FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for a nervous newbie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning! Been on fab a long while now, on this profile and a previous one. Live on the isle of man and looking to try something new and thought of townhouse over in wirral. Love the idea of it, but a slightly shy and body conscious inner me is telling me not to but my inner minx is screaming, fuck it, go and enjoy.

Any advice for a shy new one thinking about going to a club for the first time? Thanks in advance for anything! X

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By *evonheavenCouple
over a year ago

exeter

You have an amazing body. The guys will be climbing over themselves. You will love it and come away very body positive too ??

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Listen to your inner minx.... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At swingers clubs you get all shapes and sizes just go relax and enjoy

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

We are also doing a club for the first time 31 August Chameleons, what do you ladies wear on a normal night? I have read the dress code and it seems to be Towel or a dress so thought I would ask for advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are also doing a club for the first time 31 August Chameleons, what do you ladies wear on a normal night? I have read the dress code and it seems to be Towel or a dress so thought I would ask for advice x"

most ladies are in sexy lingerie or a sexy dress very few are in a towel unless they have been in the jacuzzi

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Morning! Been on fab a long while now, on this profile and a previous one. Live on the isle of man and looking to try something new and thought of townhouse over in wirral. Love the idea of it, but a slightly shy and body conscious inner me is telling me not to but my inner minx is screaming, fuck it, go and enjoy.

Any advice for a shy new one thinking about going to a club for the first time? Thanks in advance for anything! X

Give the Townhouse a call, tell them you are on your own and first time. They will make sure you're ok and introduce you to people if you want plus when you tell them what you like they will guide you to go on the right night!

Echoing other comments, you have a fab figure, let your minx out and enjoy

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Give it a go, you'll enjoy it. Try to go with a friend if you can, someones who's a bit less shy,can talk the hind leg off a donkey

and look out for you. Just so you can ease into it all as it were.

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Dungeonville

I myself was terrified too after being verbally and mentally abused for years. I hated both myself and my body, however, I took the plunge and joined the local swingers club and OMG... Now I feel sexy, can act sexy and I actually like my body and don't mind showing it off. I have scars, stretch marks, cellulite and various other things I could mention but when I walk into the club I know I'm a desired woman and it has worked wonders on me and my self esteem. Do it hun, you will not regret it after the first time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have an amazing body. The guys will be climbing over themselves. You will love it and come away very body positive too ??"

Aww bless ya, thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice for a shy new one thinking about going to a club for the first time? Thanks in advance for anything! X

Echoing other comments, you have a fab figure, let your minx out and enjoy

That's a great idea, I'll give them a call to have a chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give it a go, you'll enjoy it. Try to go with a friend if you can, someones who's a bit less shy,can talk the hind leg off a donkey

and look out for you. Just so you can ease into it all as it were. "

I wish I could. None of my friends are even aware I'm on here, I'll defo call them and ask them to to look after me til I've had my first five gins

hehe

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Give it a go, you'll enjoy it. Try to go with a friend if you can, someones who's a bit less shy,can talk the hind leg off a donkey

and look out for you. Just so you can ease into it all as it were.

I wish I could. None of my friends are even aware I'm on here, I'll defo call them and ask them to to look after me til I've had my first five gins

hehe "

What about your fab friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I myself was terrified too after being verbally and mentally abused for years. I hated both myself and my body, however, I took the plunge and joined the local swingers club and OMG... Now I feel sexy, can act sexy and I actually like my body and don't mind showing it off. I have scars, stretch marks, cellulite and various other things I could mention but when I walk into the club I know I'm a desired woman and it has worked wonders on me and my self esteem. Do it hun, you will not regret it after the first time x"

Your photos are amazing, I'm hoping it makes me brave and gives me a kick of confidence I need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give it a go, you'll enjoy it. Try to go with a friend if you can, someones who's a bit less shy,can talk the hind leg off a donkey

and look out for you. Just so you can ease into it all as it were.

