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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

A place to ask info from regulars, flirt banter and arrange meet ups. Tag in friends and welcome newbies

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Sorry Belfast can you repost it was right at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all, Just seen Kestrels website, I'm new to being naked in a spa environment so a bit nervous, nothing to hide or anything but just seeing if anyone is going on Sunday and could maybe hold my hand hahaha sounds terrible but you know what I mean...I hope lol

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Sadist with a soft side tagging in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minx tagging in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be there later

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By *unkybbwWoman
over a year ago

Feltham

Funky tagging in!! Can't wait for tonight!!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Looks like a fuckathon later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like a fuckathon later "

Giggady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be there

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

im coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people I know then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted I can't get up to Greedy Girls tonight as I certainly am feeling very hungry! Have a great time you filthy lot xx

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By *anillaguyMan
over a year ago

Kingston


"Ill be there "

Have you received any instructions for tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh...i meant im going sunday..not there tonight unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted I won't be there tonight, was looking forward to this night!!

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By *anillaguyMan
over a year ago

Kingston


"Oh...i meant im going sunday..not there tonight unfortunately "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted I've missed it

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Gutted I've missed it "

It's not started yet - get yer knickers on love.

If you wear them

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By *rattyPrincessWoman
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Tagging in. Have fun tonight u sexy lot xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of popping down Saturday daytime, anyone else going along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted I couldn't make the greedy girls event. I hope you all had a fantastic night. Please share your experiences so that you tempt more to attend in the future. I will make up for it next week on Wednesday at Ks. Chillin in the hot tubs and fun in the harem room and pool. . Looking forward to playing and great fun. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to adfabs for the first time. Excited and no idea what to wear (typical female)

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I think I've forgotten how to be a swinger

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

That's a new word for me! Had to look it up!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"That's a new word for me! Had to look it up!"

Which one, swinger?

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"That's a new word for me! Had to look it up!

Which one, swinger? "

Or if you mean the one from my profile, it's a saying. Try watching the Inbetweeners.

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone going daytime today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone going daytime today?"

Yeah am tempted to go today

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Maybe tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone going daytime today?

Yeah am tempted to go today"

See ya in a hot tub later then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe tomorrow x"

Oh a day too early to say hi x

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Nfs won't be around for a little while...she's on the naughty step for being naughty again

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Maybe tomorrow x

Oh a day too early to say hi x"

Sadly no time today. Off to S club tonight and need to get sorted as I'm being very lazy up to now! Lol

Have a hot tub for me

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, Just seen Kestrels website, I'm new to being naked in a spa environment so a bit nervous, nothing to hide or anything but just seeing if anyone is going on Sunday and could maybe hold my hand hahaha sounds terrible but you know what I mean...I hope lol"

Anyone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be there at some point during next week. In desperate need of a relax in hot tub atm

X minx X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, Just seen Kestrels website, I'm new to being naked in a spa environment so a bit nervous, nothing to hide or anything but just seeing if anyone is going on Sunday and could maybe hold my hand hahaha sounds terrible but you know what I mean...I hope lol

Anyone???"

Yeah - I will be there and happy to hold your hand - car park about 1pm?

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Hi all, Just seen Kestrels website, I'm new to being naked in a spa environment so a bit nervous, nothing to hide or anything but just seeing if anyone is going on Sunday and could maybe hold my hand hahaha sounds terrible but you know what I mean...I hope lol

Anyone???"

I might be there but not til two ish. Come say hello x

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Hi all, Just seen Kestrels website, I'm new to being naked in a spa environment so a bit nervous, nothing to hide or anything but just seeing if anyone is going on Sunday and could maybe hold my hand hahaha sounds terrible but you know what I mean...I hope lol

Anyone???

I might be there but not til two ish. Come say hello x"

If I'm there happy then chat but I won't recognise you from the 3 cock shots

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

Friday looked fun x

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Hi all, Just seen Kestrels website, I'm new to being naked in a spa environment so a bit nervous, nothing to hide or anything but just seeing if anyone is going on Sunday and could maybe hold my hand hahaha sounds terrible but you know what I mean...I hope lol"

I'll be there tomorrow along with a few regulars - you can't miss me lol. Come say hi, I'm usually to be found in the pool or the outdoor hot tub. Xx

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Friday looked fun x"

It was fun )

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I'm still aching so think I'll be hottubing it later. Anyone else going today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What time does it close today?

