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By *iscreetfun1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

near

Hi, Ive been thinking of going to a club for a long time, but am very nervous to walk in alone, I'm shy and worried I'll sit in the corner until I leave. Is there anyone or couple willing to take me with them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me n wife going to quest sat well I hope we are shes very nervous

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Hi, Ive been thinking of going to a club for a long time, but am very nervous to walk in alone, I'm shy and worried I'll sit in the corner until I leave. Is there anyone or couple willing to take me with them??"

Op I'm afraid you will probably find that most people do not want to babysit nervous newbies to clubs.

We were all new once but we plucked up the courage to walk through that door. Think of it like going to the pub, except that somewhere in the building someone will probably be having sex (not too dissimilar to some of the rougher pubs in some towns lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what to expect

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I don't know what to expect"

Do you go to pubs?

A club is no different than a regular pub or night club. People have a few drinks and socialise with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at what point does it change to anyone fancy a shag

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

of course we're all nervous at first .. just go and stop worrying about it..

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

At my local club ( Atlantis Evolution in Stoke) they really look after people going for the first time .

You would get shown around the club, and then have chance to ask any questions. You will be given tips , such as don't sit in a corner looking terrified.

It's best to hover near the bar. You can chat to bar staff and people waiting to be served.

At Atlantis they always introduce you to some regulars , so you have someone to chat to initially until you feel comfortable.

I suggest you read the website and phone the club to find out more about the club and what to expect.

Everyone is nervous going to a club first time , but often regulars enjoy chatting to newbies and telling them their best funny stories

I am sure most clubs give you a tour and if you phone beforehand and explain you are nervous they would help you find your feet. It's a business, they want you to enjoy the night and come back

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Did I kill the thread, or just give awesome advise that can't be added to ?

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Also nervous newbies, hope to get brave enough to go to atlantis, what is age range like on couples night we are pushing 50 and would feel uncomfortable if it is a young crowd

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Hi, Ive been thinking of going to a club for a long time, but am very nervous to walk in alone, I'm shy and worried I'll sit in the corner until I leave. Is there anyone or couple willing to take me with them??"

You don't sound too shy after reading your profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same issue, planning to make it on July 1st in South west. Anyone would keen on joining please pm. Thanks

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Did I kill the thread, or just give awesome advise that can't be added to ? "

You gave good advice, it's just the other threads about single guys in clubs may be having an effect, or people have just read your advice and are making their own minds up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first night in a club has taken me ages wife so nervous

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By *hruster1969Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Also nervous newbies, hope to get brave enough to go to atlantis, what is age range like on couples night we are pushing 50 and would feel uncomfortable if it is a young crowd"

Anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most clubs I've been too give a tour to newbies be them couples or singles. Generally pointing out or introducing to a few of the better regulars...like many say it's not much difference to a local bar or club....probably friendlier actually...I mean a single guy doesn't get glared at or threatened in clubs for ogling the ladies where he might down town..find the social areas chat and introduce yourself and avoid following ladies around unless asked by them to go somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tips!

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By *ooliusMan
over a year ago

Dublin 7

Awesome advice Lizzy! It's great to be kind to newbies. Most people forget very quickly what the first time was like.

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