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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Myself and a lady are going to go to one of the clubs in the near future, would anyone recommend one that would be good for newbies? And would it be better on a couples night or single as she only wants to play with males.

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By *mega_1Woman
over a year ago

Birkenhead

I would highly recommend trying Townhouse on the Wirral.

Wednesday nights are specifically Newbies and Notso's night, this can be a good night to meet lots of new people and has a good balance of single women, single men and couples.

Saturday nights are great with the last Saturday of the month each month being a big party night.

Single males are restricted to 8 on these nights to keep the numbers even.

Keep an eye out on the events forum for upcoming events

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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago

yiewsley

The best club by far is ourplace4fun ...it depends if your lady wants just 1 male or males ...sat nights r couples night with max of 5 single guys ...any other night has more ..friday night is more of a mix ...sunday or tuesday (greedy girl night) have usually more single gents x caz

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Geographically closest to you would be either Xtasia or Chameleons. Two great clubs but with different vibes. Xtasia more the dress up night club, Chameleons for the dress down type of club.

Choose what`s best for you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for replies, what's the difference between dress up and down? Apart from the obvious! When do you actually get your clothes off? Is dress down wearing a towel when inside type of place?

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Thanks all for replies, what's the difference between dress up and down? Apart from the obvious! When do you actually get your clothes off? Is dress down wearing a towel when inside type of place? "

Basically, yes, in Chameleons it`s down to towel/shorts for men and towel/ lingerie for the ladies straight away. It sounds a bit brutal at first but entirely practical in practice when you want to use the sauna/steam room/jaccuzzis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh makes sense really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whitchurch in Bucks? Try Vanilla Alternative on the A1 near Dunstable Lovely club. Or JayDees if feeling adventurous as it is in the middle of nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whitchurch in Bucks? Try Vanilla Alternative on the A1 near Dunstable Lovely club. Or JayDees if feeling adventurous as it is in the middle of nowhere."

Not a thing we've ever fancied. Just cannot imagine the beds full of others' bodily fluids or the hot tub that is swimming in spunk and God knows what else - yuk - sorry no but the thought of a club turns our guts. I've done maintenance work in fancy night clubs and believe me they don't look any where as near inviting in daylight hours as thy do at nights and I'm sure the same applies to swingers clubs - nothing more than glorified knocking shops

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Whitchurch in Bucks? Try Vanilla Alternative on the A1 near Dunstable Lovely club. Or JayDees if feeling adventurous as it is in the middle of nowhere.

Not a thing we've ever fancied. Just cannot imagine the beds full of others' bodily fluids or the hot tub that is swimming in spunk and God knows what else - yuk - sorry no but the thought of a club turns our guts. I've done maintenance work in fancy night clubs and believe me they don't look any where as near inviting in daylight hours as thy do at nights and I'm sure the same applies to swingers clubs - nothing more than glorified knocking shops

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He was asking for recommendations and advice I think, not what you think about clubs in general

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"Whitchurch in Bucks? Try Vanilla Alternative on the A1 near Dunstable Lovely club. Or JayDees if feeling adventurous as it is in the middle of nowhere.

Not a thing we've ever fancied. Just cannot imagine the beds full of others' bodily fluids or the hot tub that is swimming in spunk and God knows what else - yuk - sorry no but the thought of a club turns our guts. I've done maintenance work in fancy night clubs and believe me they don't look any where as near inviting in daylight hours as thy do at nights and I'm sure the same applies to swingers clubs - nothing more than glorified knocking shops

"

Well that's a sweeping statement if I ever heard one right there! hahahaha #noidea

Most SWINGING clubs have very high standards 1/because of the nature of the club and the sex that takes place and 2/ Because in some areas such as the north west, there is a lot of competition, so standards set us apart.

We have sheets on our beds which are changed regularly throughout an event and the vinyl underneath is thoroughly cleaned; we re-cover ever 6-12 months.

Our hot tub is sparkling and is maintained/changed daily; my husband has even been on a spa maintenance course to ensure that we are treating the water and filters properly to avoid water born/carrying bacteria. We also have a NO SEX policy in our hot tub and anyone caught is asked to leave as there are signs everywhere in there.

You should try a good quality club and then make an educated assessment, rather than make assumptions. I am being very defensive here and I apologise, but we put in 80 hours a week each to ensure that we are NOT what you describe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No we are in Cheshire. I've done some searching and found xtasia, Atlantis, townhouse are my local ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering, what sort of numbers are usually there on a mixed night? Plenty of variety? (Her words, not mine)??

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Myself and a lady are going to go to one of the clubs in the near future, would anyone recommend one that would be good for newbies? And would it be better on a couples night or single as she only wants to play with males. "

Please consider CUPIDS as a potential club to visit - we pride ourselves on the socially orientated swing vibe. Classy couples, sassy ladies & respectful gentlemen are ALWAYS welcome. Cupids "where the customer comes first". Have fun wherever you decide on.

Chameleons is however hard to beat !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Myself and a lady are going to go to one of the clubs in the near future, would anyone recommend one that would be good for newbies? And would it be better on a couples night or single as she only wants to play with males.

Please consider CUPIDS as a potential club to visit - we pride ourselves on the socially orientated swing vibe. Classy couples, sassy ladies & respectful gentlemen are ALWAYS welcome. Cupids "where the customer comes first". Have fun wherever you decide on.

Chameleons is however hard to beat !!"

Thanks for me the reply. It's somewhere I'll definitely be looking at! More choice the better!

How many people go on a mixed night?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I would definitely recommend Atlantis for first timers... it's like a nightclub downstairs...dress smart and just chat to people. There's a bar, but you take your own alcohol, so it keeps the cost down.

Social area with dancefloor and Sofas to chat. Then wander upstairs for a variety of rooms and areas, private, one where you can view , but not enter the room, some tucked away and open areas.

It's a great friendly no pressure club. If you read the club reviews, you can read the thoughts of others going for the first time.

If you want lots of variety, go on one of the party nights coming up. Some are Fridays...when single guys are present with the couples and ladies, and some on Saturdays when it's couples and single ladies only. Check website or club event threads.

Hope you decide to come along.

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