FabSwingers.com forum: Do many single F go to clubs alone?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there many single females on Fab that go to clubs on their own? I'm considering it but not sure I'm brave enough! The clubs closest would be townhouse or cupids x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do... you can come with if u want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Dont now as part of a couple but yes.. I did and both your local clubs are great for single females ( well for anyone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it many times

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Me, although if you can go with a female friend you'll have someone to talk to when the single males are too chicken to start chatting.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Are there many single females on Fab that go to clubs on their own? I'm considering it but not sure I'm brave enough! The clubs closest would be townhouse or cupids x"

Those 2 clubs are the ones I feel most comfortable at as a single woman

and both have plenty of single females there who are regulars who will look after you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever go to clubs alone. Very rare I go with someone. It's not as scary as it sounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to clubs alone many times in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few, quite attractive ones too, they've usually played at the club before or are well known faces there. Some previously part of couples in my experiences. They do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am more than happy to go to a club on my own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! I used to go on my own and I know a few other single ladies that do too. Enjoy

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

You could go to either of those clubs and you'll be made to feel very welcome and you'll be well looked after. Tell the staff that's it's your first time on your own and they will show you round add introduce you to some of the regulars. Be sociable, chat to people, smile, and have fun xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I know a few, quite attractive ones too, they've usually played at the club before or are well known faces there. Some previously part of couples in my experiences. They do exist."

Us uggos seem to manage OK too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, it's fun on your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to Townhouse on my own occasionally, it's a friendly place & I'm sure you won't be on your own for long x

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Are there many single females on Fab that go to clubs on their own? I'm considering it but not sure I'm brave enough! The clubs closest would be townhouse or cupids x"

Yes I do regularly and have done for years

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

First started goin to a ckub with female friend 3 yrs ago. Took aggggges to pluck up the courage to get undressed lol. But few wks later not a second thought bout walkung round in lingerie or a towel and started going in alone once friend backed out several times.

You willbe surprised how well you will be looked after by staff and regular customers.

Just relax and enjoy xx kaz

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Loads of single fems go to kestrels Abfab's. There's even the odd time there's so many we outnumber the single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I go regularly to clubs on my own, or arrange to meet a guy there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all so much, your responses have definitely inspired me

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Are there many single females on Fab that go to clubs on their own? I'm considering it but not sure I'm brave enough! The clubs closest would be townhouse or cupids x"

Never! Would scare me to death!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there many single females on Fab that go to clubs on their own? I'm considering it but not sure I'm brave enough! The clubs closest would be townhouse or cupids x"

I do

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Yep, all the time, it's no biggie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to Clubf on my own I'm single so I have no choice

Zara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for my first time alone on Friday night

Won't go again without someone to keep a eye

Guys putting rubbers on then try to whip them off

Never had that before when fella with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go very regularly on my own !! Actually prefer it this way xx you won't regret it Hun go for it. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, but wouldn't recommend it. Felt like I had to be on guard constantly. Wasn't able to relax and just enjoy. Much better with a male in tow. And also in case you don't see anything you like.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think I'm going brave it soon, fed up trying to find a suitable man to come with me!

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke FREE ENTRANCE ALL WEEKEND

We get at least 5/6 (often many more) single fems over a weekend.

They must feel comfortable because they keep coming back and they continually recommend others to come too.

If single gents worry you somewhat then visit as a single fem on a couples only night.

Single fems visit on their own or in pairs or they meet up.

We go out of our way to accommodate single fems and have them feel like they are safe and valued members of the club. But then we value single gents too and wouldn't have behaviour that let's anyone feel unsafe or uncertain.

Hope you find the right club to settle into - it's a loss to your swinging lifestyle if you don't

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would recommend either Cupid's or townhouse. Both very friendly places. Just get chatting to the staff and people at the bar. I find meeting at clubs much better than in private. For a daytime MOTD at Cupids is good, evening Wednesday at Townhouse x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I only ever go to clubs alone. Very rare I go with someone. It's not as scary as it sounds

Similar here. Only attended with a male a few times. The rest as a single lady.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I have, but wouldn't recommend it. Felt like I had to be on guard constantly. Wasn't able to relax and just enjoy. Much better with a male in tow. And also in case you don't see anything you like."

That is such a shame xx

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I went for my first time alone on Friday night

Won't go again without someone to keep a eye

Guys putting rubbers on then try to whip them off

Never had that before when fella with me "

Noooo that sounds awful.

I have have had to learn how to take care of myself and stay safe as I am not lucky enough to have someone else to rely on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx"

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night. "

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I would recommend either Cupid's or townhouse. Both very friendly places. Just get chatting to the staff and people at the bar. I find meeting at clubs much better than in private. For a daytime MOTD at Cupids is good, evening Wednesday at Townhouse x"

As the co-host of MOTD I can vouch for the fact that everyone will have a laugh and single females are very welcome. The MOTD events are on my profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent myself. But having been to Cupids now i would definitely feel comfortable enough to try alone there x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night. "

I did, twice in fact and I won't be doing it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

Yep and me

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

I agree totally. I get the ladies looking at me as if I want to steal their man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did and I still do now and its great fun. Take the plunge!

