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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So being new to all this scene can people run me through how these clubs ect work

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends on the club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just don't have any knowledge

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Get yourself added to the 'single men' waiting list and plan your 25th birthday party at one

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

https://www.fabswingers.com/clubs/

List of most of the clubs in the UK. They all have links on them so you can have a good read.

Some are wet clubs, some are dry. Some are dress down (togs off, towels on), some are not. Some are large, some are small. Some are dingy, some are classy. Some have special evenings for couples only, some are a free for all.

Have a read through the Swinger Clubs forum for more ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to dress up as a clown when you go to a club.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I just don't have any knowledge "

Anything specific? Ladies have final say. ...its a good laugh and great social scene

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Get yourself added to the 'single men' waiting list and plan your 25th birthday party at one "

He's 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are down South - come to Eureka

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks and apoligises if sounding dumb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm up north and down south all the time so that sounds good

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

and then when your up north come to cupids

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Get yourself added to the 'single men' waiting list and plan your 25th birthday party at one

He's 30. "

So he is! I thought he was 22 for some reason! How odd! That was a real misread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go, enjoy and remember no means no. Chat to people and have fun.

As others have said some are dress up or dress down so check before hand. Also some clubs only let in a certain amount of single guys so I'd ring ahead x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure my eyes will be opened I'll start looking then thanks peeps

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Wow, that's a hugely open question.

Firstly, you're going to need a good few hours spare and a glass of something alcoholic to go through the club lists in the club section above. If you travel about, look for the clubs that you are nearby most often to start off with. Check out the club reviews and follow the link to their website. Some websites are highly informative and have a special page for guys, like ours, others are more basic in their info. Have a look at the calendar of events at the clubs and see what tickles your fancy and at any special terms and conditions for single guys. Some clubs just let you walk in, other clubs restrict the number of guys, which is good for those who like to be in demand!

Once you have found some clubs that you like the look/sound of, call the club up and have a chat to the owner (some have managers) and ask any questions you may have that you couldn't find on the website.You will get a feel for the club by chatting on the phone.

Read the club rules and etiquette and stick to them! You don't want to fall at the first hurdle!

When you take the plunge on your first visit, dress to impress if it's not a dress down club; sod this smart casual malarky...gals like to see a guy who looks after himself and has made an effort. If it's a dress down club, maybe take your own coloured towel so you stand out amongst the sea of white towels? Or wear some nice under crackers instead?

Lastly, use your mouth. No no no...not just for oral sex, but for chatting! A lot of women won't play with a guy unless she has spoken to him first and there's nothing worse than guys skulking around who have lost their tongue. Swinging is VERY social and it's very liberating to chat amongst like minded adults about stuff that you couldn't possibly talk about in the Nags Head!! So turn on the charm (but not too much) and talk to people, mingle, be friendly and don't expect to play at your first visit. Playing should be seen as a bonus.

Good luck on your journey! Oh and lastly, if you message people on here before you go to a club, including club owners, try not to use text speak and use manners. The effort starts before you walk into the club.

Vic xxx

Townhouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't have any knowledge "

hope you give more info than on your last thread OP...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wanna go for the first few times and just chat and see for myself you have been very helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just new to this kinky bird

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

maybe you will turn up to club !

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