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Paradise Spa (Bournemouth)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm looking at trying a club for the first time and my closest is Paradise Spa in Bournemouth. I have read the reviews but doesn't really say what it's like for single men? So people what is it like if you're a single man? What days best to go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Br interested to know too

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

From what I`ve been told from those who`ve been, it`s an acquired taste, a bit on the tiny side and in need of some serious refurbishment. The showers have been faulty for as long as I can remember and the management do know! You may be lucky and you may be not! Very much the luck of the draw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be disappointed. Its no bigger than a shop and in a seedy area we didnt even go in as looked so awful. Its in a busy area so discretion is minimal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tacky, rude doorstaff, we can't comment about inside, we left immediately

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"You will be disappointed. Its no bigger than a shop and in a seedy area we didnt even go in as looked so awful. Its in a busy area so discretion is minimal"

I did look and I have to agree about the area. When I went, all the local "yoofs" looked like they were clocking strange cars to see what they could nick to feed their drug habits and I do know it`s the drug area of the town.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You will be disappointed. Its no bigger than a shop and in a seedy area we didnt even go in as looked so awful. Its in a busy area so discretion is minimal"

So definitely one to pass on then? Recommend anywhere else that's near?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will be disappointed. Its no bigger than a shop and in a seedy area we didnt even go in as looked so awful. Its in a busy area so discretion is minimal

So definitely one to pass on then? Recommend anywhere else that's near?"
I dnt know any others I only go to Eurekas in Kent

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By *955vintageMan
over a year ago

itchen stoke

I used to visit occasionally in the late afternoon. It is small, I never experienced any problems with cleanliness or staff behaviour. I had a great massage one time ( no happy endings!) As a single guy go with no expectations other than to have a jacuzzi and sauna. That way you will not be disappointed, if you get lucky with some of the couples or single ladies that attend then that is a bonus. What to be certain of a fuck, then take your own.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go regularly, it is in a bit of a dodgy area, it's very small, seedy and in need of refurbishment....

However, it is clean, has a really big jacuzzi, sauna and good size play rooms.

We've always found the staff friendly and most of the clientele behave impeccably.

Go to relax and chat and anything else will be a nice bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go regularly, it is in a bit of a dodgy area, it's very small, seedy and in need of refurbishment....

However, it is clean, has a really big jacuzzi, sauna and good size play rooms.

We've always found the staff friendly and most of the clientele behave impeccably.

Go to relax and chat and anything else will be a nice bonus.

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I was also thinking of checking it out as there's not that much else near me. What would you say were good days and times to go?

I looked at a couple of recent reviews on here and they said the showers were not working, do you know if that's still the case?

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.


"Tacky, rude doorstaff, we can't comment about inside, we left immediately "

Same here. Never again.

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

Well if it's a spa type place you're after then go to AbFabs. Your profile says can travel and it's not too bad a trek up the m3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these people complaining about the 'dodgy' area it's in... It's a sex club. Where do you expect it to be? In the residential area next to the local primary school, or perhaps the 3rd storey of Debenhams?

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"All these people complaining about the 'dodgy' area it's in... It's a sex club. Where do you expect it to be? In the residential area next to the local primary school, or perhaps the 3rd storey of Debenhams? "

Most of the property in this area is owned by one businessman who isn`t unknown to "visit" people who are a bit behind with their rent! Those who really know the area will know exactly who I`m talking about and many will avoid renting from him if they can. It`s not dodgy by the "ambiance" which admittedly isn`t that nice, the local hookers used to congregate in a much nicer part of the town until they were moved on! It`s dodgy by the nature of the residents, it`s dodgy by the well recorded reputation!

Because swinging is regarded as "seedy" by some people, it doesn`t necessarily mean it has to be located in the seediest part of the town. The quietist, yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm looking at trying a club for the first time and my closest is Paradise Spa in Bournemouth. I have read the reviews but doesn't really say what it's like for single men? So people what is it like if you're a single man? What days best to go on?"

OP I would give paradise a miss for sure.

Liberations parties do stuff in Bournemouth - look up thejackals profile for details. I've not been to a Bournemouth party so can't vouch for how good they are.

My recommendation would be to hop up the motorway to Heathrow and enjoy a day at kestrels, it's a fabulous place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these people complaining about the 'dodgy' area it's in... It's a sex club. Where do you expect it to be? In the residential area next to the local primary school, or perhaps the 3rd storey of Debenhams?

Most of the property in this area is owned by one businessman who isn`t unknown to "visit" people who are a bit behind with their rent! Those who really know the area will know exactly who I`m talking about and many will avoid renting from him if they can. It`s not dodgy by the "ambiance" which admittedly isn`t that nice, the local hookers used to congregate in a much nicer part of the town until they were moved on! It`s dodgy by the nature of the residents, it`s dodgy by the well recorded reputation!

Because swinging is regarded as "seedy" by some people, it doesn`t necessarily mean it has to be located in the seediest part of the town. The quietist, yes! "

I live a 5mins walk from the area and know exactly who you're talking about.

Still, the area is the most suitable for what the business actually is. People just need to stop being so judgemental and get off their high horses.

I've never been to this place, but I'd agree with looking up thejackals on here and checking out their parties. I've been invited to a few but haven't had the balls to actually go ... yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these people complaining about the 'dodgy' area it's in... It's a sex club. Where do you expect it to be? In the residential area next to the local primary school, or perhaps the 3rd storey of Debenhams? "

It is in a residential area and it's a bit of a dodgy area- fact. I'm not complaining, just stating the facts!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

apparently its full of single men so you'll fit right in

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By *andeCouple
over a year ago

Bognor area

Must have missed the big jacuzzi when we went. Was more like a cheap garden throw away after a year one that with 4 people in W's shall we say cosy - but you needed the body heat of others to keep warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seem to manage to fit lots in there when we go! Life is what you make it

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

best to go and find out for yourself really

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