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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys. Me and the mrs are going blackpool at the weekend. Ive never spoken to her about the idea of swinging, i just cant find the words. Id like to introduce her to it accidetly on purpose, lol. Anybody got any ideas on how and where in blackers i can do this? Many thanks

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

just show her profile, and I'm sure she will lovingly show you the 'bright lights' of Blackpool haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just show her profile, and I'm sure she will lovingly show you the 'bright lights' of Blackpool haha"

I wanted to avoid that funnily enough but thanks for ur helpful input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book a night in the swinging hotel in Blackpool you can just go and watch and learn she might like that then again she might not, always beast to chat about it first and if she is interested then book the hotel there is no pressure to play you can just chat at see if it's for you. That's what we did, we never moved all night but just chatted and learnt things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Book a night in the swinging hotel in Blackpool you can just go and watch and learn she might like that then again she might not, always beast to chat about it first and if she is interested then book the hotel there is no pressure to play you can just chat at see if it's for you. That's what we did, we never moved all night but just chatted and learnt things. "

Swinging hotel? Why have i never heard of this?? This is awesome. Our hotel is already booked but i will definetly be thinking about this for next time. Thanks

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By *iMarried2016Man
over a year ago

Near you


"Hey guys. Me and the mrs are going blackpool at the weekend. Ive never spoken to her about the idea of swinging, i just cant find the words. Id like to introduce her to it accidetly on purpose, lol. Anybody got any ideas on how and where in blackers i can do this? Many thanks "

Why not ask her if she would like two cocks at once when your next having sex? Use a dildo or vibe in her while she sucks you and ask if the real thing wiuld be better.... if she umms and arrhh and says yes id love a big fat cock as well as yours then thats your opening... because obviously you want her to have fun right??? Not just wanting your cake and to eat it??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys. Me and the mrs are going blackpool at the weekend. Ive never spoken to her about the idea of swinging, i just cant find the words. Id like to introduce her to it accidetly on purpose, lol. Anybody got any ideas on how and where in blackers i can do this? Many thanks

Why not ask her if she would like two cocks at once when your next having sex? Use a dildo or vibe in her while she sucks you and ask if the real thing wiuld be better.... if she umms and arrhh and says yes id love a big fat cock as well as yours then thats your opening... because obviously you want her to have fun right??? Not just wanting your cake and to eat it?? "

Yeah thats an idea, ill try it in the hotel before we go out and see what happens

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

For couples who swing good communication is absolutely essential otherwise it can damage your relationship beyond saving. For those who do have good communication it can be a fantastic addition to your relationship.

You need to find the words to talk to her about it first. If you can't talk about it you're doomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. Me and the mrs are going blackpool at the weekend. Ive never spoken to her about the idea of swinging, i just cant find the words. Id like to introduce her to it accidetly on purpose, lol. Anybody got any ideas on how and where in blackers i can do this? Many thanks

Why not ask her if she would like two cocks at once when your next having sex? Use a dildo or vibe in her while she sucks you and ask if the real thing wiuld be better.... if she umms and arrhh and says yes id love a big fat cock as well as yours then thats your opening... because obviously you want her to have fun right??? Not just wanting your cake and to eat it?? "

Absolutely this! Top advise...if you just spring it on her trust me your 98% likely to be single before you leave BP. Watched a guy do this to his wife at Spice...she through he biggest fit left immediately for the airport and he got chucked out as he was trying to wank over a girl in the hot tub....plus single guys weren't allowed. I think the reason she was so upset is that it was clear he was there to get laid weher she likes it or not.

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By *ovetolaugh699Man
over a year ago

southend

sit and watch sex club secrets which was on c4 a while back and see what she says/chat to her about it whilst its on etc. just an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't something you can introduce 'accidentally on purpose'. Show her the respect to have the cahoonas to talk honestly to her please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprising someone with swinging probably isn't going to end well and will most likely ruin your weekend.

I find it odd that so many people in relationships find it so difficult to talk about their fantasies.

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