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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Finding it difficult to attend a swingers club as a single straight male any advise please x City Designer

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What are you finding difficult? Opening the door?

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Lol yes it's jammed lol , VA only let couples or single women in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try a different club..

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You just look up days single guys are allowed at the club that interests you, put the postcode in your sat-nav, drive there, go in, pay the entrance / join, get a tour round by staff, then relax and chat and maybe meet someone who wants to play.

Simples

MrB

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Lol yes it's jammed lol , VA only let couples or single women in "

No they don't, not every night.

Or maybe go to another club.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

VA let single men in on a Friday night and for their MILF club in a Wednesday.

Most other clubs let single men attend on various nights (Mingles in Colchester for example allows them Friday and Saturday nights I think).

You do have to pre-register with most clubs, and book your attendance in advance as a single male though

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Simples lol

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thanks I will try Fridays and milf night all very new lol but will be fun

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thanks lo have fun

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Clubs are a nightmare for single guys. You're there with 100 others so unless you're Brad Pitt it's difficult.

Also always a few idiots that just stalk people around.

As a voyeur I at least get some enjoyment from it, but much prefer private meets or dogging.

Good luck though.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Slough


"Clubs are a nightmare for single guys. You're there with 100 others so unless you're Brad Pitt it's difficult.

Also always a few idiots that just stalk people around.

As a voyeur I at least get some enjoyment from it, but much prefer private meets or dogging.

Good luck though."

Yup, I'd never go alone. House parties are a better bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liberty Elite has single males every Friday. See you there.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Clubs are a nightmare for single guys. You're there with 100 others so unless you're Brad Pitt it's difficult.

Also always a few idiots that just stalk people around.

As a voyeur I at least get some enjoyment from it, but much prefer private meets or dogging.

Good luck though."

Really? If you exlude the ones who don't speak, the ones sit in a corner, the ones who stand wanking, the ones who think they are Brad Pitt, then a average, decent, friendly guy is in with a great chance with lots of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are a nightmare for single guys. You're there with 100 others so unless you're Brad Pitt it's difficult.

Also always a few idiots that just stalk people around.

As a voyeur I at least get some enjoyment from it, but much prefer private meets or dogging.

Good luck though.

Really? If you exlude the ones who don't speak, the ones sit in a corner, the ones who stand wanking, the ones who think they are Brad Pitt, then a average, decent, friendly guy is in with a great chance with lots of people."

This

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I hope you are wearing the same as your profile pics at the club lol , thanks for the advise x

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

That's encouraging , thank you x

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thank you for the advise just one other question , what is the best time to arrive , I don't want to stand around like nobly no mates lol

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Clubs are a nightmare for single guys. You're there with 100 others so unless you're Brad Pitt it's difficult.

Also always a few idiots that just stalk people around.

As a voyeur I at least get some enjoyment from it, but much prefer private meets or dogging.

Good luck though.

Really? If you exlude the ones who don't speak, the ones sit in a corner, the ones who stand wanking, the ones who think they are Brad Pitt, then a average, decent, friendly guy is in with a great chance with lots of people."

Just be polite, chat & mingle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just look up days single guys are allowed at the club that interests you, put the postcode in your sat-nav, drive there, go in, pay the entrance / join, get a tour round by staff, then relax and chat and maybe meet someone who wants to play.

Simples

MrB"

Best way to do it tbh, have yet to visit a club up this way but back home Kestrels was a favourite

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Thank you for the advise just one other question , what is the best time to arrive , I don't want to stand around like nobly no mates lol "

Reply & quote button mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for the advise just one other question , what is the best time to arrive , I don't want to stand around like nobly no mates lol "

For,Libs, first you need to ring them and get yourself on their approved list.

You will be standing around like nobbly no-mates. That's part of the deal for simgle guys!! But only until you pluck up the courange to chat! About 9pm is a good time to arrive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jaydees , join on line

im a life time member , cost me 10 pounds

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thanks , I will apply , apparently they have a newby night on the 29th could be fun

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Do you enjoy it their , any does and don't' s

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Come on single guys. Man up. Get in the club. Mingle and chat to as many people as you can. Simple!

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I will , no probs with chatting to anyone

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I will , no probs with chatting to anyone "

Reply + quote man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you enjoy it their , any does and don't' s "

There really is only one golden rule in clubs

No means no

The second rule is don't be a knob.

Provided you stick to those then you should have a good time. Libs was very quiet last night but the singlies still managed to have a good time - well three of them did, at least.

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Looking forward to going , at least it will be an experience x

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Clubs are a nightmare for single guys. You're there with 100 others so unless you're Brad Pitt it's difficult.

Also always a few idiots that just stalk people around.

As a voyeur I at least get some enjoyment from it, but much prefer private meets or dogging.

Good luck though.

Really? If you exlude the ones who don't speak, the ones sit in a corner, the ones who stand wanking, the ones who think they are Brad Pitt, then a average, decent, friendly guy is in with a great chance with lots of people."

I'm nothing special but the club scene works great for me. Granted it's a bit pricey though, and if you can only do Saturday nights, then yes, most clubs won't let you in.

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thanks for your advise , it looks as though jaydees will let me in lol , next Saturday a newbie night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your advise , it looks as though jaydees will let me in lol , next Saturday a newbie night "

Use reply & quote so people know who you're replying to.

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By *ity designer OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Thanks for your advise , it looks as though jaydees will let me in lol , next Saturday a newbie night

Use reply & quote so people know who you're replying to."
thanks for the advise x have fun x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Thank you for the advise just one other question , what is the best time to arrive , I don't want to stand around like nobly no mates lol

For,Libs, first you need to ring them and get yourself on their approved list.

You will be standing around like nobbly no-mates. That's part of the deal for simgle guys!! But only until you pluck up the courange to chat! About 9pm is a good time to arrive. "

Yep, I can confirm standing around like a spare peg in a room full of couples is a bit daunting, and not great when you try to catch people's eyes but they turn their heads. Best to look for the busier events times when there will be people more open to single men being around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol yes it's jammed lol , VA only let couples or single women in "

Friday's, singles guys can get in. Phone up and get on the list!

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