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"What time does it close today?"

8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool, think I'll head down then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Kestrel and abfabs the same place?

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Is Kestrel and abfabs the same place? "

Yes kestrel is daytime and naturist spa (with play) and Abfab is dress up or clothing optional parties with extra bits of the house open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone going tomorrow? I will be there from around 1pm

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Anyone going tomorrow? I will be there from around 1pm"

Need to resist the urge to go tomorrow. Have an early start Tuesday and I know that if I go Monday, I'll be there til close.

Next Monday on the other hand....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Kestrel and abfabs the same place?

Yes kestrel is daytime and naturist spa (with play) and Abfab is dress up or clothing optional parties with extra bits of the house open "

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By *izusMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Who's at kestrels tomorrow Monday?

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge


"Anyone going tomorrow? I will be there from around 1pm"

Will be there late afternoon until closing time

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By *ewD10Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

We are going this Saturday for first time in a while. Would be nice to chat on here to some couples also going then? Be nice to have a guided tour to remind us of the layout! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a chat with reception when you arrive. They will be more than happy to show you around.

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

I'm back off the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be there Saturday with some girlfriends sweating out our hangovers from Jaydees on Friday night

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Is it just too cold today ......can't decide if I should pop down or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just too cold today ......can't decide if I should pop down or not x"

It's never too cold to be in a hot tub.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Is it just too cold today ......can't decide if I should pop down or not x

It's never too cold to be in a hot tub."

Maybe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone going next Friday or Saturday eve ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might pop up tomorrow

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Can anyone local recommend somewhere to go for a social? I don't mind travelling a bit for the right place but I'm really struggling to think of somewhere that's private enough to flirt outrageously but not too private that you can get carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone local recommend somewhere to go for a social? I don't mind travelling a bit for the right place but I'm really struggling to think of somewhere that's private enough to flirt outrageously but not too private that you can get carried away "

Well you have the Guildford kinks social on Tuesday 14th March, 7-11pm. You always flirt loads then

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Can anyone local recommend somewhere to go for a social? I don't mind travelling a bit for the right place but I'm really struggling to think of somewhere that's private enough to flirt outrageously but not too private that you can get carried away

Well you have the Guildford kinks social on Tuesday 14th March, 7-11pm. You always flirt loads then "

This is very true

But my social is this weekend. And not a run of the mill social so I'm putting a lot of effort into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be good if there was one more local to me also. I miss them all

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Be good if there was one more local to me also. I miss them all "

This is a personal/fab social not a group one

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Be good if there was one more local to me also. I miss them all "

Think the nearest to us is the Sussex Social. Think they meet in Hove. Tried to get to this month's and last month's but both landed on nights I was on shift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello all

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Hello all"

Yo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic day at the club yesterday

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Fantastic day at the club yesterday "

Shame I couldn't join u and Mrs. It's been a while since I've snogged your face off

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By *5happycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tooting / dept 23 France

Now off to kestrels, sod the rain!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Now off to kestrels, sod the rain!"

May pop by tonight for a hottub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is everyone

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"How is everyone"

I'm good thanks.

Miss the place.

And you, obviously.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm planning a few hours tomorrow daytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going for the first time Saturday 11th of March in the evening, anyone else?

K x

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

For anyone on this thread who doesn't know me and my stance on consent can I just say if you see me at the club DO NOT touch me without asking. Even said to the the bloke when he got in the hottub I come on a Tuesday to chill out - in other words I'm not here to play just relax. Still he touches then asks AFTER his hands are on me. Absolutely fucking sick of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have slapped his face softie

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I would have slapped his face softie"

Dealt with it a better way - read him the riot act then made a complaint to the club. He's a regular so should fucking know better.

Last week it happened in Germany, this week at my local club. Seriously behaviour standards have gone downhill and it's getting to point I can't relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have slapped his face softie

Dealt with it a better way - read him the riot act then made a complaint to the club. He's a regular so should fucking know better.

Last week it happened in Germany, this week at my local club. Seriously behaviour standards have gone downhill and it's getting to point I can't relax. "

Agree with you fully on the decline in behaviour standards.

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

But if you're the sexy couple in the pool and reading this please PM me. I can't remember your username

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I would have slapped his face softie

Dealt with it a better way - read him the riot act then made a complaint to the club. He's a regular so should fucking know better.