Doll x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I wouldn't go to a club I have never visited before on my own. But Atlantis, Townhouse or Chams I would. I personally am not keen on a couples night. Feel a bit like a gooseberry.

But if you can't meet another female to go with your first time, just wander in and explain to the staff. They will help you settle in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey funnily enough I asked the same question about me going on my own.

If you'd ever fancy a social meet first then take it from there maybe we could go together?

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Had 16 single females in amour tonight. So who says they don't go X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do... you can come with if u want?"
can I come

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

I agree totally. I get the ladies looking at me as if I want to steal their man!"

Yessss. This.

There was one girl inparticular. They knock about the forums alot and her and her man were talking to another couple. She turned round and looked at me as did her mate.. it was obvious someone had said something... I smiled at her. She just looked deadpan and turned her back on me. Not even a smile back... i rage internally everytime i see her profile now. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to town house on my own not knowing who would be there and been just fine x had a good night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to always go on my own.

I'm not keen on couples only night, I felt as though the ladies in the couples felt like I was some sort of threat.

Townhouse and cupids have loads of single ladies and the staff are very welcoming, just let them know it's your first time.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently started a thread of "escorting women to clubs on couples nights" wow from the posts back you would have thought I was the biggest freeloader going trying to get into a club free, taking advantage of single ladies, etc etc.

I would agree with what a lot have said, the staff will make you feel very comfortable, if you go on a couples night go a few times to build up relationships and the two clubs you mention are two of the best. And if all that fails put the bat phone out and I'll be by your side in no time, only if we've chatted a bit first as meeting with a total stranger would be weird (as I was again told in my thread) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads do - i go to ladies events alone but out of my comfort zone currently to do anymore than that on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

I agree totally. I get the ladies looking at me as if I want to steal their man!

Yessss. This.

Insecurity and jealousy on her part. Used to happen to me but I'm not interested in the men much.....the irony is I'd rather play with the women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that Atlantis is hands down the place where a single bloke or single female can feel at ease the most. Friday or Saturday; mainly cos I go a couple of Fridays lol, but in all seriousness I met great singles when invited as a couple too.

Attic is a great club but can be overwhelming and party nights are mainly couples and single blokes.

Give Atlantis a try

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We are getting a lot of single ladies at our club and they all love it here. We are getting at least 4 new single ladies a week. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are getting a lot of single ladies at our club and they all love it here. We are getting at least 4 new single ladies a week. Xx"

Still on my list of places to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had 16 single females in amour tonight. So who says they don't go X "

I was 1 of them. Got talking to another single female. I knew a few people but spoke to people I've never met before. Was nervous going alone after always going with my ex partner but my nerves soon went, everyone was friendly x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd guess that the only time a single woman would take a single man with her is if they know each other very well, not just after a chat because a lot are freeloaders, socially inept and take advantage.

The occasional single men I go with are friends, we know each other well and are happy just to be in each other's company. We also know each other's rules and have set our own and we trust each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

I agree totally. I get the ladies looking at me as if I want to steal their man!

Yessss. This.

Insecurity and jealousy on her part. Used to happen to me but I'm not interested in the men much.....the irony is I'd rather play with the women."

All this talk of single women having a hard time on a couple's night is a bit concerning.

My wife is wanting to try a club on her own, but this thread has got us concerned now.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I think its a bit of a 50/50 thread.

I really hope she doesnt have a bad experience. xx

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I have been going to clubs alone for years,I'm a butterfly I dont do cliques,so love going alone

Recent new club for me was Jaydee's bbw event,I felt very welcome by staff,hosts and other guests.just a shame 3 hour's away or I be there more often

I'm going to kestrels soon,never been and can't wait,no problem going alone anywhere

Love meeting new people and generally bump into someone I know anyway

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

"We are getting a lot of single ladies at our club and they all love it here. We are getting at least 4 new single ladies a week. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

I agree totally. I get the ladies looking at me as if I want to steal their man!

Yessss. This.

Insecurity and jealousy on her part. Used to happen to me but I'm not interested in the men much.....the irony is I'd rather play with the women.

All this talk of single women having a hard time on a couple's night is a bit concerning.

My wife is wanting to try a club on her own, but this thread has got us concerned now.

Why doesn't she just go to a regular night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thst said i once went on my own on a couples night. Get ignored to buggery. That was shit xx

I will never go to a club on a couples night.

Yep me too. Funny how we're supposed to be these mythical rare creatures couples seek yet on a couples night...

I agree totally. I get the ladies looking at me as if I want to steal their man!

Yessss. This.

Insecurity and jealousy on her part. Used to happen to me but I'm not interested in the men much.....the irony is I'd rather play with the women.

All this talk of single women having a hard time on a couple's night is a bit concerning.

My wife is wanting to try a club on her own, but this thread has got us concerned now.

Why doesn't she just go to a regular night?"

Not sure what you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 've been alone it wasn't a bad experience in sire the host can help you be at ease and the men can make you feel comfortable.

Do it

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