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Steamers quay.. Anyone been there?

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Female half here, not been to a club before (male has) but we are thinking of going next weekend. Can't seem to find any threads on here or reviews on the internet about steamers, if anyone has been please post how it was for you x

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

On the Club reviews section there are loads of reviews but under the name Swingers Quay. It's in the South West section. We haven't ventured in yet but think about it often when we down that way. Let us know what you think

T x

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By *rMrs_CCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Personally we hated it. Full of single guys who followed and it was quiet. Try Secrets as it's the best club in the SW!! Packed, sexy people. Been going 2 years x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thanks I found reviews on here xx

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

I saw a note talking about the place and had a look at its website. Only seems to be open Saturdays and the odd Friday?

Not interested in going due to distance but it doesn’t seem to sell itself well.

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By *t8679Couple
over a year ago

newton abbot

It’s grear been going 2 years and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hit or miss and depends who whose there. We've been a couple of times, first time was great but didn't enjoy the second time. We prefer secrets or decadent nights near Burnham on Sea x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's always quieter the weekend that secrets is on as well.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASUREMan
over a year ago

plymouth

It's not to every ones taste ! No need to dress up going there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is somewhere we wish to try very soon heard some good reviews via word of mouth

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By *haring is caringCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

The actual venue is perfect, just a bit hit and miss on who’s there on the night.

Best thing is to give it a try and see how it is for you.

We’re thinking of heading there this Saturday, but go with no expectations just chill and relax.

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x"

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too. "

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X"

No.

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No. "

OK

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK "

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol.

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol. "

Why? Swinging isn't as taboo as it once was... Just kidding, I get you lol. Enjoy your weekend x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol.

Why? Swinging isn't as taboo as it once was... Just kidding, I get you lol. Enjoy your weekend x"

Nothing to do with taboo at all, I dont want endless messages from people asking me to go with them, what time, date etc. Lol

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Have fun Sam xx

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol.

Why? Swinging isn't as taboo as it once was... Just kidding, I get you lol. Enjoy your weekend x

Nothing to do with taboo at all, I dont want endless messages from people asking me to go with them, what time, date etc. Lol"

I fully understand, I was trying to be tongue in cheek lol. Thank you, I am a little nervous about going by myself but if I want to make new friends I have to take the step. X

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol.

Why? Swinging isn't as taboo as it once was... Just kidding, I get you lol. Enjoy your weekend x

Nothing to do with taboo at all, I dont want endless messages from people asking me to go with them, what time, date etc. Lol

I fully understand, I was trying to be tongue in cheek lol. Thank you, I am a little nervous about going by myself but if I want to make new friends I have to take the step. X"

Long drive from Birmingham though, or are you staying in the area?

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol.

Why? Swinging isn't as taboo as it once was... Just kidding, I get you lol. Enjoy your weekend x

Nothing to do with taboo at all, I dont want endless messages from people asking me to go with them, what time, date etc. Lol

I fully understand, I was trying to be tongue in cheek lol. Thank you, I am a little nervous about going by myself but if I want to make new friends I have to take the step. X

Long drive from Birmingham though, or are you staying in the area? "

Yes, I was already visiting the area and staying a few nights and thought I'd attend the club. Normally I'm more confident going to male only saunas by myself because the gentleman are more friendly and sociable but I felt a change. Lovely place, I really enjoyed the large jazuzzi.

Hoping to make it my regular home, away from home

My apologies but did you say you have visited? If so, what were your thoughts?

Sam x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi all, did anyone go? I'm going this Saturday, really looking forward to it, Sam x

Yes, I had lots of fun, would be fine going there as a single female too.

I'm a little nervous as I'm not from these sides but I'm open-minded to enjoying myself. Will you be attending? X

No.

OK

If I was I wouldn't post it on a public forum either lol.

Why? Swinging isn't as taboo as it once was... Just kidding, I get you lol. Enjoy your weekend x

Nothing to do with taboo at all, I dont want endless messages from people asking me to go with them, what time, date etc. Lol

I fully understand, I was trying to be tongue in cheek lol. Thank you, I am a little nervous about going by myself but if I want to make new friends I have to take the step. X

Long drive from Birmingham though, or are you staying in the area?

Yes, I was already visiting the area and staying a few nights and thought I'd attend the club. Normally I'm more confident going to male only saunas by myself because the gentleman are more friendly and sociable but I felt a change. Lovely place, I really enjoyed the large jazuzzi.

Hoping to make it my regular home, away from home

My apologies but did you say you have visited? If so, what were your thoughts?

Sam x"

I've been a couple of times, I really enjoyed it. A nice friendly bunch of people there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a few times and enjoy it!

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The rest if the week it is a male only sauna x

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"The rest if the week it is a male only sauna x"

I go male saunas, the lgbt community are really nice to me lol

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By *am_brownMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I've been a few times and enjoy it! "

I had my first visit yesterday, was really fun. Slightly intimidating being a solo visitor but I just kept myself to myself and enjoyed the atmosphere.

