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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Dunno. Never been to one

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Dunno. Never been to one "

Seems an expensive way for a single male to compete for the attentions of a few women...

Could be wrong; I've never been.

Take a wingman/woman?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?"
come with me

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?come with me "

There ya go

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?"

I think the generic advice is "don't be a dick"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Make sure ya put yer lucky pulling pants on kb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research the clubs near you as some have different dress down rules..think about what night you'd go on and see wether the club would have the right setting..ie bbw night/greedy girls etc..depending on what you're after.

I recently had my first night at a club..a ladies only night because I felt it would be less intimidating. It was themed too and no pressure to dress down in certain areas.

Next goal is to attend with a friend on a mixed night.

Oh and go with no expectations of playing and anything that does happen is a bonus.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?come with me

There ya go "
you too, i want your club cherry

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Oh and go with no expectations of playing and anything that does happen is a bonus. "

This should be the first thing you see when joining Fab and walking into clubs. It's supposed to be fun, so go along with the intention of just getting to know people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?come with me "

I'll bear that in mind

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd say just go and do it.

Ok, there will be other single guys there, but it sets you apart from the 20,000 who are on here just spamming messages out, and never meeting.

Sure it has its own set of challenges, but nice guys ar clubs are sucessful.

Be nice, chat, have fun

MrB

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?come with me

I'll bear that in mind "
good man x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dunno. Never been to one

Seems an expensive way for a single male to compete for the attentions of a few women...

Could be wrong; I've never been.

Take a wingman/woman?"

Compete?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure ya put yer lucky pulling pants on kb "

Its not the pants ace, its what's in em!

Me, get your mind out the gutter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought about where you want to try? I love clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you thought about where you want to try? I love clubs "

Xtasia, chameleons and Valhalla,they are the only ones I know of locally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my first club recently and I was lucky to have some wing women (a pair of wings?) It was fun, different and I enjoyed it for the novelty... but I am a wordsmith and not a man of "looks" so the noise of the club, coupled with my face (bag 'o' spanners) didn't seem conducive to an evening of debauchery...

I had lots of fun... so OP I would say, find someone to go with, manage expectations and enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went to my first club recently and I was lucky to have some wing women (a pair of wings?) It was fun, different and I enjoyed it for the novelty... but I am a wordsmith and not a man of "looks" so the noise of the club, coupled with my face (bag 'o' spanners) didn't seem conducive to an evening of debauchery...

I had lots of fun... so OP I would say, find someone to go with, manage expectations and enjoy the experience "

I'm just looking to enjoy myself and hopefully meet some of the people I chat to here on fab, my expectations are already comparatively low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?"

If you are near Birmingham and given your interest in kink just start going to some of the link events there. And some local munches so you know people a little beforehand.

And like with most things in life don't be a dick is the best advice you'll get

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Perhaps go to one of the socials or parties in a club rather than a straight club night first? You get to know people, get a sense of the place and get over any apprehension about what it's like.

I haven't been to Chams, but everyone I know who has rates it. I find Xtasia too big and sprawly but I have always found it friendly there.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Have you thought about where you want to try? I love clubs

Xtasia, chameleons and Valhalla,they are the only ones I know of locally "

Ideal! Look for the BBW event at Chameleons on Sunday 18th December and put your name down for that event. This will allow you to try out a club without having to take out membership.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia = party time

Chams= play time

Valhalla= kink positive (so I believe)

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Come down south and I know a bunch of ladies who's love to escort you to a club

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Come down south and I know a bunch of ladies who's love to escort you to a club "

Don't scare him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club and just be yourself , meet people and socialise, get yourself out there , when i talk to a couple i always introduce myself to the male side first out of respect then the lovely lady , swinging is about socialising too also because single guys like myself pay the most to get in dont be going with the attitude ive paid x amount i should get a shag because that kind of attitude will get you no where , as i said just be yourself and talk to ladies as if you were in a pub

Hope ive helped in some way

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?

I think the generic advice is "don't be a dick" "
this is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?"

Hurry up fella...only 27 days left,26 if all are closed on Christmas Day too

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By *nc24funCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?"

yes come to the club we visit

I'd happily show you the ropes

_rs d

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?

yes come to the club we visit

I'd happily show you the ropes

_rs d "
not this _rs d lol

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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago

yiewsley

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?"

There's only 26 days left of this year, so asvice is - go quick!

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By *aznpaulCouple
over a year ago

yiewsley


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?

There's only 26 days left of this year, so asvice is - go quick!"
only 4 days now .... ourplace4fun club is open nye .. get in quick or itll be fully booked ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xstasia does a FFFF event occassionally. (Free fun of Fab - I'm missing a F there but you know what I mean) that would possibley a good no pressure place to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice, talk to us lol don't just sit there in the corner wondering why your not getting a shag

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I really want to start going to the clubs this year, any advice?come with me

There ya go you too, i want your club cherry "

You can have mine if you want? Booked for VA's milf event 11th jan for my first time (a birthday treat to myself)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Are there waiting lists for single men at clubs or could one just turn up unannounced?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there waiting lists for single men at clubs or could one just turn up unannounced? "

Depends on the club really. The ones up North don't usually have a waiting list. Think Chams may have.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Go to Xtasia on FFFF night. You can try it without having to join & there will be loads of forumites there. Next one 27 Jan I think x

JG x

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