Last week it happened in Germany, this week at my local club. Seriously behaviour standards have gone downhill and it's getting to point I can't relax. "

Johnny care to comment on this? Did you realise quite how often this happens?

(For clarity johnny is not the person involved but we've chatted in other threads re consent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went once last year and really want to go again but it's too far for me to get to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens way to much doesn't matter where you are. Either hot tub or just sitting in dungeon. That hand appears on your leg.

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Happens way to much doesn't matter where you are. Either hot tub or just sitting in dungeon. That hand appears on your leg. "

This time it was on my stomach just below my boobs but I have thigh, pussy, tit all grabbed. Sick of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll still be there all day this Friday though, so it's not enough to put us off!

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"For anyone on this thread who doesn't know me and my stance on consent can I just say if you see me at the club DO NOT touch me without asking. Even said to the the bloke when he got in the hottub I come on a Tuesday to chill out - in other words I'm not here to play just relax. Still he touches then asks AFTER his hands are on me. Absolutely fucking sick of it."

Well said and goes for me too. Xx

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable."

Ive messaged the club and asked for a sign. It really shouldn't be needed though! Newbies you can half get they either don't know or too excited and just need educating but regulars and people who've been on the scene for a while should know better.

Im surprised he didn't know me better but he certainly fucking does now. Grrrrr where's my kit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha, ha - I love it when you go into "Domme Mode" Softie!

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Ha, ha - I love it when you go into "Domme Mode" Softie! "

That was more mad as fuck bitch mode lol

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

HDZ - anyone interested in learning some rope? One of the things I am planning I could teach to a handful and get you to do it with someone at the same time to learn if anyone's interested? No rope needed if you don't have your own, I'll bring plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went once last year and really want to go again but it's too far for me to get to "

Perhaps make a weekend of it? Come up Friday afternoon and spend Friday night at AbFabs, then have a couple of lazy days at Kestrels on Saturday and Sunday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HDZ - anyone interested in learning some rope? One of the things I am planning I could teach to a handful and get you to do it with someone at the same time to learn if anyone's interested? No rope needed if you don't have your own, I'll bring plenty "

Looking forward to it. Go to love rope

Minx

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere


"HDZ - anyone interested in learning some rope? One of the things I am planning I could teach to a handful and get you to do it with someone at the same time to learn if anyone's interested? No rope needed if you don't have your own, I'll bring plenty

Looking forward to it. Go to love rope

Minx"

It's the one I'm doing on you that I'll be teaching others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HDZ - anyone interested in learning some rope? One of the things I am planning I could teach to a handful and get you to do it with someone at the same time to learn if anyone's interested? No rope needed if you don't have your own, I'll bring plenty

Looking forward to it. Go to love rope

Minx

It's the one I'm doing on you that I'll be teaching others "

Yay! Can't wait. Will be lots of naughty fun :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone going to kestrels tomorrow? Long old week and I feel I fully deserve a relaxing day and some good company.

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over a year ago

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Going later today x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointingly I can't

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"HDZ - anyone interested in learning some rope? One of the things I am planning I could teach to a handful and get you to do it with someone at the same time to learn if anyone's interested? No rope needed if you don't have your own, I'll bring plenty "

I wouldn't mind....

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"HDZ - anyone interested in learning some rope? One of the things I am planning I could teach to a handful and get you to do it with someone at the same time to learn if anyone's interested? No rope needed if you don't have your own, I'll bring plenty

I wouldn't mind.... "

For this if anyone fancy learning or being roped try to hook up with a partner of the opposite in advance or I'll try to pair you up on the night

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

After multiple complaints about one guy tonight (he didn't bother me) and my own complaint about another weirdo in the hottub I've spoke to reception and have justput an email into the club. Can I ask anyone else with an issue over behaviour or consent to do the same because I don't think they realise how often this is happening and quite how bad its got lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable."

When I went a guy was trying to put his foot between my legs in the hot tub

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over a year ago


"I went once last year and really want to go again but it's too far for me to get to

Perhaps make a weekend of it? Come up Friday afternoon and spend Friday night at AbFabs, then have a couple of lazy days at Kestrels on Saturday and Sunday?"

I don't get much free time to do that

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable.

When I went a guy was trying to put his foot between my legs in the hot tub"

Did you make a complaint to the staff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sad state of affairs when people think that sort of behaviour is acceptable.