Looking forward to my next visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a few times and enjoy it!

I had my first visit yesterday, was really fun. Slightly intimidating being a solo visitor but I just kept myself to myself and enjoyed the atmosphere.

Looking forward to my next visit"

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I've been a few times and enjoy it!

I had my first visit yesterday, was really fun. Slightly intimidating being a solo visitor but I just kept myself to myself and enjoyed the atmosphere.

Looking forward to my next visit

"

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By *upernudeMan
over a year ago

plymouth

I went here a few months ago, all I would say, for couples it’s great fun, single guys give it a miss, your not allowed in the couples room, which is where it’s all happening, so I won’t be going again unless as a couple, or guest of a couple. I will go as far as saying some of the single guys ruined it, being too pushy. But I did enjoy my visit, and do hope to go back one day

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I went here a few months ago, all I would say, for couples it’s great fun, single guys give it a miss, your not allowed in the couples room, which is where it’s all happening, so I won’t be going again unless as a couple, or guest of a couple. I will go as far as saying some of the single guys ruined it, being too pushy. But I did enjoy my visit, and do hope to go back one day"

I was looking for singles, not couples and didn't really use the couples area tbh. I found all the best facilities to be downstairs. As for single guys ruining it for others, they ruin it for themselves, no one else. I had one pushy guy, guess what? He got nowhere, the other guys were respectful and did have fun. As for single men not being allowed onto the couples area, I totally agree with the clubs decision to do this. They have plenty of access in the rest of the club and can be invited to join upstairs by women and couples. If you are respectful and non pushy chances are you will get an invite.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Anyone tell me where Secrets is in south west ? And is it a decent club in your experience ?

Moving to north Devon next year...

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental


"I went here a few months ago, all I would say, for couples it’s great fun, single guys give it a miss, your not allowed in the couples room, which is where it’s all happening, so I won’t be going again unless as a couple, or guest of a couple. I will go as far as saying some of the single guys ruined it, being too pushy. But I did enjoy my visit, and do hope to go back one day"

You can enter the couples area upstairs as a single chap if you are invited by a couple. I have been to this club on numerous times as a single and as a couple or with a couple. Always had a great time, great conversation, used all the facilities and left having met new friends. As a single chap in all club scenarios I am prepared to chat a lot and not have any expectations.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Anyone tell me where Secrets is in south west ? And is it a decent club in your experience ?

Moving to north Devon next year..."

No one will tell you because they are asked not to!! Plus single males cannot attend secrets alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone tell me where Secrets is in south west ? And is it a decent club in your experience ?

Moving to north Devon next year..."

Secrets is couples/females only I believe

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Anyone tell me where Secrets is in south west ? And is it a decent club in your experience ?

Moving to north Devon next year..."

It's not a club and it's couples and single females only.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I went here a few months ago, all I would say, for couples it’s great fun, single guys give it a miss, your not allowed in the couples room, which is where it’s all happening, so I won’t be going again unless as a couple, or guest of a couple. I will go as far as saying some of the single guys ruined it, being too pushy. But I did enjoy my visit, and do hope to go back one day

You can enter the couples area upstairs as a single chap if you are invited by a couple. I have been to this club on numerous times as a single and as a couple or with a couple. Always had a great time, great conversation, used all the facilities and left having met new friends. As a single chap in all club scenarios I am prepared to chat a lot and not have any expectations. "

Which is exactly the right way to behave.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We went to steamers once and didnt have the best night. But could've been more the company than the club. We went with a single guy who became possessive.

We would perhaps try again because it's the most local club

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We went to steamers once and didnt have the best night. But could've been more the company than the club. We went with a single guy who became possessive.

We would perhaps try again because it's the most local club"

It's the only semi local club lol

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We went to steamers once and didnt have the best night. But could've been more the company than the club. We went with a single guy who became possessive.

We would perhaps try again because it's the most local club

It's the only semi local club lol"

Yep which is so annoying haha. Secrets is ok for couples but it's only once a month and it works out so pricey with overnight stays.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We went to steamers once and didnt have the best night. But could've been more the company than the club. We went with a single guy who became possessive.

We would perhaps try again because it's the most local club

It's the only semi local club lol

Yep which is so annoying haha. Secrets is ok for couples but it's only once a month and it works out so pricey with overnight stays. "

And no single guys.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"We went to steamers once and didnt have the best night. But could've been more the company than the club. We went with a single guy who became possessive.

We would perhaps try again because it's the most local club

It's the only semi local club lol

Yep which is so annoying haha. Secrets is ok for couples but it's only once a month and it works out so pricey with overnight stays.

And no single guys. "

Single guys I can take or leave but I get single females would want them!!

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We went to steamers once and didnt have the best night. But could've been more the company than the club. We went with a single guy who became possessive.

We would perhaps try again because it's the most local club

It's the only semi local club lol

Yep which is so annoying haha. Secrets is ok for couples but it's only once a month and it works out so pricey with overnight stays.

And no single guys.

Single guys I can take or leave but I get single females would want them!! "

Some of us are looking to get coupled up lol

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