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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Hi all my 1st time is approaching at th looking to have a good night bit nervy though hope to meet some ladies. Any tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have an expectation of having fun...

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I wont be expecting much im a rather shy guy always have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message the club a few days in advance and introduce yourself and let them know it's your first time. If it's a club worth its salt, they'll spend some time showing you around and talking you through etiquette and club rules and guidelines, they'll also introduce you to people and keep an eye out for you. Have fun, be polite and just chat. Best of luck.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As said above go along with no expectations other than having a social evening as you would at a normal club/bar etc.

That said do make the effort to talk to people but be courteous and respectful, and prepared to accept a polite "no thanks" if people don't want to talk.

Just be yourself and you'll be fine - and whatever you do don't get d*unk!!

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Thankyou very much for the advice love. I hope the nerves dont get the better of me.

Hopefully it will be good will keep you posted xx

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I certainly wont be getting d*unk lol. The hardest part i have is having the confidence going up to ladies. I somehow feel unattractive which is not a good start i guess

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Message the club a few days in advance and introduce yourself and let them know it's your first time. If it's a club worth its salt, they'll spend some time showing you around and talking you through etiquette and club rules and guidelines, they'll also introduce you to people and keep an eye out for you. Have fun, be polite and just chat. Best of luck. "

Thats lovely lady for your input you seem a lovely lady

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I take it you have made the list for Thursday night? You were on the reserve, so I'm not sure if Jess has confirmed your place yet??

You will be shown around on arrival, we will answer any questions you may have and get you settled in.

Most guys are quite nervous when they first attend but I always say, don't put any pressure on yourself, treat the night as a social and an opportunity to meet new friends and find your feet. If you happen to be invited to play, only do so if you really want to; it's ok to say no. If you don't get invited to play, don't beat yourself up as it's a bonus anyway if you are asked.

Enjoy the atmosphere, enjoy the banter, enjoying the voyeurism and pat yourself on the back for walking through the door. The rest will evolve naturally xx

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to go to club but I'm way to scared

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Be brave im trying to. Hope i make the list seeing these lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite "small" I'd be gutted if every bloke was like inches bigger

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity"

Well the reserve list is huge, so it may be that you won't make the main guestlist on this occasion I'm afraid. So I don't want you to get your hopes up :-/ The party guestlist has been ongoing for 6 weeks and guys have been adding their names during this time; to be added to future events, you are best adding your name as early as possible to avoid disappointment.

Thanks

Vic x

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity

Well the reserve list is huge, so it may be that you won't make the main guestlist on this occasion I'm afraid. So I don't want you to get your hopes up :-/ The party guestlist has been ongoing for 6 weeks and guys have been adding their names during this time; to be added to future events, you are best adding your name as early as possible to avoid disappointment.

Thanks

Vic x"

Ok vic thanks for letting me know as i didnt know that. Do you do any on a saturday. You seem very nice and giving me good advice. Very much appreciated xx

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I'm quite "small" I'd be gutted if every bloke was like inches bigger "

Thats my fear too id blush badly lol. I will be that nervy id flop like a bag of potatoes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way I don't av any intentions of going to club you two speak of I'm way to far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avnt had sex much I'm frightened i go off to quickly

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Thanks im still reserve but fingers crossed. It would be a good opportunity

Well the reserve list is huge, so it may be that you won't make the main guestlist on this occasion I'm afraid. So I don't want you to get your hopes up :-/ The party guestlist has been ongoing for 6 weeks and guys have been adding their names during this time; to be added to future events, you are best adding your name as early as possible to avoid disappointment.

Thanks

Vic x

Ok vic thanks for letting me know as i didnt know that. Do you do any on a saturday. You seem very nice and giving me good advice. Very much appreciated xx"

I've PM'd you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Gareth.

I'm glad to see your so enthusiastic about your first club visit.. townhouse is a lovely friendly club with great staff and great members... I've been a member myself there for over two years

Please however don't get your hopes up.. We are at capacity for our single guys numbers and have a very BIG reserve list.. Do not just turn up on the evening.

We will be holding this event again in the new year -So pleased keep your eyes posted so you can get your name down on the guest list early...

Jess xx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

For the guys who are worried about their size, don't! Most ladies really aren't size queens and actually prefer average and not a mega cock.

If you are worried about cumming too quick try not to focus too much on penetration. Lots and lots of foreplay first to pleasure the person you are with. Use your hands and mouth not just your cock.

If it does happen try not to make too big a deal of it and go for round 2 if they are up for it after you both recover. Play doesn't have to stop once you have cum, you can still pleasure the other person in other ways.

I have seen it mentioned on here that some guys have a "tactical wank" beforehand so they don't cum too quick.

Most of all just relax and enjoy yourself.

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