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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy" lol really ? I'm part of the eureka 'team' albeit in hosting form and previous to hosting was a customer for over 2 years every week and have never encountered that ?? Maybe that's because I'm a pleasant person that isn't rude to anyone therefore you tend to reap what you sow ! My suggestion OP is come along and see for yourself ... let's face it 180 + Wooley on a Saturday night can't be wrong And if you fancy my night Eurekacougarsandcubs we positively welcome single guys | |||
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"if u like the 1970s its great" Clearly not been to the club in a while... Silly comment tbh. | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy lol really ? I'm part of the eureka 'team' albeit in hosting form and previous to hosting was a customer for over 2 years every week and have never encountered that ?? Maybe that's because I'm a pleasant person that isn't rude to anyone therefore you tend to reap what you sow ! My suggestion OP is come along and see for yourself ... let's face it 180 + Wooley on a Saturday night can't be wrong And if you fancy my night Eurekacougarsandcubs we positively welcome single guys " Couldn't agree more. The team at Eureka, where we also host now, are amazing. In the over 2 years we have been going we have never seen them be rude. Firm with objectionable trouble makers, but never rude. | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy" IF you want to go to a really good club, you can't do better than Chameleons in Birmingham. I've been to Eureka on 3 occasions. It was filthy. The staff didn't give a fuck. It felt tacky. Not a proper swingers club. Just an excuse to fleece people. Go to Chameleons or Mingles or Pleasures or Bristol Gardens or OP4Fun . ... just not Eureka. Avoid avoid! | |||
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"not keen on it from us...... too much like a nightclub in the evening... too many single guys luring over ladies...and too many clicky people... unless u know other people chances are you wont get spoken too." You haven't tried one of our nights x Yes it has a night club vibe because people are up dancing,enjoying themselves,most clubs have a dance area that makes for a good party Our nights have never been overrun by single guys,always a good ratio and as for cliques,every club has people that know each other,some have met on the night,and everybody is very welcoming,come along to one of our nights and see how welcome you feel,our verifications don't lie | |||
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"not keen on it from us...... too much like a nightclub in the evening... too many single guys luring over ladies...and too many clicky people... unless u know other people chances are you wont get spoken too. You haven't tried one of our nights x Yes it has a night club vibe because people are up dancing,enjoying themselves,most clubs have a dance area that makes for a good party Our nights have never been overrun by single guys,always a good ratio and as for cliques,every club has people that know each other,some have met on the night,and everybody is very welcoming,come along to one of our nights and see how welcome you feel,our verifications don't lie " we wont visit eurekas on a evening again... we personally didn't feel comfortable there and we didn't feel very welcome.... wew ant to try it during the day for the outdoor scene as we like that sort of thing but definably not for us in the evenings. | |||
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"not keen on it from us...... too much like a nightclub in the evening... too many single guys luring over ladies...and too many clicky people... unless u know other people chances are you wont get spoken too. You haven't tried one of our nights x Yes it has a night club vibe because people are up dancing,enjoying themselves,most clubs have a dance area that makes for a good party Our nights have never been overrun by single guys,always a good ratio and as for cliques,every club has people that know each other,some have met on the night,and everybody is very welcoming,come along to one of our nights and see how welcome you feel,our verifications don't lie we wont visit eurekas on a evening again... we personally didn't feel comfortable there and we didn't feel very welcome.... wew ant to try it during the day for the outdoor scene as we like that sort of thing but definably not for us in the evenings. " That's a shame,we are a friendly bunch x When the warmer weather comes then visit again,I be on a sunbed so say hi sheri | |||
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"not keen on it from us...... too much like a nightclub in the evening... too many single guys luring over ladies...and too many clicky people... unless u know other people chances are you wont get spoken too. You haven't tried one of our nights x Yes it has a night club vibe because people are up dancing,enjoying themselves,most clubs have a dance area that makes for a good party Our nights have never been overrun by single guys,always a good ratio and as for cliques,every club has people that know each other,some have met on the night,and everybody is very welcoming,come along to one of our nights and see how welcome you feel,our verifications don't lie we wont visit eurekas on a evening again... we personally didn't feel comfortable there and we didn't feel very welcome.... wew ant to try it during the day for the outdoor scene as we like that sort of thing but definably not for us in the evenings. " we visit a lot in the daytime when its warm , its a different ambiance in the daytime and the outside facilitys are great | |||
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"Please ignore above statement, the club has had a major refurb in the last couple of months. It's very relaxed and laid back with a variety of different parties weekly. Saturday's being the busiest. If you can make tomorrow there's a fab swingers social where members from here can get to know each other out faces to names etc. All details are in the meet and events forum. Only one way of finding out if u like it, is by trying it. Horses for courses and all that " And a great night it was too. Lots of sexy tarts and vicars. Great atmosphere and music | |||