I wish I could. None of my friends are even aware I'm on here, I'll defo call them and ask them to to look after me til I've had my first five gins

hehe

What about your fab friends

There is a guy I've chatted to about it but I know he'd just abandon me as soon as he saw the goods on offer haha

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Give it a go, you'll enjoy it. Try to go with a friend if you can, someones who's a bit less shy,can talk the hind leg off a donkey

and look out for you. Just so you can ease into it all as it were.

I wish I could. None of my friends are even aware I'm on here, I'll defo call them and ask them to to look after me til I've had my first five gins

hehe

What about your fab friends

There is a guy I've chatted to about it but I know he'd just abandon me as soon as he saw the goods on offer haha

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I meant female fab friends. But Why you putting your self down for no reason. By the way on occasions people hold socials at clubs from time to time it might be better for you to start off by attending one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give it a go, you'll enjoy it. Try to go with a friend if you can, someones who's a bit less shy,can talk the hind leg off a donkey

and look out for you. Just so you can ease into it all as it were.

I wish I could. None of my friends are even aware I'm on here, I'll defo call them and ask them to to look after me til I've had my first five gins

hehe

What about your fab friends

There is a guy I've chatted to about it but I know he'd just abandon me as soon as he saw the goods on offer haha

I meant female fab friends. But Why you putting your self down for no reason. By the way on occasions people hold socials at clubs from time to time it might be better for you to start off by attending one of them. "

I don't chat to any local females tbh, it's a very small island where I live and everyone knows everyone so I keep things discreet

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Go but go with no expectations.

That way it will feel more natural for you.

Most clubs are full of nice outgoing folk who will make you feel welcome.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I don't chat to any local females tbh, it's a very small island where I live and everyone knows everyone so I keep things discreet "

that's the beauty of the internet , it allows you to breakout of your local pocket

. I think you should attend some socials might be good for you. Anyways I don't want to hog your thread

so I hope you decide to go in the end and have a fantastic time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't chat to any local females tbh, it's a very small island where I live and everyone knows everyone so I keep things discreet

that's the beauty of the internet , it allows you to breakout of your local pocket

. I think you should attend some socials might be good for you. Anyways I don't want to hog your thread

so I hope you decide to go in the end and have a fantastic time.

Thank you, I'm looking forward to it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go but go with no expectations.

That way it will feel more natural for you.

Most clubs are full of nice outgoing folk who will make you feel welcome."
thank you, I'm looking forward to the new experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go to a club you'll find most people have what would probably be deemed as 'normal' bodies, with just a few serious 'gym bunnies'. Apart from the few who love themselves and swagger around most people are just normal like you. You'll feel welcome, won't be short of company, socially or otherwise and will find some fantastic people attending, some of whom are likely to become firm and genuine friends. Good luck and go for it!

M & E xx

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

"If you go to a club you'll find most people have what would probably be deemed as 'normal' bodies, with just a few serious 'gym bunnies'. Apart from the few who love themselves and swagger around most people are just normal like you. You'll feel welcome, won't be short of company, socially or otherwise and will find some fantastic people attending, some of whom are likely to become firm and genuine friends. Good luck and go for it!

M & E xx"

Beautifully and succinctly put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M & E xx

Beautifully and succinctly put. "

Cheers mate! We weren't exactly inundated with people making us feel welcome on our first visit, but we've realised the more we relax the more approachable we are too. We've all been first timers at some point. All the best. Mark (& Ellen).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M & E xx"

^^^^ yep this

I think most people assume that when you walk through that club door you will be presented by women who look like supermodels and fit blokes hung like porn stars....

The reality is that the clientel are like you would see in a trip to tescos (without clothing) ... i.e all sorts of people... shapes, sizes etc etc

you certainly cant second guess the sort of person that frequents a club...

we play 'spot the perv' when in the Prem Inn bar of the local one near Chams... many a time we have said "nah they wont be going" only to see them an hour later strutting their stuff...

you cant tell.... (except for the Prem next to Xtasia... thats full of pervs..always)

or summat

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