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By *appily married OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

OK, another newbie question (sorry!), it looks like we've decided to do VA on Saturday however Mrs HM is concerned about what to wear. She's considering wearing a very little net type dress (pic on our profile) however unless she wears a bra this shows off her nips, would this be too much for the bar area of the club or is it really 'less is more'?

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By *anillaguyMan
over a year ago

Kingston

From my experience it would most definitely NOT be out of place in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be completely fine! Often women come in wearing an extra layer and as they get comfortable they change and reveal a little more.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

As my good friend above says, although the dress code at The Vanilla Alternative is 'Dress to Impress', for ladies that can range from something quite formal to an outfit that almost reveals all. The important thing is to wear something you feel comfortable in. Many ladies start the evening off with one outfit and then, as the evening progresses, get changed into either a sexier outfit or just lingerie. After the tasty buffet has been served (10.30-11.00) the dress code is relaxed to allow people wearing just towels, sexy underwear or sometimes nothing at all, to visit the bar and snug social areas.

The Vanilla Alternative is a blank canvas that allows visitors to explore there fantasies in so many respects. There are no expectations, no pressure and everyone is really friendly and respectful of others.

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By *appily married OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Awesome, I think she's going to bring a second outfit and choose on the day depending on how brave she's feeling!

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

I pretty much always wear a corset and mini skirt with heels to start then usually go for like a babydoll type "dress" with my heels

Have fun!! We absolutely LOVE VA!!

Mrs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awesome, I think she's going to bring a second outfit and choose on the day depending on how brave she's feeling!"

You'll both probably end up naked in the hot tub anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awesome, I think she's going to bring a second outfit and choose on the day depending on how brave she's feeling!

You'll both probably end up naked in the hot tub anyway... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, another newbie question (sorry!), it looks like we've decided to do VA on Saturday however Mrs HM is concerned about what to wear. She's considering wearing a very little net type dress (pic on our profile) however unless she wears a bra this shows off her nips, would this be too much for the bar area of the club or is it really 'less is more'?"

the dress will be perfect for VA ,may attract a lot of attention , its couples only on a saturday though ,otherwise id definently go just to see the sexy view ha ha

i can only go on fridays as im a single male

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By *wfunCouple
over a year ago

Margate

It was a nice sexy dress for Mrs _wfun, until we got into the spa and then it was naked all night

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The rule of thumb is to dress with your own comfort in mind first.

Then make sure you look as good as you want to.

That would be fine in the VA, I've seen 'worse' there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, another newbie question (sorry!), it looks like we've decided to do VA on Saturday however Mrs HM is concerned about what to wear. She's considering wearing a very little net type dress (pic on our profile) however unless she wears a bra this shows off her nips, would this be too much for the bar area of the club or is it really 'less is more'?"

I wouldn't worry too much, once you leave the bar you won't be wearing anything anyway. In the bar area it's pretty relaxed, whatever you feel good in is what I would go with. The ladies I have gone with have gone in what they would wear for a vanilla night out.

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