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By *easor14 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Take the plunge OP, from where you are the Townhouse isn't far, they do new visitor induction visits, show you round,explain how it works etc, contact them and they'll tell you more. Good luck

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By *easor14 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Thanks alot. I just think it's getting past the nerves of going. I m sure everyone would be sound. It's not like I d be some odd ball (so I say) joke! Maybe a few drinks first.where's town house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself down there. Have a drink or two to loosen up and hit the Jacuzzis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can help...

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect."
It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time. "

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time. "

I don't know what dtf means but you are taf (thick af)

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club. "
Well maybe not all ladies just the 1's looking for single guys. I've been quite a few good clubs and I'm serious as a heart attack. I've even had men from couples just come up to me and say 'Do you wanna play with my wife' or if you are watching you can just get invited without even talking beforehand. You might struggle to comprehend that but some are 'Less talk, more action' types.

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By *easor14 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club. "

Ummm no while in a couple we talked about it but never had the balls and as a single guy now even more so I d find it maybe awkward.I'm Sorry if you find that hard to believe. It was a serious question. I tried to be polite and respectful and just wanted some feed back

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club.

Ummm no while in a couple we talked about it but never had the balls and as a single guy now even more so I d find it maybe awkward.I'm Sorry if you find that hard to believe. It was a serious question. I tried to be polite and respectful and just wanted some feed back"
Take the well meant advice OP, ignore the hyperbole and give a club a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club. Well maybe not all ladies just the 1's looking for single guys. I've been quite a few good clubs and I'm serious as a heart attack. I've even had men from couples just come up to me and say 'Do you wanna play with my wife' or if you are watching you can just get invited without even talking beforehand. You might struggle to comprehend that but some are 'Less talk, more action' types."

Yes total utter bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club is great way to meet and it's safer for women, take a drink chat and have a giggle I'm sure you will have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club.

Ummm no while in a couple we talked about it but never had the balls and as a single guy now even more so I d find it maybe awkward.I'm Sorry if you find that hard to believe. It was a serious question. I tried to be polite and respectful and just wanted some feed back"

My response was to the bs post saying you literally go up to people and they want to fuck you. As a single male you will find out how ridiculous that post is.

Do a forum search for sensible advice if you are serious about going to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club. "

Totally agree ! I never saw singles guys hanging in the bar!And not everyone goes to fuck!

Please OP go without expectations,sometimes you play sometimes not !

That's comment is entirely false!Sometimes you will invest a lot of your time chatting with possible suitors!

All depends be polite and respectful!All the best !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect. It's like going on a night out but all the women are dtf. Barely any groundwork required can just talk for 2 mins then go fuck them. Sometimes you don't even know their name. Just be outgoing and hang around the bar etc sure you will you have a good time.

Utter bollocks! I take it that's a comedy post or you have seriously never set foot in any club.

Ummm no while in a couple we talked about it but never had the balls and as a single guy now even more so I d find it maybe awkward.I'm Sorry if you find that hard to believe. It was a serious question. I tried to be polite and respectful and just wanted some feed back"

OP strawberry comment is not for you,she quoted x

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Ive been on and off fab a while but always had a interest in clubs. But can couples or single guys tell me, Is it awkward a guy there alone? What goes on I'm not naive I just worry id be standing there in the corner like the girls in Greece at the school dance waiting to be talked to. Ps I am a confident person but as it would be my first time I don't know what to expect."

Can't speak for others but our opinion is that there is a shortage of quality guys in Clubs.

If you know... and I mean you know... that you are a hot guy - you will have the time of your life. If your cock has been hidden by your belly for the last decade or if you have social issues then you might be dissappointed.

The rules of normal life equate similarly in the swinging life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your pics you look in very good shape and grooming is good; therefore I imagine you will get interest in clubs - if anything I imagine some couples might possibly be a little tentative to approach you because of that!

Below is my (limited) advice to single guys, having just attended my first club as a single gent myself:

Don't follow couples around, stick with a few areas and try to connect with people there.

Make eye contact and smile to see if you get a response.

Talk to people, and not just those who you would want to play with, just get chatting! You can learn about the club, may get introductions, and if nothing else you get some chat to past the time.

Don't expect any play, just go to socialise, maybe dance, and anything else is a bonus.

Good luck!

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By *mega_1Woman
over a year ago

Birkenhead

Your nearest club is the Townhouse in Birkenhead, they have an induction evening every Wednesday for new single guys which is a great way to introduce yourself to the club scene.

Check out their website for full details.

The staff are great and will go out of their way to ensure everyone feels welcomed.

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