FabSwingers.com forum: Club introduction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm really interested in the swingers club scene, I've had a few meets on here but I'm starting to believe more and more that trying to club scene is where it's at. I would really like someone F/MF to attended with me (this does not mean we have to play but just so I have some form of guide for the evening that's got more experience)

By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP very few people are likely to offer to take you to a club for your first visit. The general opinion is you should just pluck up the courage and go. Everyone is nervous on their first club visit - it's only natural and it would be a bit odd if you weren't.

Do you walk into a pub on your own? As a middle aged single woman I've never done that but even i got brave enough to go to a club.

Just do some research before you go just so you don't get turned away. Check out the club websites and phone them beforehand. Some clubs do restrict single men and some clubs have age restrictions too. When you get to the club ask to be shown around. They will introduce you to some regulars too.

Make sure you mingle and chat to people. Don't just stand/sit by yourself. Be warm,friendly and chatty. Go with no expectations and if you get to play that's a bonus.

Most of all just enjoy the atmosphere and experience. Once you've been once you will probably wonder why you were so nervous.

By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest Leeds is close to you. It is a clean, classy club and very friendly. It is also open a couple of afternoons when it is quieter than an evening and lots of single men there. You can socialise in the bar or Jacuzzi. Have a look at their website.

Sally

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Have no expectations for your first club visit as you won't leave disappointed and anything that does occur is a bonus.

A decent club will give you a tour and a chat about etiquette and rules if you tell them you are new

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

All good advice in the posts above mate, you do just have to pluck up the courage and go for it. These places won't turn out to be what you think they are, and may even turn out to be a disappointment, but you have to find out for yourself. What have you got to lose? If in doubt, try it; you'll never know otherwise

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all, think I'll have to do as said and have a little bit of a research and attend as a single male, don't except meets especially not on a first time visit, it's more the experience and to learn more about the lifestyle etc.