FabSwingers.com forum: Club etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To say i'm a little nervous about the first club visit would be an understatement. I'm intrigued to know how a single guy, on his own, would be expected to behave. What even is the dress code? I'm seeing some are fetish, some are naked.. I see myself hanging around dressed in a towel, or worse completely naked trying to cover my downstairs department whilst cowering in a dark corner of the bar trying not to be noticed. I realise that after several visits the shyness would subside, everything would become slowly more comfortable and i'd probably end up swinging naked from the chandeliers.

Anyway, just a thought. I'm thinking it would be a heck of nicer experience to do that first visit with a partner. Wish me luck for the future.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Crap. How does one delete a post? Ive got this in the wrong section for starters and now ive looked I see theres a billion others in the club section.. shockingly

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't delete it yourself. If you report your own post you can ask the mods to delete it or move it to the club section.

It's a fair question wherever it's posted. Everyone was new to clubs at some point.

By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"To say i'm a little nervous about the first club visit would be an understatement. I'm intrigued to know how a single guy, on his own, would be expected to behave. What even is the dress code? I'm seeing some are fetish, some are naked.. I see myself hanging around dressed in a towel, or worse completely naked trying to cover my downstairs department whilst cowering in a dark corner of the bar trying not to be noticed. I realise that after several visits the shyness would subside, everything would become slowly more comfortable and i'd probably end up swinging naked from the chandeliers.

Anyway, just a thought. I'm thinking it would be a heck of nicer experience to do that first visit with a partner. Wish me luck for the future. "

Just take the plunge Mate.

I've been clubbing as a single guy for a year or two now and if you find the right club, it gets comfortable very quickly.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite and interested, don't be pushy and talk to both parts of a couple, the Mr's like to be involved too.

The best thing I have learnt is to attend a club to socialise, if you pthen go on to play it is a bonus and you'll have a great night regardless.