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By *knick45 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hi

I'd love to go to a club but I get nervous and abit shy on my own. Would love a lady or a couple to come with me.

Thanks

Nick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really your a bloke what have you got to be scared of

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

TBH I still get nervous going to clubs - not my usual club I might add but a new club.

So i went to cjs in Glasgow - first new club in about 3 years.

I was shitting it a bit, so I know where your coming from op

I would say having a drink at the bar helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'd love to go to a club but I get nervous and abit shy on my own. Would love a lady or a couple to come with me.

Thanks

Nick"

Yeah we all want that! You have no chance.....

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi gents.

Without trying to be intentionally mean - the general consensus on here is to grow a pair and just go by yourself.

It's nerve wracking for everyone on their first visit. We have all been newbies so we do understand how it feels to go for the first time. It's no less nerve wracking going as part of a couple than as a single. It can be much harder for single ladies. I've never even been to the pub alone but I plucked up the courage to go to a swingers club alone.

A few tips to get you started.

If you need it have a drink or two for Dutch courage but don't overdo it. Pissed isn't sexy.

Plan your visit in advance and contact the club before you go - many clubs have restrictions on single men.

Go with no expectations of play and if anything happens its a bonus.

Be warm, friendly and chatty. The social aspect is just as important as the sex. You are unlikely to be invited to play with anyone you haven't chatted to.

Most important just relax and enjoy the atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi gents.

Without trying to be intentionally mean - the general consensus on here is to grow a pair and just go by yourself.

It's nerve wracking for everyone on their first visit. We have all been newbies so we do understand how it feels to go for the first time. It's no less nerve wracking going as part of a couple than as a single. It can be much harder for single ladies. I've never even been to the pub alone but I plucked up the courage to go to a swingers club alone.

A few tips to get you started.

If you need it have a drink or two for Dutch courage but don't overdo it. Pissed isn't sexy.

Plan your visit in advance and contact the club before you go - many clubs have restrictions on single men.

Go with no expectations of play and if anything happens its a bonus.

Be warm, friendly and chatty. The social aspect is just as important as the sex. You are unlikely to be invited to play with anyone you haven't chatted to.

Most important just relax and enjoy the atmosphere "

Fantastic response, going to a club without an outcome dependency does make it more fun, you get to enjoy the atmosphere, which in turn makes it easier to build attraction.

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By *knick45 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hi gents.

Without trying to be intentionally mean - the general consensus on here is to grow a pair and just go by yourself.

It's nerve wracking for everyone on their first visit. We have all been newbies so we do understand how it feels to go for the first time. It's no less nerve wracking going as part of a couple than as a single. It can be much harder for single ladies. I've never even been to the pub alone but I plucked up the courage to go to a swingers club alone.

A few tips to get you started.

If you need it have a drink or two for Dutch courage but don't overdo it. Pissed isn't sexy.

Plan your visit in advance and contact the club before you go - many clubs have restrictions on single men.

Go with no expectations of play and if anything happens its a bonus.

Be warm, friendly and chatty. The social aspect is just as important as the sex. You are unlikely to be invited to play with anyone you haven't chatted to.

Most important just relax and enjoy the atmosphere "

Thanks for the advice. Yes I've grown a pair and am going to a club on Saturday night

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Hi gents.

Without trying to be intentionally mean - the general consensus on here is to grow a pair and just go by yourself.

It's nerve wracking for everyone on their first visit. We have all been newbies so we do understand how it feels to go for the first time. It's no less nerve wracking going as part of a couple than as a single. It can be much harder for single ladies. I've never even been to the pub alone but I plucked up the courage to go to a swingers club alone.

A few tips to get you started.

If you need it have a drink or two for Dutch courage but don't overdo it. Pissed isn't sexy.

Plan your visit in advance and contact the club before you go - many clubs have restrictions on single men.

Go with no expectations of play and if anything happens its a bonus.

Be warm, friendly and chatty. The social aspect is just as important as the sex. You are unlikely to be invited to play with anyone you haven't chatted to.

Most important just relax and enjoy the atmosphere

Thanks for the advice. Yes I've grown a pair and am going to a club on Saturday night "

Yay, have fun OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bite the bullet and go and enjoy yourself

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