FabSwingers.com forum: D*unk in Clubs

By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Visited 2 clubs this weekend and both had this problem.

Club 1 - as we were being shown round a couple, and moreover the lady of the couple came marching over, interrupted the person showing us round and proceeded to plant her lips on Sirs face then attempted to do same to me.

Club 2 - woman in a couple came into room where we were full on playing, d*unkenly laughing and talking loudly. Half an hour later we saw her partner physically holding her up to support her walking.

Complete liabiiity to themselves and other people. Wish the clubs would address this problem before sonething serious happens, e.g. They fall down stairs or dispute consenting to sex, which could easily happen.

Club 2 also seems to suffer with heavy male drinkers. Every time I've been there's been a guy - a different guy, who likes the tipple so much the stink of stale alcohol. Just managed to intercept the one yesterday from touching without being asked.... presumptuous touching playing is another thread though and again happened at club 1.

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Couldn't agree more, there's nothing more annoying than d*unk people in clubs, the amount of couples I've seen falling out because one of them has had too much to drink is ridiculous.

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By *wfunCouple
over a year ago

Margate

D*unks are not sexy, unless you are someone who prefers someone who can't think straight.

We're finding that events are more fun when you are sober or had a drink or two, no more.

Love a drink as next as the next person, just found we have more fun without it when we're trying to have sex!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If people want to go out and get pissed they should just go to a pub.

I've seen many d*unk people in swingers clubs, mostly women but a few men too. The club should stop serving them alcohol. I don't care how much they brought with them they shouldn't be allowed to get d*unk.

The ladies who get d*unk invariably end up arguing with their male partner even if they don't cause trouble with other guests.

If you need to get pissed to swing then maybe swinging isn't really for you.

I would be quite happy to visit a club that didn't allow alcohol at all.

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By *dditional-1Man
over a year ago

Leeds

The problem is greed and gluttony couples bring bottles of spirit then disregard the measure..cos they pour themselves a large whatever...maybe the club owners or bar staf should actually measure it out double or single shot..

Just a thought cos alcohol numbs the soul

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Yeah drinking can get out of hand, we put it down to nerves.

However it is very off putting and we won't play with anybody that's obviously drank too much.

In fact we twice left a club after being hounded by a d*unk female (different each time).

XX doesn't drink at all, and XY limits himself to 2 drinks on a play night.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The problem is greed and gluttony couples bring bottles of spirit then disregard the measure..cos they pour themselves a large whatever...maybe the club owners or bar staf should actually measure it out double or single shot..

Just a thought cos alcohol numbs the soul

I have been to a club that does this. Cupids in Manchester serve your drinks using a proper pub measure and you get either single or double. When I went nobody was the worse for wear and everyone had a good night without it being spoiled by d*unks.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Just a thought cos alcohol numbs the soul

I can't feel anything when I'm d*unk, just pretty numb really

Barely drink if I go to clubs, my thoughts are that if you've got to be bladdered to play, you really aren't that into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the main reason we don't go to clubs in the evening. People behave badly when d*unk and are so loud. It's very offputting.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

There is nothing worse than d*unks in a swingers club. We have a licensed bar and we allow people to bring their own but we try to measure own drinks as much as possible and we are well within our rights to stop serving alcohol, even their own and have done on many occasions.

D*unken behaviour in a sexually charged atmosphere can equal disaster!!

People who are pissed are not only disruptive but can push the boundaries of others as well as themselves, leading to arguments and an imbalance of the status quo. I've also found there to be less successful play due to brewers droop and this means disatified customers, which none of us like!

Even when Jim and I are socialising/ playing in the club when we're off duty, we lead by example and don't get pissed as it sends out the wrong messages.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

As we left club 2, we informed the guy on reception about the lady that couldn't stand up on her own, who was sitting at the bar drinking again. He said, but we don't serve alcohol! Then a couple behind us leaving also chipped in and pointed out a review left the day before about this same issue.

The second most d*unk woman in the club, we'd seen before a few months ago, when she was telling very loudly to her friends that she'd be threatened to be barred by the club for d*unken behaviour. And on entering the club a man very publicly went up to the barman and apologised for his behaviour a few days before!

As for the guy with this woman, I sincerely hope he didn't let her play and made sure she got home safe.

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

My worst-ever club experience was with a woman I took who got d*unk very quickly - I later worked out that the wine she'd brought with her in a screw-top bottle was actually vodka (I don't drink so I didn't realise this). Anyway, she jumped in the jacuzzi clothed, and then she went off into a private room with an Asian guy for half-an-hour. When she came back she slapped me round the face hard for (and I quote) "letting her go off with a n****r" (her words, not mine). By this time she was staggering all over the place an shouting, so I apologised to the club hosts and took her home. She then threw up in my car. Some evening!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We always alternate our drinks when we go to the club's. One alcoholic one soft drink and so on. Works really well we've never got beyond merry when put playing. Pissed is so not sexy. On the up side at least you've learnt which clubs to avoid...

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

I can't stand d*unk people in clubs, and I hate to say it but it's usually women that are the worst!

I've been groped, slapped, grabbed, touched and bullied by d*unk people at clubs, al who think it's totally ok and that I should lighten up!

I choose not to drink excessively when I'm out and want to play because I like to be able to enjoy my time out. I also worry about some of these women and wonder if it really came down to it, how on earth can they actually give consent if they can't even walk straight

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We were there on Sunday OP and she was a real pain.

We couldn't even sit at the bar in peace.

Not sure if it was d*unk or that she isn't the full ticket also.

We left after 90 mins as it was fairly quiet and she really put us off.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"We were there on Sunday OP and she was a real pain.

We couldn't even sit at the bar in peace.

Not sure if it was d*unk or that she isn't the full ticket also.

We left after 90 mins as it was fairly quiet and she really put us off."

that says it all, I never even named the club! She was definitely d*unk. Her partner was holding her up as they came out the smoking area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink often on meets or at clubs to be honest. I find it a far more enjoyable experience sober.

Obviously have a sociable drink on a meet however more than two and I'd rather end up in a bar all night then having fun lol

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would be far happier in a teetotal club - especially as I'm into kinky stuff. I was taught by my first dom that alcohol and play didn't mix as it reduces your capacity to judge both your limits and those you are playing with. I've stuck to that rule by and large. The thought of d*unkeness in a swingers club is enough to put me off going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of drinks for a bit of Dutch courage is enough really. A d*unk person who is loud, staggering is not attractive.

And yea the consent bit is a big worry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first visit to a club was ruined by a group of three women who drank themselves legless, it seemed they were using the club as a cheap night out as they could bring their own booze. They then took great offence to be being declined by both myself and a number of other men and couples. I was amazed that the owners didn't chuck them out, I'm sure if it'd had been single men behaving in the same way they'd have been out.

If you need booze to have sex at a club, maybe you shouldn't be there?

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