FabSwingers.com forum: first club visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm really tempted to go to my local club next week. It would be my first ever club experience so I'm in 2 minds weather to take the plunge.

What was your first club experience like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I'm really tempted to go to my local club next week. It would be my first ever club experience so I'm in 2 minds weather to take the plunge.

What was your first club experience like? "

We love decent clubs, have been to a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary as fuck but great once in there.

Strap on the big boy pants and go. Have zero expectations of anything happening other than it being an eye opening experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

Form an orderly queue Gentlemen!!

Your inbox is SO going to be swamped now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

Form an orderly queue Gentlemen!!

Your inbox is SO going to be swamped now!!

As if.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Scary as fuck but great once in there.

Strap on the big boy pants and go. Have zero expectations of anything happening other than it being an eye opening experience

Good advice.

Best behaviour is essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

Form an orderly queue Gentlemen!!

Your inbox is SO going to be swamped now!!

As if.

Woah there Shergar!

Hello pretty maiden. Hop up on my steed and we will ride off to a club of your choice.

Mind my mace when you get on. It has a life of its own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

Form an orderly queue Gentlemen!!

Your inbox is SO going to be swamped now!!

As if.

Woah there Shergar!

Hello pretty maiden. Hop up on my steed and we will ride off to a club of your choice.

Mind my mace when you get on. It has a life of its own

Cool

I do really want to try one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club before even joining fab.

It was absolutely horrible and almost put me off swinging all together. Marc convinced me to give it one more try, though. So we went to a different club a few months later and I've loved it ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

Come on, I'll be ya wing woman xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

Come on, I'll be ya wing woman xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol "

Which one are you thinking of going to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol

Which one are you thinking of going to?"

It's one that is like 2mins walk from my house called Valhalla

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways. "

Have you ever been to Valhalla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol

Which one are you thinking of going to?

It's one that is like 2mins walk from my house called Valhalla "

Oooh if it's so close you *must* go, you can run away easily if you need to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol

Which one are you thinking of going to?

It's one that is like 2mins walk from my house called Valhalla

Oooh if it's so close you *must* go, you can run away easily if you need to!"

More chance of bumping into people I know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol

Which one are you thinking of going to?

It's one that is like 2mins walk from my house called Valhalla

Oooh if it's so close you *must* go, you can run away easily if you need to!

More chance of bumping into people I know lol "

But if they're there too, what's the harm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol

Which one are you thinking of going to?

It's one that is like 2mins walk from my house called Valhalla

Oooh if it's so close you *must* go, you can run away easily if you need to!

More chance of bumping into people I know lol

But if they're there too, what's the harm?"

I guess that's true. I know my ex's mum goes there akwatd lol inbox me hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the wrong club

at the wrong time of day

and with the wrong guy.

Never been to another again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I went to the wrong club

at the wrong time of day

and with the wrong guy.

Never been to another again

What made it so bad? Inbox it if you don't want to say publicly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm. I was really nervous and almost bottled out of it. But I went and apart from a few d*unk pushy couples, it was fantastic. I met so many people that night and still go to clubs with them now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm. I was really nervous and almost bottled out of it. But I went and apart from a few d*unk pushy couples, it was fantastic. I met so many people that night and still go to clubs with them now

See pushy people would annoy the hell out of me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Erm. I was really nervous and almost bottled out of it. But I went and apart from a few d*unk pushy couples, it was fantastic. I met so many people that night and still go to clubs with them now

See pushy people would annoy the hell out of me "

Just ignore them. Or tell them to fuck off. Either or.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to Chams before we joined here we'd got preconceived ideas that it would be seedy but when we got there we really enjoyed it and haven't looked back since it's the only place we play at this moment in time, so just go for it just be respectful and you'll have a good time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm. I was really nervous and almost bottled out of it. But I went and apart from a few d*unk pushy couples, it was fantastic. I met so many people that night and still go to clubs with them now

See pushy people would annoy the hell out of me

Just ignore them. Or tell them to fuck off. Either or.

I suppose that's true. Unless there abit of alright lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We went to Chams before we joined here we'd got preconceived ideas that it would be seedy but when we got there we really enjoyed it and haven't looked back since it's the only place we play at this moment in time, so just go for it just be respectful and you'll have a good time"

Aww thanks

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I'm pretty much the same tbh. Scared of sitting in the corner on my own lol "

Don't sit in the corner then! Go and enjoy it. If you can go in a pub alone, you can go in a club.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I was really nervous but had a great night and would definitely do it again with the right person. Don't think I'm brave enough to go on my own!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was really nervous but had a great night and would definitely do it again with the right person. Don't think I'm brave enough to go on my own!"

