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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?"" Years ago, I doubt most would have given it a second thought but fucking a d*unk stranger now needs careful consideration. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. | |||
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"Tipsy and flat out d*unk is a different thing entirely. " Is it? How could you tell if someone you'd never met was tipsy or d*unk? | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?"" D*unk and tipsy are two different beasts.. I've had sex in both states and would have no problem giving consent. On those grounds I feel that a tipsy person is in full mental control and would have no problem. D*unk.. in a club.. Not my cup of tea if I'm honest.. but 25yr old me would have loved it.. As for consent.. I'd sit back and see what happens. Let her take control. If I was concerned enough that she was so d*unk that there were consent issues.. I'd be gone. I'd look for a friend of hers and make sure she's looked after.. not drowning in her own vomit in the hot tub. Sex and alcohol go hand in hand for a lot of us.. personally I prefer a stone cold sober woman who knows exactly what she wants.. drinks to boost confidence or let guards down if needed.. but not d*unk.. d*unks aren't even fun to talk to if you're sober.. let alone kiss. | |||
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"If there is a doubt, no has to be the answer." this.. factor in ones gut feeling and if it doesn't feel right then go with that.. | |||
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"That's why I carry consent forms Cant be too careful now!" If they're pre-signed it's not valid. So I learned | |||
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"Tipsy and flat out d*unk is a different thing entirely. Is it? How could you tell if someone you'd never met was tipsy or d*unk?" Loss of consciousness. Not being able to string a sentence together. The usual tell tale signs really oh and being able to say YES I would like to have sex. | |||
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"Nooo if d*unk, tipsy or in a questionable state of mind 'stay back' big chance will cameback to bite u! Wld u risk it for a chocolate biscuit " you mean... double dark chocolate hob nob..? tempting.. | |||
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"Nooo if d*unk, tipsy or in a questionable state of mind 'stay back' big chance will cameback to bite u! Wld u risk it for a chocolate biscuit you mean... double dark chocolate hob nob..? tempting.. " Orange mcvitie chocolate digestive and I'm on it like Sonic | |||
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"Nooo if d*unk, tipsy or in a questionable state of mind 'stay back' big chance will cameback to bite u! Wld u risk it for a chocolate biscuit you mean... double dark chocolate hob nob..? tempting.. Orange mcvitie chocolate digestive and I'm on it like Sonic " truly dangerous... | |||
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"Nooo if d*unk, tipsy or in a questionable state of mind 'stay back' big chance will cameback to bite u! Wld u risk it for a chocolate biscuit you mean... double dark chocolate hob nob..? tempting.. " Lol don't mind but of white choc chip cookie myself yum | |||
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"Nooo if d*unk, tipsy or in a questionable state of mind 'stay back' big chance will cameback to bite u! Wld u risk it for a chocolate biscuit you mean... double dark chocolate hob nob..? tempting.. Lol don't mind but of white choc chip cookie myself yum " or both... | |||
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"If she can hold a coherent conversation then its probably safe. If in doubt dont bother just get the number and see if she is interested still once sober." Well, she asked if I had a condom on me. | |||
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"Fuck her use precaution give false name and address lol" That's terrible! | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?"" I would say it is better to avoid, if there is any doubt of how tipsy/d*unk, someone is. Could be a comeback and do you really want to be with someone who is under the influence! My hubby always steers clear of these ladies, he prefers someone to want to be with him, for him and not because she's a bit merry, also can be tricky, if she changes her mind, part way through play. | |||
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"That's why I carry consent forms Cant be too careful now! If they're pre-signed it's not valid. So I learned " Rookie mistake, always get someone to witness and sign it too | |||
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"Too many people drink too much in clubs, to a point where consent is not given and there have been incidents where the police have been involved, typically people are ordering doubles at the bar or in the case of clubs that let you bring your own, the guests just bring far too much drink, this also seems to be more a problem with the ladies as the men are usually the drivers! Take responsibility for yourselves, if you like getting pissed go to the pub, if you want to swing, yes moderately drink and play, seems to have got to the point where some clubs are like d*unk social clubs with a fumble at the end of the night, how come most play doesn't start till gone 11? X" you're expressing most of my views on club life | |||
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"Too many people drink too much in clubs, to a point where consent is not given and there have been incidents where the police have been involved, typically people are ordering doubles at the bar or in the case of clubs that let you bring your own, the guests just bring far too much drink, this also seems to be more a problem with the ladies as the men are usually the drivers! Take responsibility for yourselves, if you like getting pissed go to the pub, if you want to swing, yes moderately drink and play, seems to have got to the point where some clubs are like d*unk social clubs with a fumble at the end of the night, how come most play doesn't start till gone 11? X you're expressing most of my views on club life " Must admit, we have wondered why the play doesn't seem to start until so late. We have left before any opportunities arose in the past due to being tired. | |||