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"Thinking of going to a club never been and maybe going on my own or if any one wants to drag me alone to one it will be my first time going? So not shore if I am doing the right thing.. " Very relaxed and in the summer a great place to go | |||
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"As a complete neutral, Eurekas is the only major club in the south (apart from Paradise Spa) that allows single men in on a Saturday night, it is also comparably reasonably priced for a Saturday night. It is also reasonably priced for chilling during the day. Having visited most clubs in the south,in every club: There is a clique (if you think it does not, you are in the clique). The facilities have lots of good days and the odd bad day The staff have lots of good days and the odd bad day My rule used to be try every club twice and see what works for me. But occasionally try another one again. " | |||
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"As a host for Eureka on some party nights, I guess clubs are not for all. I meet and greet on the door from 8pm - 11pm ( was too cold on Saturday so went in at 10.30) I always introduce Newbies to other guests as going to a club for the first time can be very daunting. I always chat to everyone as much as I can walking around the club or dancing with them for the majority of the evening... Cliques are not cliques as such.. a positive look is that they are good friends who are happy to enjoy the evening/play with the friends they have made.. Why change something when it works!!!! I have also seen some guests speaking to staff very detrimentally and like s**t... So not fair... I have attended other clubs and could sit here and slate good and bad points but as a professional I wont... Just find out for yourself and see what you like best !! If you are after a good laugh with a nightclub feel where u can play, chat, laugh, dance and be yourself then I recommend Eureka... If this isn't your thing then try elsewhere, stand on ceremony and see if you will be picked to play xxxx " Couldn't have said it better ! | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy" Really!!!!!!! Going as a single guy to this place I was made to feel extremely welcome. by the staff, event organisers and other folk in the club. You get out what you put in. Go with the attitude of meeting friendly people with no expectations and you'll be tret with respect and have a bloody good laugh. | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy Really!!!!!!! Going as a single guy to this place I was made to feel extremely welcome. by the staff, event organisers and other folk in the club. You get out what you put in. Go with the attitude of meeting friendly people with no expectations and you'll be tret with respect and have a bloody good laugh. " | |||
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"Single male guy looking to go tomorrow, any advice? Is it awkward?" Just be yourself, don't go in to brash and just be respectful. If you go with the idea of not getting lucky.. you won't be disappointed if it does not happen... but if it does.. then happy days! If your going to the party.. then just let the party organiser aware and she will introduce you and show you around. Have fun x | |||
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"Single male guy looking to go tomorrow, any advice? Is it awkward? Just be yourself, don't go in to brash and just be respectful. If you go with the idea of not getting lucky.. you won't be disappointed if it does not happen... but if it does.. then happy days! If your going to the party.. then just let the party organiser aware and she will introduce you and show you around. Have fun x " This x | |||
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"Single male guy looking to go tomorrow, any advice? Is it awkward? Just be yourself, don't go in to brash and just be respectful. If you go with the idea of not getting lucky.. you won't be disappointed if it does not happen... but if it does.. then happy days! If your going to the party.. then just let the party organiser aware and she will introduce you and show you around. Have fun x " Oooh more newbies. You are very welcome, just turn up be social, relax and chat to people. I guarantee you will meet some very lovely people. I do all the time xxx | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy" I've been few times as a couple, and can say the biggest problem I've found is the single blokes that do not understand the word 'No', gangs of single guys following couples around with a pack mentailty, single guys desperately trying to get into the couples room. I've now given up with the place. | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy I've been few times as a couple, and can say the biggest problem I've found is the single blokes that do not understand the word 'No', gangs of single guys following couples around with a pack mentailty, single guys desperately trying to get into the couples room. I've now given up with the place." Probably why I've never seen you there in the 4 years I've been going .... | |||
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"I'd love to check the place out from a naturist angle, the pictures of the grounds look great, how does it fare on that front?" The grounds are beautiful ... have spent many a Sunday after partying the Saturday night sunbathing and chilling 23 acres , fields sand woodlands to walk thro and a lovely 60ft pool Summer can be packed out and often the BBQ is on too | |||
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"if it has had a refurb we will give it another shot then, thanks for posting up the info peeps! good to know " Unfortunately you can't refurbish people's manners or a desperate single guys sex drive. | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy I've been few times as a couple, and can say the biggest problem I've found is the single blokes that do not understand the word 'No', gangs of single guys following couples around with a pack mentailty, single guys desperately trying to get into the couples room. I've now given up with the place. Probably why I've never seen you there in the 4 years I've been going .... " I went there last year. | |||
