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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone thanks for reading, I've not had much luck so far since joining so have decided that I'm going to give the club scene a try, and am looking for someone to go with for the first time to show me the ropes wether it's a m mf or f doesn't matter, I am a genuine guy well mannered and straight, cheers

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd go on your own if I were you, get used to socialising as a single bloke because you will need to.

It's not as scary as you think, just probably a bit dull till you make some connections.

Just turn up and chat with every single person in there with a smile on your face, job done.

Expect zero play first time and just take it in. If you get lucky it'll be because of your chat, not because you were loitering outside a room with the gaggle of singlies looking desperate.

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha loved that bit at the end, cheers mate if I ever Buck up the currage to go on my own one night I will do

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Courage... girls dig spelling.

Sorry couldn't help myself.

Good luck dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm absolutely not having a dig, it is an honest query. Why do you need to go along with someone? I managed to swallow my nerves, pull up my metaphorical big girl pants and go it alone. It's not scary, people are generally friendly to polite and sociable newbies.

Phone the club in advance to introduce yourself and explain it's your first club visit, they will look after you and make sure you're introduced to people to natter with.

Above all expect nothing and don't get d*unk.

Have fun.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I want yo go and am a nervous too (female )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The only reason I want to go along with some is that they will know how it works and what to expect, it's not the fact of meeting new people

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's just like going to the pub on your own. Except less crusty men watching sportsball and more people in thunderpants and towels.

And yeah ring up and you'll get shown round.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Hi everyone thanks for reading, I've not had much luck so far since joining so have decided that I'm going to give the club scene a try, and am looking for someone to go with for the first time to show me the ropes wether it's a m mf or f doesn't matter, I am a genuine guy well mannered and straight, cheers "

Op I've never set foot in a pub on my own but managed to go to swingers clubs alone before I met hubby! Be brave, put on your big boy pants and take the plunge. You've got nothing to lose and a great time to gain.

In terms of what to expect, think of it in the same way as going to a pub or nightclub. People will socialise, have a few drinks, dance if it's a nightclub style place etc. The only difference is that people may wear less clothes and somewhere in the building someone may be having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got plenty of great cubs within easy travelling distance.

Look at the club section on here and also their websites.

Choose which one you like the look of most.

Then check out their criteria for single males attending for different events.

Choose an event that appeals to you, phone or email/message the club and say you'd like to attend and it's your first time at a club.

Pluck up the courage and get yourself along to said event.

Chat to everyone that will listen, including other single males. Don't have too much Dutch courage. Don't have any expectations, just relax and enjoy.

Then come back and post how it went as a single guy at a club.

HTH, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses

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