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"Too many people drink too much in clubs, to a point where consent is not given and there have been incidents where the police have been involved, typically people are ordering doubles at the bar or in the case of clubs that let you bring your own, the guests just bring far too much drink, this also seems to be more a problem with the ladies as the men are usually the drivers! Take responsibility for yourselves, if you like getting pissed go to the pub, if you want to swing, yes moderately drink and play, seems to have got to the point where some clubs are like d*unk social clubs with a fumble at the end of the night, how come most play doesn't start till gone 11? X you're expressing most of my views on club life Must admit, we have wondered why the play doesn't seem to start until so late. We have left before any opportunities arose in the past due to being tired." Yep the social part and excessive drinking early on is followed by the awkward fumble, classic swinger club fun and oh so classy | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?"" I wouldn't go near any d*unk woman ever! I like my women to know what I am doing and why. Same with drugs etc | |||
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"Too many people drink too much in clubs, to a point where consent is not given and there have been incidents where the police have been involved, typically people are ordering doubles at the bar or in the case of clubs that let you bring your own, the guests just bring far too much drink, this also seems to be more a problem with the ladies as the men are usually the drivers! Take responsibility for yourselves, if you like getting pissed go to the pub, if you want to swing, yes moderately drink and play, seems to have got to the point where some clubs are like d*unk social clubs with a fumble at the end of the night, how come most play doesn't start till gone 11? X you're expressing most of my views on club life Must admit, we have wondered why the play doesn't seem to start until so late. We have left before any opportunities arose in the past due to being tired. Yep the social part and excessive drinking early on is followed by the awkward fumble, classic swinger club fun and oh so classy " Yeah it's a shame. We understand that people want to socialise and probably weigh up their options first, but we have been in clubs where nothing starts until an hour before closing! | |||
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"Best to walk away and be a gentleman than to carry on and be a scumbag, knowing you did the right thing should be more rewarding than anything else " Hahahaha yer if yer name is Mother Teresa lmaox | |||
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"thought that wasthe idea of going to a club ,get tipsy ,have fun" You could get into trouble for taking advantage even though we were all naked | |||
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"Third post by the OP on the same subject - who's tipsy? " I couldn't delete the other ones posted on the wrong page | |||
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"Consent is key" An alleged incident took place at Eurekas regarding consent which the police are still investigating, wonder whether alcohol played a part? | |||
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"Fuck her use precaution give false name and address lol" You think that's funny? | |||
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"It seems that most of you use alcohol to enable you to have sex. It explains why I can walk around a club at 10 at night semi naked, only to be met with frightened, sober people who back away. " So true, scared, unable to communicate or even look you in the eye, all changes by 12 when your playing and they've got some Dutch courage | |||
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"If there is a doubt, no has to be the answer." absolutely this..... plus my conscience kicks in | |||
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"It seems that most of you use alcohol to enable you to have sex. It explains why I can walk around a club at 10 at night semi naked, only to be met with frightened, sober people who back away. " the truth is it takes courage to approach a pretty lady plus you can make it easy by hitting on whoever you want | |||
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"You have to weigh up situation if it doesn't feel right don't do it. I have been in the situation of the wife of a couple we met being blind d*unk. She was all for playing but I felt uncomfortable so refused. My feeling is that if somebody needs to get paralytic to play then they are doing it for the wrong reasons." We both agree with this and have been in a similar situation. We made our excuses and left. We don't want people having regrets in the morning! | |||
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"Tipsy and flat out d*unk is a different thing entirely. Is it? How could you tell if someone you'd never met was tipsy or d*unk?" This i was wandering too | |||
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"Fuck her use precaution give false name and address lol You think that's funny? " Funnier than the predictable white knight answers. Fortunately, it's not a problem i have because i find d*unk women annoying as fuck. I'd rather go home and have a wank than sit and chat to one. | |||
