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By *lirtytimes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Winchester

Hi, what are your thoughts about the most relaxed club for nervous newbies to the club scene?

We're definitely not new to the scene in general, and have enjoyed our fair share of 3 sums, 4 sums, 6 sums, etc... ...just thinking about delving into the club world too.

We're looking for somewhere where we can flirt, play maybe with other couples and have fun without either being constantly harassed/stalked by single guys (although no problem with there being some around, NO OFFENCE meant to nice single guys!) or deafened by really loud music.

Thanks for your input. Love from Mr & Mrs Fx

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If you don't want to be "constantly harrassed/stalked" by single guys go to a couples only night.

Sally

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We've found all the club's we've been to have been welcoming.

Have a look at the websites of a few and, as Sally said, go for a couples only night.

Wherever you go, just enjoy the atmosphere and take things at a speed you're comfortable with.

Nita

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Why do you think you will be 'constantly harassed/stalked' by single guys?

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Try us at Jaydees you will love it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to different club and can say we don't really get hassled by single guy(we must be ugly) they say hi and are polite if you say no, then it's a no must single guys will respect your wishes. You may get the odd one that will follow you round but they will soon follow someone else once they see you are not interested in them. If you have any trouble then mention it to a member of staff and they will deal with it.

Don't tar all guys with the same brush we've met some great guys over the years, and the odd bad one but the good guys out weigh the bad one. Go and enjoy your night out and have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try us at Jaydees you will love it here. "

I'd second that! Newbie night at the weekend was brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called racquets in bracknell very relaxed for beginners

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I went to townhouse very relaxed and no pressure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we just popped our club cherry at BGHS in Brighton. We chose it because it's a nudist spa first and foremost so we could build some confidence before doing anything rather than feeling committed to playing because we were there.

Worked a treat for us with the added bonus of a nice sauna and steam

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Atlantis EVOLUTION in Burslem is my local club. It's very friendly and there is no single guy stalking you, whether you go on a Friday when single men are allowed or a Saturday when it's couples and ladies only. The club also run occasional newbie nights too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try us at Jaydees you will love it here.

I'd second that! Newbie night at the weekend was brilliant! "

We'd second that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eureka in host a couples and single ladies night next one is Friday 28th July xx Great club with spa facilities xx Relaxed atmosphere xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaydees is a great club I go as a single female and it's always fine even the single men there are always respectful of the rules there.

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By *lirtytimes OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Winchester

Thanks everyone for the thoughts and suggestions. We shall definitely look into all the clubs suggested!

The only reason we are wary of some single guys (and we know its definitely NOT all of them!) is from personal experiences relayed to us by other friends on here... but we do appreciate that not everyone's experience will be the same!

Love and hugs,

Mr & Mrs F. x

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By *ce_and_fireCouple
over a year ago

over the rainbow

Angels in melksham weve been there a few times just a normalsat night not cples only didn't get the conga line which weve had at other clubs and gotta day very rrelaxed atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the Vanilla Alternative. Great venue. On the last Dark Desires party there were quite a few 1st timers. Some spent so much time on the dancefloor and socialising they had to organize a little after party to get their play on!

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