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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Hi guys, what do clubs require you to wear to their BDSM nights, were of to one on. Thursday at quest, it's ok for men as you can wear black, boxers and vests etc. What about the woman, do they have to wear all fetish wear or can they can away with black lingerie

It's very expensive to go out and buy all the gear before we know if it's something we are going to get properly in to. Our first time at quest on Thursday. Does everyone go full hog dressed up, or do people still wear regular lingerie

Thanks for the help in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Corsets are pretty cheap these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also depends on whether the club is having a themed event, ie rubber and pvc night or whether it's a standard play night.

As a bloke most fet clubs let me enter in leather trousers and a leather waistcoat.

You'll tend to find a default male dom uniform of leather trousers, utility belt with plenty of D or O rings and a white shirt is still prevalent in many clubs.

It also depends on whether you are going to a fetish night for play or sex, fet events tend to be less sex orientated in all honesty but the line between fet and swinger events has become so blurred these day's (much to the dislike of the hardcore aficionados of either scene who tend to be purists) that many swinger nights also cater for soft fetish play as well.

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By *east88 OP   Couple
over a year ago

darlington

Cheers for that, it's quest in Leeds Thursday fetish night, I know some events are very well attended, as it's our first time going to such event, we wanted to be able to watch and explore ideas, we don't have a fixed idea of what we like, we both like several scenarios, is that something that happens, ok to be submissive then be dominant, we are newbies. Cheers

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"It also depends on whether the club is having a themed event, ie rubber and pvc night or whether it's a standard play night.

As a bloke most fet clubs let me enter in leather trousers and a leather waistcoat.

You'll tend to find a default male dom uniform of leather trousers, utility belt with plenty of D or O rings and a white shirt is still prevalent in many clubs.

It also depends on whether you are going to a fetish night for play or sex, fet events tend to be less sex orientated in all honesty but the line between fet and swinger events has become so blurred these day's (much to the dislike of the hardcore aficionados of either scene who tend to be purists) that many swinger nights also cater for soft fetish play as well. "
well at some of ours a black skirt ,stockings ,underwear would suffice .you don't have to go overboard at first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex is always super expensive but if you look at pvc or 'wet look' or 'shiny ' clothing on eBay it's quite cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex liaisons on eBay are pretty good, limited availability however on what they have, almost no proper outfits but a selection of rubber leggings, tights, gloves, masks and vests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Latex liaisons on eBay are pretty good, limited availability however on what they have, almost no proper outfits but a selection of rubber leggings, tights, gloves, masks and vests.

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I have rubber leggings up for sale there now

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I wear lingerie to fetish clubs and events that aren't in swingers clubs so you'll be fine.

Throw on a mask and a collar if that helps you feel a bit more kinked up.

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