Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to Swinging Club Discussion |
| Jump to newest |  |
Anyone else got plans to  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi night at Abfabs is pretty mixed, and a specifically "bi guy friendly" night. I admit despite being local I've not tried the Greenhouse in Luton. " We have never found that there, to be honest. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi night at Abfabs is pretty mixed, and a specifically "bi guy friendly" night. I admit despite being local I've not tried the Greenhouse in Luton. We have never found that there, to be honest. " Did you leave early? I admit I haven't been many times this year but in 2014 and 2015 there was often a lot of group action involving male-male fun, and occasionally some 1-to-1. That suited me as I tend to go with my wife, who specifically is not into watching male-male fun so she could do her own thing while I looked for ladies and couples knowing that on that night I could exercise my rather small bi side if I so wished. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi night at Abfabs is pretty mixed, and a specifically "bi guy friendly" night. I admit despite being local I've not tried the Greenhouse in Luton. We have never found that there, to be honest. Did you leave early? I admit I haven't been many times this year but in 2014 and 2015 there was often a lot of group action involving male-male fun, and occasionally some 1-to-1. That suited me as I tend to go with my wife, who specifically is not into watching male-male fun so she could do her own thing while I looked for ladies and couples knowing that on that night I could exercise my rather small bi side if I so wished." Sorry, I will post from the couple profile as I have always only been there with my OH. We have been there on and off over the last two years. I don't think the layout does it any favours either, to be honest. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Let's see who else has been, as we are. genuinely fed up with so called 'bi nights' that are dominated by women and female -centric .we just haven't found a club that suits us" Have you tried Bi Night at VA (first Friday of the month, although Feb and March it's the second Friday)? Always a good night with plenty of bi activity across all genders. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Let's see who else has been, as we are. genuinely fed up with so called 'bi nights' that are dominated by women and female -centric .we just haven't found a club that suits us Have you tried Bi Night at VA (first Friday of the month, although Feb and March it's the second Friday)? Always a good night with plenty of bi activity across all genders." We've tried there too. But I wasn't impressed by the restrictions on dress code and play ... doesn't work for me, being naked. Call it growing up at the seaside, but naked bodies and being told, as a woman, what 'swinging uniform' is, doesn't do it for me. Was really interested in this thread for people's views about bitastic | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We have been to bitastic and ab fabs on a bi night. Without a doubt far more bi action at bitastic. Very little seen at Ab Fabs in our experience except in the dark room. At bitastic it is much more open and accepted. " Thanks, am going to pm you about dress code. Have seen their website | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Let's see who else has been, as we are. genuinely fed up with so called 'bi nights' that are dominated by women and female -centric .we just haven't found a club that suits us Have you tried Bi Night at VA (first Friday of the month, although Feb and March it's the second Friday)? Always a good night with plenty of bi activity across all genders." Tried VA once on bi night. Not a lot of bi activity I thought. But then it's all open, no separate rooms. Maybe I went the wrong night | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Come north and you both can play with me ?? cant beat a hot sweaty bi 3sum no holes barred ?? " Have tried to arrange a private bi mmf at home a couple of times and each time the guy we have spoken to has bailed sadly. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Let's see who else has been, as we are. genuinely fed up with so called 'bi nights' that are dominated by women and female -centric .we just haven't found a club that suits us Have you tried Bi Night at VA (first Friday of the month, although Feb and March it's the second Friday)? Always a good night with plenty of bi activity across all genders. We've tried there too. But I wasn't impressed by the restrictions on dress code and play ... doesn't work for me, being naked. Call it growing up at the seaside, but naked bodies and being told, as a woman, what 'swinging uniform' is, doesn't do it for me. Was really interested in this thread for people's views about bitastic " Fair enough although there is no dress code as such at VA and certainly no requirement to go naked...underwear in the play areas is just as acceptable as nakedness or a towel wrapped round you. Not sure what you mean about play restrictions either as certainly not aware of any in place. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Let's see who else has been, as we are. genuinely fed up with so called 'bi nights' that are dominated by women and female -centric .we just haven't found a club that suits us Have you tried Bi Night at VA (first Friday of the month, although Feb and March it's the second Friday)? Always a good night with plenty of bi activity across all genders. Tried VA once on bi night. Not a lot of bi activity I thought. But then it's all open, no separate rooms. Maybe I went the wrong night "Admittedly it can be hit and miss dependent on the night you go (but then so can any club) but we've had some of our best and most memorable nights at VA's Bi Night. Watching this thread with interest though as have heard about BiTastic and interested to hear more. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We have been to bitastic and ab fabs on a bi night. Without a doubt far more bi action at bitastic. Very little seen at Ab Fabs in our experience except in the dark room. At bitastic it is much more open and accepted. Thanks, am going to pm you about dress code. Have seen their website " Hey Pepper you know you don't have to be naked at the VA in the play areas.... just not fully dressed with a cardie on . I hate getting naked (never do and never will) and no one ever turfed me out.
Last time I went, for the first time ever, I saw guys enjoying each other 1 on 1, so I think Spicy is doing a great job of ensuring she's getting the mix right.
I will go again soon.
Adam and I (although we are no longer together) had some luck organising big bi groups at abfabs And at hotels, but I still prefer to be at a club.
I might give Luton a try... I've heard some good things.
Going to be at bi kink in Feb but you guys don't go there now right? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We have been to bitastic and ab fabs on a bi night. Without a doubt far more bi action at bitastic. Very little seen at Ab Fabs in our experience except in the dark room. At bitastic it is much more open and accepted. Thanks, am going to pm you about dress code. Have seen their website Hey Pepper you know you don't have to be naked at the VA in the play areas.... just not fully dressed with a cardie on . I hate getting naked (never do and never will) and no one ever turfed me out.
