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"We go but not very often, babysitters can be hard to come by, Ess" Same | |||
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"Used to go before they changed their name from ISIS I wonder why hehe x" Yeah, don't know why they did that, we always have a blast when we go ... what? Too soon? Ess | |||
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"How far from skipton / haworth. Have a hotel booked tmw " Mate have a look on Google maps you are no where near. | |||
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"How far from skipton / haworth. Have a hotel booked tmw Mate have a look on Google maps you are no where near." But if you zoom out a bit, then it's within walking distance Ess | |||
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"Last time I went, my partner at the time broke her ankle and we had to have an ambulance crew in the cinema room!! It sounds like I made that up... I didn't!!" Ok I'll say it. Was swinging her achilles heel? I'll get my coat. | |||
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"We haven't been in a few months due to work commitments but used to go quite frequently to couples nights and plan on going to a few over the coming months, maybe get to see you there OP " Look forwards to it | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though." so no single men allowed? | |||
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"Used to go before they changed their name from ISIS I wonder why hehe x" They were Isis Quest before they moved to the new premises. | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though. so no single men allowed?" Single men are allowed, but they have more couples only events than they used to. Knock on effect is that there are more couples attending the evenings that are not couples only, which then reduces the number of single men available for me, as they prefer to play with couples. Woe is me etc etc | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though.so no single men allowed?" Check their website for timings of couple only nights. I think they're twice a month so plenty of scope for single guys to visit. | |||
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" Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. " I don't think it's true that Quest are concentrating on couples. Only the first and third Saturday of the month are couples but every other night it is open to single men (except Mondays when it is shut!) Sally | |||
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" Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. I don't think it's true that Quest are concentrating on couples. Only the first and third Saturday of the month are couples but every other night it is open to single men (except Mondays when it is shut!) Sally" So basically only two nights a month. Doesn't sound very couple focused to me. | |||
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" Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. I don't think it's true that Quest are concentrating on couples. Only the first and third Saturday of the month are couples but every other night it is open to single men (except Mondays when it is shut!) Sally" I explained above that the number of couples attending non-restricted nights has increased too, thus reducing the number of single men who play with single women. | |||
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"Yep only 2 nights a month are couples only. To put that into context. La chambre has 1 each week As does cupids, Partners has or had 2 each week. More couples are going because it's been updated. But it's still has more Saturdays when single men attend than not and of course every other night is available to them." And we always seem to be unavailable for couples nights maybe they should do one a week Ess | |||
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"Yep only 2 nights a month are couples only. To put that into context. La chambre has 1 each week As does cupids, Partners has or had 2 each week. More couples are going because it's been updated. But it's still has more Saturdays when single men attend than not and of course every other night is available to them. And we always seem to be unavailable for couples nights maybe they should do one a week Ess" Cupids Wednesday Partners Thursday La chambre or quest Saturday Partners Sunday. I think cupids do a bi girl night on some Tuesdays to were partners can accompany upstairs but not down. | |||
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"We find the opposite through the day . We've easily been out numbered 10 guys per couple , and although the attention is nice some more single women and couples would make for a more interesting afternoon now and again. " I have often thought I should go more in the afternoon but working full time makes that difficult. My fondest memories are of Wednesday afternoons in Isis. | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though." Every time we have been to quest(and we go atleast once sometimes twice a week) there has always been plenty of single guys. Sometimes far too many to behonest and its embarassing going to the play rooms followed by a dozen guys hopeing to get the nod to play. | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though. Every time we have been to quest(and we go atleast once sometimes twice a week) there has always been plenty of single guys. Sometimes far too many to behonest and its embarassing going to the play rooms followed by a dozen guys hopeing to get the nod to play." Not embarrassing at all - either invite them to join in or shut the door! We find the etiquette very good. My husband and I are there to fulfill eachothers needs, we don't feel embarrassed about that at all m x | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though. Every time we have been to quest(and we go atleast once sometimes twice a week) there has always been plenty of single guys. Sometimes far too many to behonest and its embarassing going to the play rooms followed by a dozen guys hopeing to get the nod to play. Not embarrassing at all - either invite them to join in or shut the door! We find the etiquette very good. My husband and I are there to fulfill eachothers needs, we don't feel embarrassed about that at all m x " Didn't mean embarassing for us i ment for the single guys . | |||