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"I've seen the antics of a d*unk woman in a club before ~ mixed signals given out, one minute up for having fun next telling people to fuck off. She ended up either asleep / passed out at the end of the night, splayed all over the sofa in the lounge area. Irresponsible behaviour from her & a red flag for others to steer well clear of. " Same At my local club she had actually fallen off a chair and had to be escorted her room ... At a house party at mine a few drinks later and she was causing arguments Red flag red flag I would be nervous as a bloke .... thing is they can be tipsy to start then drink kicks in and they are paryletic Just not worth the risk x | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?"" So which is it? Was she tipsy or d*unk beyond the ability to consent? One of the fun things being a bloke is legally when d*unk beyond the point you could legally consent yourself, you are still required to be able to determine if somone else is too d*unk to consent | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" So which is it? Was she tipsy or d*unk beyond the ability to consent? One of the fun things being a bloke is legally when d*unk beyond the point you could legally consent yourself, you are still required to be able to determine if somone else is too d*unk to consent" If you get d*unk that is your responsibility. | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" So which is it? Was she tipsy or d*unk beyond the ability to consent? One of the fun things being a bloke is legally when d*unk beyond the point you could legally consent yourself, you are still required to be able to determine if somone else is too d*unk to consent If you get d*unk that is your responsibility. " Unless you're female? | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" So which is it? Was she tipsy or d*unk beyond the ability to consent? One of the fun things being a bloke is legally when d*unk beyond the point you could legally consent yourself, you are still required to be able to determine if somone else is too d*unk to consent If you get d*unk that is your responsibility. Unless you're female? " | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?"" Yes. If you sign a legally binding contract say marriage while d*unk. It's still a contract by your consent. Women just get a pussy pass as the same law will not be applied to them. | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" Yes. If you sign a legally binding contract say marriage while d*unk. It's still a contract by your consent. Women just get a pussy pass as the same law will not be applied to them." No if you sign a contract while d*unk it does not apply | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" Yes. If you sign a legally binding contract say marriage while d*unk. It's still a contract by your consent. Women just get a pussy pass as the same law will not be applied to them. No if you sign a contract while d*unk it does not apply " Oh it does. You can have it over turned but it is binding at first. You can sign a marriage contract or change your will while under the influence and it be binding. Then you have to prove you were under the influence to over turn it. | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" Yes. If you sign a legally binding contract say marriage while d*unk. It's still a contract by your consent. Women just get a pussy pass as the same law will not be applied to them. No if you sign a contract while d*unk it does not apply Oh it does. You can have it over turned but it is binding at first. You can sign a marriage contract or change your will while under the influence and it be binding. Then you have to prove you were under the influence to over turn it." So yeah it doesn't apply. Not to mention no lawyer or court official would let you sign a document while shitfaced | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" Yes. If you sign a legally binding contract say marriage while d*unk. It's still a contract by your consent. Women just get a pussy pass as the same law will not be applied to them. No if you sign a contract while d*unk it does not apply Oh it does. You can have it over turned but it is binding at first. You can sign a marriage contract or change your will while under the influence and it be binding. Then you have to prove you were under the influence to over turn it. So yeah it doesn't apply. Not to mention no lawyer or court official would let you sign a document while shitfaced" Many people make contacts with a lawyer or court room. They seek these things out tonight turn them. You can sell your car while pissed Buy a new phone contract Sell your house by putting it up at the casino | |||
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"Guys, what would you do if a tipsy lady starts hitting on you in a club? A lady I met in the jacuzzi invited me, her friend was there (not d*unk, I think) and I got a bit scared because I didn't want any come backs. What should I have done? My dick was telling me "we are all here to get laid anyways" my brain was saying "can a d*unk give consent?" Yes. If you sign a legally binding contract say marriage while d*unk. It's still a contract by your consent. Women just get a pussy pass as the same law will not be applied to them. No if you sign a contract while d*unk it does not apply Oh it does. You can have it over turned but it is binding at first. You can sign a marriage contract or change your will while under the influence and it be binding. Then you have to prove you were under the influence to over turn it. So yeah it doesn't apply. Not to mention no lawyer or court official would let you sign a document while shitfaced" Youve never been to vegas my friend! People lose houses and cars everyday gambling while shitfaced and people get married all everyday while shitfaced in vegas | |||
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"My advice would be to ensure someone else is present who can vouch for the fact that she was compis mentus and not completely legless. Preferably two people in fact, to ensure that the only reliable witness isn;t just one of her friends. If all else fails, just have an innocent smooch, swap numbers and prepare to let that one go. It really isn't worth any potential comebacks. " From the male POV, I think you really just have to assess exactly how wasted she actually is. I totally can't resist when a lady touches my cock in the hot tub (especially if its one I don't know) and it would be extremely rude not to return the favour IMO lol... but I wouldn't take her out of the pool for full sex unless I was absolutely beyond certain she knew what she was doing! | |||
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