Last time I went, for the first time ever, I saw guys enjoying each other 1 on 1, so I think Spicy is doing a great job of ensuring she's getting the mix right.
I will go again soon.
Adam and I (although we are no longer together) had some luck organising big bi groups at abfabs And at hotels, but I still prefer to be at a club.
I might give Luton a try... I've heard some good things.
Going to be at bi kink in Feb but you guys don't go there now right? "No, we no longer go there. We mainly go to t girls clubs and parties. I understand about the VA bi night, but it's not for us .... I don't do typical female attire, like lingerie etc, and love my cardi ... in fact any club that tells me what to wear, I don't like. Too many naked bodies put me right off, I don't find it sexy in the least .... reminds me of the beach in summer. Same for group fun, not my thing. That's the problem growing up in a holiday resort I guess .... only way for us to find out about bitastic .... thanks for all the input guys, interesting to see different experiences | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Tomorrow night - not long now | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Where's bitastic? As above, tried the VA on a bi night but it didn't seem to have many males playing.... just a normal night from what we saw. Would be interested to find out about this bitastic place, and also dress codes? Sexy lingerie acceptable on men? It is the name of the event at The Greenhouse Luton... " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
So do they accept males in lingerie or is that something that's frowned upon?
Maybe next month... too busy this month to attend, but something worth looking into in the future. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If I wanted To go would it be frowned apon as I'm a straight single male" Why would you want to go? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If I wanted To go would it be frowned apon as I'm a straight single male Why would you want to go?" To try and new club on my day off from work | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If I wanted To go would it be frowned apon as I'm a straight single male Why would you want to go? To try and new club on my day off from work " I would assume any man going to a gay / bi spa on a bi couples night would be bi .... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me " I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers 
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid. "
Thanks for the update .... interesting but in reality a little, too long of a drive for us. Guess this swinging lark is being overtaken by our desire to nosh locally and chill on the couch  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid. "Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going! A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs! "They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
"Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close .... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close ....
"Fair game as a woman. Just me kinky (fem) that posts in forums | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close ....
Fair game as a woman. Just me kinky (fem) that posts in forums "Hmmm, not good then. Pity as it sounded as if it had potential ... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close .... " Do you mind me asking where this place is, where you feel really comfortable? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close ....
Fair game as a woman. Just me kinky (fem) that posts in forums "That surprises me, ive been twice now and everyones been really polite.... I am a bit of a minger though!! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close ....
Fair game as a woman. Just me kinky (fem) that posts in forums
That surprises me, ive been twice now and everyones been really polite.... I am a bit of a minger though!! "Thanks for your input .... hardly a manger! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close ....
Fair game as a woman. Just me kinky (fem) that posts in forums
That surprises me, ive been twice now and everyones been really polite.... I am a bit of a minger though!!
Thanks for your input .... hardly a manger!"Or even a minger | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Didn't in the end ... again the dress code too restrictive for me I think you could have dressed how you liked tbh. So spent a couple of hours there tonight. Don't think I'll be going back personally. In terms of bi play, normal wanking and sucking is all we saw. However one big no no for me was the sharps boxes in the toilets. Apparently for diabetes sufferers
One box had about 6-8 needles in. Not for me I'm afraid.
Well that's a definite reason why I won't be going!
A club that has a sharps box.... Wtf next... only mugs take drugs!
They do display a no drugs policy in the bar area!! Pity as the club itself was clean and well presented. The other thing I didn't like was the assumption by guys I was fair game for all. Maybe because they weren't thinking clearly ...
Male or female fair game? As a female partner to a bi male, I much prefer the club environment where the men are after the men, and not me ... too much of the 'women are the centre of everything' goes on at vanilla swinging clubs. To be honest I have only found one environment where I am really comfortable and free of this and another than may come close ....
"Fair game as a woman. Just me kinky (fem) that posts in forums. I like everyone to play equally. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Re the sharps box.... You have to remember that the Greenhouse club is predominantly (all other times of the week) an exclusively gay sauna and my guessing is that in those settings people may spend far longer there than at a regular swingers club night - hence the need for those bins. I would assume it's the same at their sauna in Darlaston, and presumably why the owners (who also own Chams of course) don't put those bins in their swinging-only premises." So what your saying is that it's acceptable for gay men to use drugs in a sauna? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Re the sharps box.... You have to remember that the Greenhouse club is predominantly (all other times of the week) an exclusively gay sauna and my guessing is that in those settings people may spend far longer there than at a regular swingers club night - hence the need for those bins. I would assume it's the same at their sauna in Darlaston, and presumably why the owners (who also own Chams of course) don't put those bins in their swinging-only premises. So what your saying is that it's acceptable for gay men to use drugs in a sauna? " I took it to mean that people are there all day, so likely to be diabetics who need insulin, as the poster mentioned their other sauna. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Re the sharps box.... You have to remember that the Greenhouse club is predominantly (all other times of the week) an exclusively gay sauna and my guessing is that in those settings people may spend far longer there than at a regular swingers club night - hence the need for those bins. I would assume it's the same at their sauna in Darlaston, and presumably why the owners (who also own Chams of course) don't put those bins in their swinging-only premises. So what your saying is that it's acceptable for gay men to use drugs in a sauna? I took it to mean that people are there all day, so likely to be diabetics who need insulin, as the poster mentioned their other sauna. " That's exactly what I meant | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