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"I used to go a lot when it was Isis, then a few times when it became Quest. I think the club is one of the best laid out clubs I have been to, and its been done well. Unfortunately it is now concentrating on couples and so there are very few single men for me to play with now. the last two times I went I didn't play at all, which means I don't go so much. I may make an effort again this month though. Every time we have been to quest(and we go atleast once sometimes twice a week) there has always been plenty of single guys. Sometimes far too many to behonest and its embarassing going to the play rooms followed by a dozen guys hopeing to get the nod to play. Not embarrassing at all - either invite them to join in or shut the door! We find the etiquette very good. My husband and I are there to fulfill eachothers needs, we don't feel embarrassed about that at all m x Didn't mean embarassing for us i ment for the single guys . " Not all of us hide in the shadows half naked dribbling on ourselves, some of us actually say hello! | |||
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"Thinking of attending next Tuesday afternoon for my first time! Anyone else going to be there? Any tips advise x" Just remember that Tuesday is Bi afternoon . So depending on your interests it may not be for you . We've never been on a Tuesday so don't know what the mix is like . | |||
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"Have been to quest just twice and found that NO-ONE and i mean NO-ONE, would talk to me, even though am approachable at any time. I think that quest is just for couples and local people that are keeping the place very kliquie. Such a shame about the place, it would be a very nice club if people would drop the attitude." We'll talk to anyone , but have noticed than some just keep themselves to themselves . We find this very strange as surely this doesn't really work in a club setting . | |||
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"I have a deviant mind so I'm sure I'll be ok. Do people just get naked when they get there or just in certain areas " Most guys tend to just wear a towel. We try to get there early during the day and use the hot tub before been followed around , and only change when we want to . | |||
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"Have been to quest just twice and found that NO-ONE and i mean NO-ONE, would talk to me, even though am approachable at any time. I think that quest is just for couples and local people that are keeping the place very kliquie. Such a shame about the place, it would be a very nice club if people would drop the attitude." Conversation is two ways, so you can't always expect everyone to be approaching. We generally make the first move when we've been to any club. There is always lots of sitting and waiting until someone decides to try talking to someone. | |||
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"Have been to quest just twice and found that NO-ONE and i mean NO-ONE, would talk to me, even though am approachable at any time. I think that quest is just for couples and local people that are keeping the place very kliquie. Such a shame about the place, it would be a very nice club if people would drop the attitude." They may just be shy. I'm shy as heck so I just tend to hide behind Adam looking very lost. However once we get chatting, I'm a whole other person. Have you tried approaching them? Eve. X | |||
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"What do couples make of guys coming to chat or saying hello " We don't mind , we end up chatting to more guys than anyone else . It's just like been in your local sometimes . | |||
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"I am hoping to go for my first time mid Jan ... A bit nervous to be honest as will only be second time to a club and 8 am a single girl. Should I dress to impress or undress to do so?" I dress to impress and undress to impress too. I just like wearing pretty things when I get the opportunity he he. Eve. X | |||
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"Have been to quest just twice and found that NO-ONE and i mean NO-ONE, would talk to me, even though am approachable at any time. I think that quest is just for couples and local people that are keeping the place very kliquie. Such a shame about the place, it would be a very nice club if people would drop the attitude." Have you tried the 4th Thursday of the month for T-Girls all day fun? Or Tuesday afternoon for Bi Tuesdays? Maybe there'll be more of a mix and less of a clique then. | |||
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"So, can we do a roll call for Friday and Saturday?!" Good ahead doll. Saturday for us! Eve. X | |||
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"Oh i thought i was near to leeds anyway thanks lol " It's half an hour on the train or 45 mins in the car. | |||
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"We find the opposite through the day . We've easily been out numbered 10 guys per couple , and although the attention is nice some more single women and couples would make for a more interesting afternoon now and again. " Thinking of going to quest today, what times the best. Normal single guy here x | |||
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"We once went to Quest on a Wednesday afternoon. There were only 19 people in the club but all 19 were playing together in the cinema room. It was one of our best times there. Much more fun to have 19 people playing than 119 chatting in the bar. Sally" | |||
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"We're planning on going on Friday - work and traffic allowing! If we can't make Friday we'll switch to Saturday X " Saturday seems like the best day, it's going to be busy I reckon. Eve. X | |||
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"Many people have said couples night is too much like a social with very few people playing; discuss ?" Admittedly we haven't been in a couple of months but I think the difference seems to be that people don't go to the playrooms until later on in the night on couples nights but every time we have been every room has always been full of people playing after midnight | |||