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"if it has had a refurb we will give it another shot then, thanks for posting up the info peeps! good to know Unfortunately you can't refurbish people's manners or a desperate single guys sex drive." no but we just politely request that they leave us alone if we aren't interested and if they don't we report it to the people in charge. never had a need to do that yet though at any club we have been to. | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy I've been few times as a couple, and can say the biggest problem I've found is the single blokes that do not understand the word 'No', gangs of single guys following couples around with a pack mentailty, single guys desperately trying to get into the couples room. I've now given up with the place. Probably why I've never seen you there in the 4 years I've been going .... I went there last year." Then you've not seen the refurb do not really able to judge on how it looks .... | |||
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"if it has had a refurb we will give it another shot then, thanks for posting up the info peeps! good to know Unfortunately you can't refurbish people's manners or a desperate single guys sex drive. no but we just politely request that they leave us alone if we aren't interested and if they don't we report it to the people in charge. never had a need to do that yet though at any club we have been to. " | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy I've been few times as a couple, and can say the biggest problem I've found is the single blokes that do not understand the word 'No', gangs of single guys following couples around with a pack mentailty, single guys desperately trying to get into the couples room. I've now given up with the place. Probably why I've never seen you there in the 4 years I've been going .... I went there last year. Then you've not seen the refurb do not really able to judge on how it looks .... " Eh! I spoke of the clientele not the venue. The venue's ok. Go back and read it again A refurbished and peoples manners are 2 different subjects. Yes I can judge. It's called an opinion based on several observations. Everyone that walks through the door will form an opinion be it good or bad. Calm down. | |||
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"Please ignore above statement, the club has had a major refurb in the last couple of months. It's very relaxed and laid back with a variety of different parties weekly. Saturday's being the busiest. If you can make tomorrow there's a fab swingers social where members from here can get to know each other out faces to names etc. All details are in the meet and events forum. Only one way of finding out if u like it, is by trying it. Horses for courses and all that " | |||
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"Be ready for some astonishing rudeness from staff and management especially if your a single guy I've been few times as a couple, and can say the biggest problem I've found is the single blokes that do not understand the word 'No', gangs of single guys following couples around with a pack mentailty, single guys desperately trying to get into the couples room. I've now given up with the place. Probably why I've never seen you there in the 4 years I've been going .... I went there last year. Then you've not seen the refurb do not really able to judge on how it looks .... Eh! I spoke of the clientele not the venue. The venue's ok. Go back and read it again A refurbished and peoples manners are 2 different subjects. Yes I can judge. It's called an opinion based on several observations. Everyone that walks through the door will form an opinion be it good or bad. Calm down." Loooooooool too damn funny !!!!!!!! | |||
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"I'd love to check the place out from a naturist angle, the pictures of the grounds look great, how does it fare on that front? The grounds are beautiful ... have spent many a Sunday after partying the Saturday night sunbathing and chilling 23 acres , fields sand woodlands to walk thro and a lovely 60ft pool Summer can be packed out and often the BBQ is on too " Sounds idyllic | |||
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"Many of the complaints seem to be that "Eureka is not like a swingers club" and I would agree. Eureka IS NOT your typical meat market club. Party nights are called party nights for a reason, THEY ARE PARTIES. If you turn up with the intention of just "getting a shag" then the likelihood is you won't. There's always loads of play, but it's the respectful people that end up playing. If you don't socialise then who's fault is that? I know that all of the hosts make a point of engaging with people, whether they are hosting a party or just there as regular punters. NONE of the hosts are employed by Eureka, we are hosts because we are club members who want to bring something more to the club and help it grow. Also, to address a common misconception, hosts are there to run parties; we ARE NOT there to provide sexual services! If you see any of the hosts playing, it's for the same reasons you play, it's NOT part of the admission price! YES, we have a high opinion of Eureka, that's who we become party hosts, so don't be surprised that we have positive views of the club... " couldn't have said it better myself | |||
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"if it has had a refurb we will give it another shot then, thanks for posting up the info peeps! good to know Unfortunately you can't refurbish people's manners or a desperate single guys sex drive." Perhaps try the couples and singles females night that has its first even on 23rd February. | |||
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"I'd love to check the place out from a naturist angle, the pictures of the grounds look great, how does it fare on that front? The grounds are beautiful ... have spent many a Sunday after partying the Saturday night sunbathing and chilling 23 acres , fields sand woodlands to walk thro and a lovely 60ft pool Summer can be packed out and often the BBQ is on too Sounds idyllic " Can't wait for the sun to start shining. | |||
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