Regardless of one's choice of lifestyle, respect of personal boundaries is still important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be @ kestrels Monday 3rd April, not been for a while any one going also ? ??

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Will be @ kestrels Monday 3rd April, not been for a while any one going also ? ??"

I struggle to know what I'm doing next week let alone next month

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

New kit arrived today including something I cannot say on fab as it's too extreme. My victim for it for HDZ is known...

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over a year ago

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By *unkybbwWoman
over a year ago

Feltham

Who's going Friday night?? I had so much fun last week and hopefully will tomorrow night!!

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over a year ago


"New kit arrived today including something I cannot say on fab as it's too extreme. My victim for it for HDZ is known... "

not the tickling feathers , no please you know i can't take them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are planning to go on the 10th.. say hi if your planning to go. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are planning to go on the 10th.. say hi if your planning to go. xx"

I probably will be, but I plan to get into a hot tub on arrival and not get out until they throw me out of the club or I turn into a prune (it's going to be a bad week).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable.

When I went a guy was trying to put his foot between my legs in the hot tub

Did you make a complaint to the staff? "

Sorry to say that happend there on my wife. But a quick flick of hubbys wrist on his leg and he found he could handstand in a hot tub and then he decided to leave.lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable.

No cos I tried to laugh it off (my first time in a club), but the next day he was sending me creepy messages on here so I blocked him

When I went a guy was trying to put his foot between my legs in the hot tub

Did you make a complaint to the staff? "

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By *edgeend6Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

We're up night of 11th March for some naughty fun, anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomorrow X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll on HDZ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky people should attend

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Kinky people should attend "

And any non kinky people we'll convert as we go along

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable.

When I went a guy was trying to put his foot between my legs in the hot tub

Did you make a complaint to the staff?

Sorry to say that happend there on my wife. But a quick flick of hubbys wrist on his leg and he found he could handstand in a hot tub and then he decided to leave.lol. "

I'm sure I'll get my head bitten off for playing Devil's Advocate again here and I know that a lot of people are quite understandably pissed off about the behaviour at the moment but is dumping someone on their ass on a hard slippery surface the way to go? Yeah it sounds like the guy was being a dick but giving the club's current licencing issues, paramedics carting a guy out with a concussion isn't gonna help matters.

Sorry if I'm exaggerating this, but it's not 100% clear from your description just how hard the guy went down though I'm guessing he was sat back against one side and all he did was slide down under the water.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Ella often tells me that she gets unwanted attention in a hot tub. It usually starts with a stray foot that reaches over to her leg and starts stroking.

I'm beginning to think that there should be signs around the hot tubs explaining that unsolicited touching or stroking is simply unacceptable.

When I went a guy was trying to put his foot between my legs in the hot tub

Did you make a complaint to the staff?

Sorry to say that happend there on my wife. But a quick flick of hubbys wrist on his leg and he found he could handstand in a hot tub and then he decided to leave.lol.

I'm sure I'll get my head bitten off for playing Devil's Advocate again here and I know that a lot of people are quite understandably pissed off about the behaviour at the moment but is dumping someone on their ass on a hard slippery surface the way to go? Yeah it sounds like the guy was being a dick but giving the club's current licencing issues, paramedics carting a guy out with a concussion isn't gonna help matters.

Sorry if I'm exaggerating this, but it's not 100% clear from your description just how hard the guy went down though I'm guessing he was sat back against one side and all he did was slide down under the water."

Concussion? I missed that one. But I agree that there should be signs around not just the ones about cameras etc. Anyone ignoring the signs needs to be removed and language barrier is not an excuse either despite a staff member saying it should be considered There are too many excuses re the language barrier. NO means NO in any language. If a guy doesn't like being slapped then he shouldn't touch without asking. My first time at the club the man politely asked if he could touch me to which I said yes. Recently I was in the pool with a friend, chatting to anyone as I do. A guy asked my friend to play, she said yes and they announced they were getting a room. I misheard her guy, he had asked me if I wanted to join them. Then a guy I hadn't really interacted with said to me 'shall we get a room'? Uh that would be no so he got out all huffed. Lucky for me another chap had been watching me for a while, approached and asked if it was okay to chat as he hadn't wanted to just join in the conversation. I happily chatted then he asked if I would like to play and we did. That's how it should be. One thing for chaos to remember as well. DONT stalk females it will only get you ostracised

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By *ewD10Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Who's going Saturday night? We are hopefully trying the club for the first time on a Saturday night. Hoping it's busy and looking forward to making friends xx

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Concussion? I missed that one. "

I just meant the possible outcome of knocking someone off balance in a hot tub.