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"Many people have said couples night is too much like a social with very few people playing; discuss ?" We have been twice and played both times. We (me mostly he he) are a fan of the viewing rooms. We will be going early we can socialise for a few hours but then we will be on the hunt ha ha. Eve. X | |||
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"Many people have said couples night is too much like a social with very few people playing; discuss ?" I guess a all nights are different and we like the fact that they is no pressure to play. That said the only night we have been, Christmas party, we played with 2 couples at the same time before midnight, followed by another couple then finally another couple right at the end of the night. We meet many more couples to talk to too. I guess each night depends who attends and your own attitude in the club | |||
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"We are traveling down south tomorrow and thinking of checking out Quest. Just don't know whether to go Friday or Saturday night. Given that it seems Saturday is a birthday event night, are we better off avoiding that for a first visit? " I'm not sure on the birthday front, sorry. But I just thought I'd mention that it's couples only (and single females I think) this Saturday but not on the Friday (single males allowed too) so I'm not sure if that would sway you either way. Miss T | |||
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"We are traveling down south tomorrow and thinking of checking out Quest. Just don't know whether to go Friday or Saturday night. Given that it seems Saturday is a birthday event night, are we better off avoiding that for a first visit? " Definitely don't avoid Saturday night. It's not a private night, it's just going to be a busy night which is always good. Eve. X | |||
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"We are traveling down south tomorrow and thinking of checking out Quest. Just don't know whether to go Friday or Saturday night. Given that it seems Saturday is a birthday event night, are we better off avoiding that for a first visit? " Defo not !! Probably a great time to go ! We went to Quest actual birthday party for our real first time and was one of the best nights yet !! X | |||
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"I am hoping to go for my first time mid Jan ... A bit nervous to be honest as will only be second time to a club and 8 am a single girl. Should I dress to impress or undress to do so?" I was like you on my first visit and unsure as to what to wear. I wore a sexy black dress, then ended up going into the hot tub so I was in a towel after that. I found sitting in the bar area after play in just a towel, felt rather awkward, but that's what the people I'd met were doing so I just went with the flow. I would of been happier slipping back into my dress. Hope you have a fun time when you visit | |||
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"We are traveling down south tomorrow and thinking of checking out Quest. Just don't know whether to go Friday or Saturday night. Given that it seems Saturday is a birthday event night, are we better off avoiding that for a first visit? Definitely don't avoid Saturday night. It's not a private night, it's just going to be a busy night which is always good. Eve. X" Thanks Eve! Good to hear you would still recommend it even on a very busy night. Do say hi if you see us x | |||
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"We are traveling down south tomorrow and thinking of checking out Quest. Just don't know whether to go Friday or Saturday night. Given that it seems Saturday is a birthday event night, are we better off avoiding that for a first visit? Defo not !! Probably a great time to go ! We went to Quest actual birthday party for our real first time and was one of the best nights yet !! X" That's reassuring to hear! Thanks! | |||
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"My wife has decided she liked to explore her BDSM experience a little more.We visited La Chambre last year and enjoyed it, would any one recommend Quest on a theme night or find a club that specializes in this type of play?" Google Euphoria Fetish Events | |||
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"We try to visit when we can . We go through the day as it works better for us with little one been at school . " what's it like through the day as iam thinking of going | |||
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"We try to visit when we can . We go through the day as it works better for us with little one been at school . what's it like through the day as iam thinking of going " we go on friday afternoons - always have fun m x | |||
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"Was talking about going to quest earlier today. It would be the first club for us both & tbh I'm not really sure what to expect. Probably looking to go to one of the couples & ladies nights sometime very soon. Any advice welcome for a couple of noobies!" Remember to take id, alcohol and maybe some flip-flops for the wet area. Set boundaries before you go. Just relax and enjoy yourselves xx | |||
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"Was talking about going to quest earlier today. It would be the first club for us both & tbh I'm not really sure what to expect. Probably looking to go to one of the couples & ladies nights sometime very soon. Any advice welcome for a couple of noobies! Remember to take id, alcohol and maybe some flip-flops for the wet area. Set boundaries before you go. Just relax and enjoy yourselves xx" Where you the tall blonde in the red outfit with the ecig in the smoking room on Saturday? | |||
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"Was talking about going to quest earlier today. It would be the first club for us both & tbh I'm not really sure what to expect. Probably looking to go to one of the couples & ladies nights sometime very soon. Any advice welcome for a couple of noobies! Remember to take id, alcohol and maybe some flip-flops for the wet area. Set boundaries before you go. Just relax and enjoy yourselves xx" Flip flops never even crossed my mind, that's not a euphemism is it?! | |||
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