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Thinking of popping my club-goers cherry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been wanting to experience the club scene for a while, but I'll admit that I'm apprehensive and don't know what to expect.

I've got a few questions, so if any of you more "experienced" club-goers could help, that would be great (I say 'club goers' instead of swingers, because I know not everyone who goes to a club is a swinger and not every swinger likes to go to clubs)

- are single men well received?

- are there confidentiality laws/etiquette surrounding them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't really comment on part 2 but cameras are generally forbidden!

Our experience is that singleguys are welcome but not every couple will be looking for them - so be polite and find the couples that want extra!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys are welcome in all clubs, although many do limit the amount so always best to check.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they have to sit and wait to be approached?

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

If you sit and wait to be approached you may wait all night, be chatty and friendly, the bar or jaccuzi areas are a good place to start conversations

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Never think you can just join in.

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Can't really comment on part 2 but cameras are generally forbidden!

Our experience is that singleguys are welcome but not every couple will be looking for them - so be polite and find the couples that want extra!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

The best thing it to hover near the bar and chat to couples and single ladies. Be friendly and chatty. Bar staff might introduce you to people once you have had a tour round the club.

After chatting with people , they may ask if you wish to join them. You could also watch people in the play areas and make eye contact. They may wave you over to join. You can ask if you can join them. If they say no, then smile and wander on.

It should be relaxed and fun.

I would suggest for your first time, you plan to just have a fun evening chatting to people and maybe swap usernames so you can get verifications. You can then keep in touch with people and maybe hook up in the future. Don't expect to get involved first visit. Bit then if it happens it's a bonus.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"The best thing it to hover near the bar and chat to couples and single ladies. Be friendly and chatty. Bar staff might introduce you to people once you have had a tour round the club.

After chatting with people , they may ask if you wish to join them. You could also watch people in the play areas and make eye contact. They may wave you over to join. You can ask if you can join them. If they say no, then smile and wander on.

It should be relaxed and fun.

I would suggest for your first time, you plan to just have a fun evening chatting to people and maybe swap usernames so you can get verifications. You can then keep in touch with people and maybe hook up in the future. Don't expect to get involved first visit. Bit then if it happens it's a bonus. "

Very well said! X

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Come to Amours on the 10th Feb I'm hosting Eurekacougarsandcubs ... we love single guys

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Or you could pop along to Atlantis in Stoke for my birthday party and charity event Fri Feb 17th.

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By *ide standMan
over a year ago

Cymau

Go for it but remember club etiquette, always be polite and ask if a couple or lady want to play and don't take it to heart if it's a no because everyone is looking for their own fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id ring the club before you land to ensure you are welcome- many limit and vet the single men (with good reason) - but once in as has been suggested - stay in the bar/lounge area and the old eye content thing is good with a word or two in passing - maybe advertise here that youre going and see if there is anyone going that night who can at least ssay hi to you with no pressure

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

yes check the nights and club websites for when as a single guy youd be most welcome.

check their membership/ entrance criteria.

then take a deep breath..shower, dress nice and put on your friendly social face and get there..be relaxed and chatty, see it as a good night out, keep respectful and dont worry if people say no, you cant be what everyone wants all the time..get some veris even if social and if you get known face to face, things are sure to pick up in that scene xxx have fun x

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