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By *unkybbwWoman
over a year ago

Feltham

Gutted!! Doesn't look like I will be going tonight ???? unless I can get a lift there and back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone local recommend somewhere to go for a social? I don't mind travelling a bit for the right place but I'm really struggling to think of somewhere that's private enough to flirt outrageously but not too private that you can get carried away "
the King's Fairway in Ashford is quite a big busy pub, about a 10 minute drive away, the closest pub to Abfabs never has anyone in it and they clearly know where you are off to afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll happily drive you there and back Funky no strings I promise, I live in Sunbury

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Can anyone local recommend somewhere to go for a social? I don't mind travelling a bit for the right place but I'm really struggling to think of somewhere that's private enough to flirt outrageously but not too private that you can get carried away the King's Fairway in Ashford is quite a big busy pub, about a 10 minute drive away, the closest pub to Abfabs never has anyone in it and they clearly know where you are off to afterwards "

Thanks I've got somewhere now. It didn't need to be close to abfab that's not where I'm going after. It's a pure social. Shock horror!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi it's me Heidi I love kesterl I go there to relax first and if I want to play then I will but I've seen men just touch without asking but when it's happen to me when I'm on my own I said no thank you at the moment maybe later and never had any problem with them most men do have manners and respect I just wish I could go more . planing to go on the 22 march with my partner then I'm going to abfabs on the 8 April first time for me. If you see me there come and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone local recommend somewhere to go for a social? I don't mind travelling a bit for the right place but I'm really struggling to think of somewhere that's private enough to flirt outrageously but not too private that you can get carried away the King's Fairway in Ashford is quite a big busy pub, about a 10 minute drive away, the closest pub to Abfabs never has anyone in it and they clearly know where you are off to afterwards

Thanks I've got somewhere now. It didn't need to be close to abfab that's not where I'm going after. It's a pure social. Shock horror!! "

and where's my invite ? Lol

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Lovely afternoon...we were left some baby oil...so we may have put it to good use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering if I can be bothered to go or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were going 11th

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By *ewD10Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

We are going tonight, who else is? Xx

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Anyone going today?

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Anyone going today?"

No I'm tying someone up

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Anyone going today?

No I'm tying someone up "

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Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be going next month for the first time. Looking for someone to hold my hand (amongst other things)

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I'll be going next month for the first time. Looking for someone to hold my hand (amongst other things)"

Let us know when and we'll see who's around to

Hold your hand. Can promise anything else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be going next month for the first time. Looking for someone to hold my hand (amongst other things)

Let us know when and we'll see who's around to

Hold your hand. Can promise anything else lol "

Will do! Thanks

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Anyone gonna be there Monday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be going next month for the first time. Looking for someone to hold my hand (amongst other things)"

You'll have a great time there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope to be going on Wednesday evening. Anyone else?

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

You really appreciate what an amazing venue AbFabs/Kestrels is when you go to other places. We have been very spoilt over the years with the facilities. Can't find anywhere to match it yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really appreciate what an amazing venue AbFabs/Kestrels is when you go to other places. We have been very spoilt over the years with the facilities. Can't find anywhere to match it yet."

Agreed. But what makes it for us is the friendliness of the other people there too. We'll be there as often as we can be.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"You really appreciate what an amazing venue AbFabs/Kestrels is when you go to other places. We have been very spoilt over the years with the facilities. Can't find anywhere to match it yet."

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"You really appreciate what an amazing venue AbFabs/Kestrels is when you go to other places. We have been very spoilt over the years with the facilities. Can't find anywhere to match it yet.

Agreed. But what makes it for us is the friendliness of the other people there too. We'll be there as often as we can be. "

Absolutely...we feel at home and have made great friends at Kestrels. Long Sundays around the pool are the best

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By *appypear12Couple
over a year ago

huntingdon

We love abfads friday nites two wks running both packed outgdfun and well run and lookedafter by russle and his team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love abfads friday nites two wks running both packed outgdfun and well run and lookedafter by russle and his team "
This Friday was not at all packed, the trouble with guys who want to touch without asking is still an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are planning to head to abfabs for our first time Friday (have visited kestrels in the day once) anyone else going? X

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"We love abfads friday nites two wks running both packed outgdfun and well run and lookedafter by russle and his team This Friday was not at all packed, the trouble with guys who want to touch without asking is still an issue."

