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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club? "

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

all good and shit conversations start with the same words...

"hello".....

i'll talk to anyone without any M.O.....

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger"

This otherwise you end up looking like the meerkat sitting guard whilst others are having fun

It can be difficult to overcome the nerves to talk to people but avoid too much alcohol and try putting a meet request on here before you go - it may help you get to know people before you go.

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By *oss and BootsCouple
over a year ago

grantham, lincolnshire

Personally, we like to be approached by a single guy. Shows balls

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Have to says most of the guys we've played with started with a conversation, just general chat. The rest as other have said tends to follow x

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Personally, we like to be approached by a single guy. Shows balls "

Hello there

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Same advice for anyone looking to meet at a club, just mingle and chat. Let the rest follow from there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger

This otherwise you end up looking like the meerkat sitting guard whilst others are having fun

It can be difficult to overcome the nerves to talk to people but avoid too much alcohol and try putting a meet request on here before you go - it may help you get to know people before you go."
i know but the fact remains i am a shy person in real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger

This otherwise you end up looking like the meerkat sitting guard whilst others are having fun

It can be difficult to overcome the nerves to talk to people but avoid too much alcohol and try putting a meet request on here before you go - it may help you get to know people before you go. i know but the fact remains i am a shy person in real "

Unfortunately being shy and swinging doesn't go very well together. Start small with socials and get to know people but I'm sure you've been told similar before.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club? "

I don't think there's any particular winning 'formula', as it all depends who is in when you are, and by that I mean people you are looking to connect with, offset against your 'competition'. It will probably take a few visits for you to get to know people, and not be regarded as just another bloke looking to empty his balls.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger

This otherwise you end up looking like the meerkat sitting guard whilst others are having fun

It can be difficult to overcome the nerves to talk to people but avoid too much alcohol and try putting a meet request on here before you go - it may help you get to know people before you go. i know but the fact remains i am a shy person in real

Unfortunately being shy and swinging doesn't go very well together. Start small with socials and get to know people but I'm sure you've been told similar before."
I see thanks for the advice and have fun

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger

This otherwise you end up looking like the meerkat sitting guard whilst others are having fun

It can be difficult to overcome the nerves to talk to people but avoid too much alcohol and try putting a meet request on here before you go - it may help you get to know people before you go. i know but the fact remains i am a shy person in real "

I am in normal social situations - I couldn't walk into a pub a just chat to people but that is exactly what I do when I walk into a pub for a social or at a club. In this lifestyle it's almost as if a different side of me comes out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys when you go to a swingers club do you single men approach couples or do you wait and let them approach you first to make contact with you or do couples like it for single men to approach them in the club?

I think you need to be proactive, otherwise whilst you are sat twiddling your thumbs waiting; someone else will be stepping up and making an effort.

Ginger

This otherwise you end up looking like the meerkat sitting guard whilst others are having fun

It can be difficult to overcome the nerves to talk to people but avoid too much alcohol and try putting a meet request on here before you go - it may help you get to know people before you go. i know but the fact remains i am a shy person in real

Unfortunately being shy and swinging doesn't go very well together. Start small with socials and get to know people but I'm sure you've been told similar before. I see beside that i blame my weight for it thanks for the advice and have fun "

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