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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With me going to a club for the first time, I just want to know, what were your first experiences when entering the club?

Was it a friendly welcome? Were you introduced to the regulars? Was you well looked after and given a lovely time there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best place for newbies in y9ur area is the no.3 club on a weds or Thursday social night.

It's free and very welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best place for newbies in y9ur area is the no.3 club on a weds or Thursday social night.

It's free and very welcoming. "

Well I'm actually going to Cupids which I've been told that I'll be well looked after as they understand me having Asperger's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx"

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone"
good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x"

I hope so as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x

I hope so as well"
when are you going? xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x

I hope so as well when are you going? xx"

I'll be going on the 9th March

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x

I hope so as well when are you going? xx

I'll be going on the 9th March"
sounds great you will have to let me know how it goes xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x

I hope so as well when are you going? xx

I'll be going on the 9th March sounds great you will have to let me know how it goes xxx"

Yeah. I just hope that it will be a good first time experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi spin hope you ok great news your trying a club are you going alone xx

Hi Kat. Yes I am going alone good on you hope everything goes well and you have a great time x

I hope so as well when are you going? xx

I'll be going on the 9th March sounds great you will have to let me know how it goes xxx

Yeah. I just hope that it will be a good first time experience"
fingers crossed xx

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Our first club experience was also our first ever swinging experience too... we didn't leave until 4am...

It's easy to say but honestly, onc you're in there you'll wonder why you didn't do it sooner.

Most people are there for a fun time whether that's socialising or more. I've never found anyone to be unpleasant or rude - be respectful and you can't go wrong.

D

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi spin.

You will be nervous on your first visit, it's normal so just try to relax and enjoy yourself.

The same advice is usually given to everyone going to a club for the first time. Go with no expectations of play, if it happens that's a bonus.

Be warm and friendly and chat to people. It's not all about the sex so try not to be rude or crude when talking to people as it can be off putting for many. I find nothing worse than someone approaching me in a club saying "hi, so what are you into?" .

If you don't want to play that's ok too, just say no thanks. On my first visit I didn't want to play, everyone was very respectful of this and I had a lovely night just talking to people and getting a feel for the place.

One more thing. A lot of people like a drink to calm their nerves. There is nothing wrong with that but don't have too much. Being pissed isn't sexy and you may be asked to leave.

Enjoy yourself hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi spin.

You will be nervous on your first visit, it's normal so just try to relax and enjoy yourself.

The same advice is usually given to everyone going to a club for the first time. Go with no expectations of play, if it happens that's a bonus.

Be warm and friendly and chat to people. It's not all about the sex so try not to be rude or crude when talking to people as it can be off putting for many. I find nothing worse than someone approaching me in a club saying "hi, so what are you into?" .

If you don't want to play that's ok too, just say no thanks. On my first visit I didn't want to play, everyone was very respectful of this and I had a lovely night just talking to people and getting a feel for the place.

One more thing. A lot of people like a drink to calm their nerves. There is nothing wrong with that but don't have too much. Being pissed isn't sexy and you may be asked to leave.

Enjoy yourself hun "

Thanks for the helpful advice. I'll do my best not to expect anything. I'll be sticking to just soft drinks on the night as well.

If a play does happen, do I bring my own condoms just in case or do I get some while I'm there?

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Some clubs supply condoms some dont check the website of the club your going to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some clubs supply condoms some dont check the website of the club your going to"

I know that Cupids does supply them but I'm not sure whether to bring my own just in case

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Some clubs supply condoms some dont check the website of the club your going to

I know that Cupids does supply them but I'm not sure whether to bring my own just in case"

I would just to be safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some clubs supply condoms some dont check the website of the club your going to

I know that Cupids does supply them but I'm not sure whether to bring my own just in case

I would just to be safe "

Ok cool. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always take our own xx

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