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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think is the best ratio of men to women on a couples and singles night? I'm thinking 3 guys to every 2 girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd not like that ratio; but then I'm bi and looking for ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the more the better, I would like at least 2 to 1, or even more as it gives more choice, but I am a single woman and couples would probably disagree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I'd not like that ratio; but then I'm bi and looking for ladies. "

What would be your ideal ratio?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me the more the better, I would like at least 2 to 1, or even more as it gives more choice, but I am a single woman and couples would probably disagree."

Don't you think 2 to 1 just looks too intimidating when the crowd is quite large?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M:F 1:6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me the more the better, I would like at least 2 to 1, or even more as it gives more choice, but I am a single woman and couples would probably disagree.

Don't you think 2 to 1 just looks too intimidating when the crowd is quite large?"

Not to me, but obviously others have different views.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"M:F 1:6 "

I like that ratio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're asking with a view to balancing numbers on a club night you're organising, bear in mind you need to over-estimate the numbers a bit due to no-shows. Experienced club owners will no doubt offer far better advice than this...but any vanilla party I've organised I've always reckoned on at least a third (of either or both sexes) not turning up and "over-invited" accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're asking with a view to balancing numbers on a club night you're organising, bear in mind you need to over-estimate the numbers a bit due to no-shows. Experienced club owners will no doubt offer far better advice than this...but any vanilla party I've organised I've always reckoned on at least a third (of either or both sexes) not turning up and "over-invited" accordingly."

I agree. Thanks for the advice.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

A perfect club ratio would be 2 men to 1 woman

Most clubs are 3-1 or more

However that's more choice for us single ladies so I won't complain

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By *anillaguyMan
over a year ago

Kingston


"M:F 1:6 "

I like the way you think

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As a couple we would prefer 50/50

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"What do you think is the best ratio of men to women on a couples and singles night? I'm thinking 3 guys to every 2 girls."

Also, try to consider the quality over quantity. What would 1 smart, well behaved guy that YOU personally know be worth in comparison to X random guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think is the best ratio of men to women on a couples and singles night? I'm thinking 3 guys to every 2 girls."

Why would you want more men than women in a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you think is the best ratio of men to women on a couples and singles night? I'm thinking 3 guys to every 2 girls.

Also, try to consider the quality over quantity. What would 1 smart, well behaved guy that YOU personally know be worth in comparison to X random guys?"

Thinking about crowd dynamics, and the immediate perception of people entering the club. That first impression.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you think is the best ratio of men to women on a couples and singles night? I'm thinking 3 guys to every 2 girls.

Why would you want more men than women in a club?"

Well many couples like to find an extra guy.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"A perfect club ratio would be 2 men to 1 woman

Most clubs are 3-1 or more

However that's more choice for us single ladies so I won't complain "

That works out as a single guy for every couple that enters.. that could be alot of singles and a large herd in one spot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A perfect club ratio would be 2 men to 1 woman

Most clubs are 3-1 or more

However that's more choice for us single ladies so I won't complain

That works out as a single guy for every couple that enters.. that could be alot of singles and a large herd in one spot."

That's what I think. That's why I'm think 2 to 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew you need a degree in statistics to plan this!

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By *iger13Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

very simple maths- if BBC are involved Kate prefers 5:1 M:Kate lol for a club its a dynamic fluid mathematical model, ask an expert

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"very simple maths- if BBC are involved Kate prefers 5:1 M:Kate lol for a club its a dynamic fluid mathematical model, ask an expert "

Guess that's sorted then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is your assuming that couples or single women will hook up with a guy. There is always the couple who only play with other couples etc.

I would say that 60% of all those attending should be a mix of couples and women. The rest being single fellas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more guys the better

Us girls can keep going one after another

The men need a rest lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more guys the better

Us girls can keep going one after another

The men need a rest lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The problem is your assuming that couples or single women will hook up with a guy. There is always the couple who only play with other couples etc.

I would say that 60% of all those attending should be a mix of couples and women. The rest being single fellas.

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But they go on couples nights. I'm talking about couples and singles nights. where single males are allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more guys the better

Us girls can keep going one after another

The men need a rest lol xx"

Need the rest? You're running with the wrong crowd lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is your assuming that couples or single women will hook up with a guy. There is always the couple who only play with other couples etc.

I would say that 60% of all those attending should be a mix of couples and women. The rest being single fellas.

But they go on couples nights. I'm talking about couples and singles nights. where single males are allowed."

I get that. I think it still stands, you're not going to get a 100% mix between groups. So, you need a little float. Sorry to put in less than kindly terms lol.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

our nights we tend to get 2-1 maybe 3-1 depending on no shows but never higher than that.Agreed you need to over estimate the male numbers and usually 40-50 % no show ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10:1 ideally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our nights we tend to get 2-1 maybe 3-1 depending on no shows but never higher than that.Agreed you need to over estimate the male numbers and usually 40-50 % no show .."

Which nights are those Mister Mischief? Interested as I want to try Manchester clubs later in the year. I tried to PM you but am outside your age range (even though I could easily pass for 45)!

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford


"our nights we tend to get 2-1 maybe 3-1 depending on no shows but never higher than that.Agreed you need to over estimate the male numbers and usually 40-50 % no show ..

Which nights are those Mister Mischief? Interested as I want to try Manchester clubs later in the year. I tried to PM you but am outside your age range (even though I could easily pass for 45)!"

Hello i have PM'd you also its curvy thursday @ cupids that we host.Yes you definatly could pass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"10:1 ideally "

I like you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"M:F 1:6 "

Completely agree with this ratio but then I am a single guy

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"A perfect club ratio would be 2 men to 1 woman

Most clubs are 3-1 or more

However that's more choice for us single ladies so I won't complain

That works out as a single guy for every couple that enters.. that could be alot of singles and a large herd in one spot."

That's why I said perfect ratio would be 2-1 it doesn't happen like that very often in clubs,majority of the time it is 3-1 or more (not always more)

I had two years experience organising parties(interracial then bbw),couples would always be counted in as a lady and a man when it came to ratio's,I never saw a herd of singlemen

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