Why not hun your a good looking woman im sure you'd be okay x

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Erm...you've looked at the website for the club you want to visit right? Is it really the right place for you? Wouldn't want you to go in, take a look around then run screaming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I can save you from the men and be your partner in crime

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways.

Have you ever been to Valhalla? "

Yes just once though but was there for the dungeon not sex.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't go on my own on a normal night unless I had made contact with at least one person who I knew was going, Maybe send a few messages to people and ask if they are going or go on a fab social night,

The first time I went I knew someone who was going and met them there, I had a amazing time but before she arrived I felt like a lost sheep, I did try and talk to a few people but it didn't get passed hi how are you doing, You may have better look but that's just my opinion on your first visit and going alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways.

Have you ever been to Valhalla?

Yes just once though but was there for the dungeon not sex. "

Bloody hell sounds like I will get bummed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet been to one. Need a partner in crime and an ounce of courage.

I can save you from the men and be your partner in crime

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It was simple, very exciting and relaxed. Went alone, staff made me feel very welcome, showed me around and checked I was ok later. Chatted to quite a lot of people, a few laughs, lots of offers and people lured over like magnets, waiting for a turn.

I just kept it light. Didn't stay in one place for too long. Everyone was friendly

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

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"Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways.

Have you ever been to Valhalla?

Yes just once though but was there for the dungeon not sex.

Bloody hell sounds like I will get bummed lol "

How? What? Why you say that?

Flogged or spanked tied up maybe not sure where you are getting bummed from when I said no sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways.

Have you ever been to Valhalla?

Yes just once though but was there for the dungeon not sex.

Bloody hell sounds like I will get bummed lol

How? What? Why you say that?

Flogged or spanked tied up maybe not sure where you are getting bummed from when I said no sex

I was kidding

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Some girls let me tag along with them god bless em not looked back since I've been to a few now and love them all in their own different ways.

Have you ever been to Valhalla?

Yes just once though but was there for the dungeon not sex.

Bloody hell sounds like I will get bummed lol

How? What? Why you say that?

Flogged or spanked tied up maybe not sure where you are getting bummed from when I said no sex

I was kidding "

Oh was that what that was, my bad

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

What was your first club experience like? "

Great. Was fortunate to be taken to one by a really nice couple from Fab. Definitely recommended to just take the plunge and go for it.

I've found that, as a single guy, if you make an effort look presentable, say hi and smile you'll soon break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st time I went with a friend. It was mid week and the club was empty. Only 2 guys in and an older couple. We shagged in a private room then left.

2nd time was better. I went alone to a very busy party night and got chatted up by a gorgeous woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been to Valhalla but was a while ago when they were just getting it up and running. It's a big place and hosts are very friendly.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Bit of an anti-climax really; felt like a working men's social club on a Sunday afternoon tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit of an anti-climax really; felt like a working men's social club on a Sunday afternoon tbh

That bad?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Bit of an anti-climax really; felt like a working men's social club on a Sunday afternoon tbh

That bad? "

I did wonder why I'd been so nervous beforehand, and although I did make the effort to chat to people in there, I did wish I'd either arranged to meet someone I knew in there, or gone in with a friend to begin with, as I did feel like a spare part on the night.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Sorry if I killed this thread with a less than positive post mate, was just being honest

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We've seen first time single men at clubs having a whale of a time. Everything has a first time, you either go for it or stay home.....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"We've seen first time single men at clubs having a whale of a time. Everything has a first time, you either go for it or stay home....."

If I'd stayed at home, I wouldn't have been there in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to try one but a little unsure which one to go, as I can only go on a Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to chams a few times but always with a female partner, personally I wouldn't go on my own, although it was an eye opening experience and lots of fun........ just having company made it much more pleasant

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"We've seen first time single men at clubs having a whale of a time. Everything has a first time, you either go for it or stay home.....

If I'd stayed at home, I wouldn't have been there in the first place

General theme, not you personally....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I've been to chams a few times but always with a female partner, personally I wouldn't go on my own, although it was an eye opening experience and lots of fun........ just having company made it much more pleasant "

I'm hoping to go with a regular playmate next time

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"We've seen first time single men at clubs having a whale of a time. Everything has a first time, you either go for it or stay home.....

If I'd stayed at home, I wouldn't have been there in the first place

General theme, not you personally...."

No worries

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I went to amours club in manchester back in January and it was my first club visit, I was nervous at first but just relaxed and socialised with the staff and had a bit off normal conversations with a few guys and some couples... I more or less just behaved myself and remembered what to do and not to do and found myself exploring the club through out the night even though I felt at times being out off my element I embraced it and later on ended up having a bit off play with a sexy welsh lady in the open room and that was good for me but either way if nothing happened with anyone it's not the end off the world and I will happily visit again someday.

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