FabSwingers.com forum: First night in a club.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So next week it will be my first night in a club. Has anyone got any advice? I don't know what to expect at all. Lol all the help would be appreciated x

By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hi Jo, firstly put your mind at ease. Clubs are pretty relaxed and you only have to do what you want to do! I would recommend phoning the club and saying you are a first timer and on your own. If you let them know what you are looking for (if you know, sometimes what you want can change!) they can recommend a specific night or introduce you to people when you get there. Also we have found drinking a lot & swinging doesn't mix too well, you will want to remember what a good time you had! Be yourself, smile, talk to people and remember no is fine - if you decide you want to initiate contact with people, then do it, again with a smile. Just remember sex is not guaranteed, it is a possible depending on your mood and if you see anyone that you fancy who is in the same mood

Enjoy, no two nights are the same!