you fancy seeing a different scene.

Couples can turn up, but bring some ID, it has a bar and you will be happily shown around and introduced to few folk, if you want.

Singles need to book, be vetted (vouched for, have a varified fab account) always ring before attending to insure access.

Myself and wiggles help out at club and would be happy to make you feel welcome and comfy.

"

Amazing reply! That's very insightful Thankyou and also very humbling of you to offer to help me:D I may just take you up on the offer

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then

Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..

I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah

Clubs are absolute great fun. Cant beat face to face than on here thats for sure. Shame you're so far away as Townhouse is a great club. Lush surroundings with sexy friendly people. Single guy friendly too "

Isn't there an age limit to new single guys joining Townhouse though, under 40 only?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then

Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..

I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah"

My advice would be to find a club regular to either go in with, or meet inside, anyone male, female, or couple. It's awful going in as a single male by yourself, and can be every bit as off-putting as it is enticing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went to our first club on Sunday.

Was better than expected,

Found it hard to socialise as everyone had already formed their groups but we still had a bloody good night.

So relaxed and just kinda felt right.

Will be going again very soon.

You are always going to find that clubs have groups of people who know each other. Some clubs are more friendly than others. Normally when you have been a few times the barriers to formed groups start to come down

Ok interesting I need to visit a couple times to fully get the feel of it then

Its a good idea to find your feet, so yes..

I shall have to venture out into the scary world of clubs then hahah

My advice would be to find a club regular to either go in with, or meet inside, anyone male, female, or couple. It's awful going in as a single male by yourself, and can be every bit as off-putting as it is enticing "

Thankyou I'll see what I can do

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