Did u make a complaint?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be going next month for the first time. Looking for someone to hold my hand (amongst other things)"

I would be happy to show you the way

Miss N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are planning to head to abfabs for our first time Friday (have visited kestrels in the day once) anyone else going? X"

We will be there on Friday....this weekend is Retro weekend (60s/70s/80s) so don't forget there will be a prize for best dressed!

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By *unkybbwWoman
over a year ago

Feltham


"We are planning to head to abfabs for our first time Friday (have visited kestrels in the day once) anyone else going? X

We will be there on Friday....this weekend is Retro weekend (60s/70s/80s) so don't forget there will be a prize for best dressed! "

Oh no I don't have anything to wear for retro night eeekkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was there Friday evening an had issues with the sam e group of guys most of the night. But I did sort it myself and tell the staff. I was abit nasty after the 5th time if telling the people tho

Minx

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over a year ago


"I was there Friday evening an had issues with the sam e group of guys most of the night. But I did sort it myself and tell the staff. I was abit nasty after the 5th time if telling the people tho

Minx"

Ended up threatening to snap his cock off if he didn't leave me alone

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I was there Friday evening an had issues with the sam e group of guys most of the night. But I did sort it myself and tell the staff. I was abit nasty after the 5th time if telling the people tho

Minx

Ended up threatening to snap his cock off if he didn't leave me alone"

Telling someone once should enough ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think softie but some guys don't understand the word NO.

He still walked past and touched me tho when I was sitting with the girls

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"You would think softie but some guys don't understand the word NO.

He still walked past and touched me tho when I was sitting with the girls

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And did the club do anything when you told them?

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Anyone gonna be there Monday? "

ME!!!!

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

4 guys, yesterday at Kestrels, took it in turns to come up to me and proposition me. I was sat eating my lunch but apparently that made it seem I was fair game. I told each one no, politely then the last one got told to f&£@ off unless he wanted a broken nose. They then all stood together talking in whatever language it was, staring at me. I hate that. I did tell staff and was told the main two culprits, who were on a day pass had left because the other two (members) argued with them and said their behaviour was unacceptable and embarrassing to them. All these guys did was walk around in their towels perving and drinking whisky. Not once did they actually use the facilities.

I spoke to staff also when they were showing a newbie around. I mentioned that in the current light of so many inappropriate touching, it would be prudent to tell all newbies about consent and the meaning of the word NO. Also that using language barriers saying they don't understand is not an excuse. On another note a lady had her bum bitten in the dark room. The guy tried to bite the first time and he was told no biting, he then came back and did it again but bit quite hard, enough to leave a mark. Staff filled out an incident report also stating that she had seen the bite mark herself. They couldn't pin point the guy as he scarpered out of the dark room as soon as she yelped. Bloody animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot tub and pool calling..... may pop down after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60/70/80s ooh I get to wear my pimp outfit again

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"60/70/80s ooh I get to wear my pimp outfit again "

You rock the pimp look so well

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"4 guys, yesterday at Kestrels, took it in turns to come up to me and proposition me. I was sat eating my lunch but apparently that made it seem I was fair game. I told each one no, politely then the last one got told to f&£@ off unless he wanted a broken nose. They then all stood together talking in whatever language it was, staring at me. I hate that. I did tell staff and was told the main two culprits, who were on a day pass had left because the other two (members) argued with them and said their behaviour was unacceptable and embarrassing to them. All these guys did was walk around in their towels perving and drinking whisky. Not once did they actually use the facilities.

I spoke to staff also when they were showing a newbie around. I mentioned that in the current light of so many inappropriate touching, it would be prudent to tell all newbies about consent and the meaning of the word NO. Also that using language barriers saying they don't understand is not an excuse. On another note a lady had her bum bitten in the dark room. The guy tried to bite the first time and he was told no biting, he then came back and did it again but bit quite hard, enough to leave a mark. Staff filled out an incident report also stating that she had seen the bite mark herself. They couldn't pin point the guy as he scarpered out of the dark room as soon as she yelped. Bloody animals. "

Disgusting. The way things are escalating without any club intervention right now I'm worried something serious will happen and the club will get into a lot of trouble

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By *ecretlyASoftie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

While I'm around I'll open a new one

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over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

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over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

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