FabSwingers.com forum: looking for couples or ladies to go swing clubs with

By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"hey there i love to go to more swing clubs but being a single guy im confident but seems hard to chat to people so looking for couples or ladies to come with me so i have company, its ok if no playing im happy to chat make friends, also i dont drive so would help lol "

So you want to go to a club with a woman or a couple. Maybe to chat with them or whatever. How about you just meet them at the club? Would that produce the same result? How would this be different from just chatting to a random couple or woman at this club? Do you see where I'm going with this?

Top tip(s):

1) Identify a club you are going to. It helps if you ARE actually about to go to this club.

2) Put up a meet request via the meets section.

3) See if anyone else is going by checking the meets section.

4) Post about it on the forum, possibly with a view to arranging to meet. Generate a little hype and maybe you'll encourage someone else to pop along.

5) If you hit it off with a random couple or woman, maybe take it to PM. Possibly with a view to arranging to meet. DO NOT expect that anything mare than making a new friend/chatting will happen.

If you are even an average type of nice guy, you may end up with a handful of folks that you can meet at the club. You may even be in a situation where you can't even get to say hello to everyone because you are so busy having fun. The main thing is to go with mindset of "How can I make this fun for US?". This will shape the way you talk to people and you may find random blokes just asking if you want to play with their wives or women just touching you without asking. It's ok, you're allowed to tell them no.

But as I said before, the main thing is to just relax and have FUN!