FabSwingers.com forum: First club visit Atlantis 25th March

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all our first venture to a club this Saturday what should we expect as newbies?

K & M x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No help ok maybe not the right forum..

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In a club there is never any pressure to do anything you don't want to do - as newbies you will be shown around and then left to enjoy yourself. Just watch if you like, or play with each other and be watched. If someone asks to join in and you like the look of them say "yes". Soft swing or swap, both is acceptible or join in group action. Whatever, enjoy yorselves!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou well we hoping for a fun eventful evening x

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Let Cat know that you're new to clubs and as well as a tour and a bit of explanation, she'll introduce you to some other couples.

Saturdays are quite relaxed and you won't feel pressured (or followed) at all. Some people will have some alcoholic drinks but it's very unusual to see anyone tipsy or worse. It's a really nice atmosphere.

It's a party night so usually a few people in and a bit more of a celebration going on.

Have a dance, chat to lots of people. If you want to, have some fun. If you like some other people, and you want to, ask them if they'd like some fun with you.

It's worth mentioning that not everyone who goes to the clubs regularly plays every time they go, and it's quite normal for people to take a few visits before they're ready to try anything. But also entirely reasonable to have fun on your first visit too

Have fun! ( Wish we could go this week! )

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By *weetguy33Man
over a year ago

some where near you

just go along brilliant place the owners will look after you.

you will enjoy it its a fun place.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Thankyou well we hoping for a fun eventful evening x"

Oh it's definitely going to be fun it's a great little club with great friendly people, I myself will be there on the 25th can't wait. Feel free to say hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks were looking forward to it but not going in summer wear just dressing up as if going out as it's our first visit..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In a club there is never any pressure to do anything you don't want to do - as newbies you will be shown around and then left to enjoy yourself. Just watch if you like, or play with each other and be watched. If someone asks to join in and you like the look of them say "yes". Soft swing or swap, both is acceptible or join in group action. Whatever, enjoy yorselves!"

That's good advice thankyou we have an idea what we want and looking forward to it x

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

Our first club was atlantis back in january this year and we are glad we chose it.

People are friendly and the club has a very laid back chilled out atmosphere which is perfect for your first club experience.

Upstairs is great, with just the right amount of lighting to see well enough but also hides wobbly bits quite well should you be a bit self conscious about getting naked.

Music is good and although the club is quite small it's actually a good size, makes accidentally bumping into people so much easier.

Have fun and be prepared to put yourself out there and start up conversations, sometimes people might mistake shyness for wanting to be left alone

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"Hi all our first venture to a club this Saturday what should we expect as newbies?

K & M x"

Expect to have a good time

we've only been once but would definitely return. Everyone is very friendly and I mean it when I say there is "0" pressure. The hosts are genuinely lovely people.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all our first venture to a club this Saturday what should we expect as newbies?

K & M x

Expect to have a good time

we've only been once but would definitely return. Everyone is very friendly and I mean it when I say there is "0" pressure. The hosts are genuinely lovely people.

Have fun.

We're banking on it thankyou..we think once we have stepped foot inside the nerves will be gone..lol

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

Definitely don't worry about nerves

It honestly won't be an issue once you're through the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely don't worry about nerves

It honestly won't be an issue once you're through the door"

That's what we were hoping and thinking too lol..

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

Hi guys,

Sorry. I have been off the forum all day.

Well. You will be made very welcome and I will ensure to give personal tour of the club and chat all you need so that you are able to settle in as best you can.

As you can see above people seem to like us and are to a fault friendly and welcoming.

If you need to chat beforehand I'm happy for you to call or message or text or get in touch here on FAB.

Look forward to meeting you - don't forget ID's

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

Sorry. I have been off the forum all day.

Well. You will be made very welcome and I will ensure to give personal tour of the club and chat all you need so that you are able to settle in as best you can.

As you can see above people seem to like us and are to a fault friendly and welcoming.

If you need to chat beforehand I'm happy for you to call or message or text or get in touch here on FAB.

Look forward to meeting you - don't forget ID's

Cat X

Thankyou for all the help look forward to meeting you on Saturday evening ..

K & M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys Atlantis was our first club visit car and tag were great showed us around and genuinely friendly

It's a great club with lots of great people we will be there too sat feel free to say hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi guys Atlantis was our first club visit car and tag were great showed us around and genuinely friendly

It's a great club with lots of great people we will be there too sat feel free to say hi

Thankyou were really looking forward to it everyone as been so nice

..will.definitely come and say hi..

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

"Hi guys Atlantis was our first club visit car and tag were great showed us around and genuinely friendly

It's a great club with lots of great people we will be there too sat feel free to say hi

Thankyou were really looking forward to it everyone as been so nice

..will.definitely come and say hi..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the best, people are very sociable and will make you feel like you've been going for ages. Great place, I plan on paying another visit next Friday. If anyone else is then feel free to come and say hey

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