FabSwingers.com forum: Female clothing................ Odd first time question!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, we've got a bit of an odd question lol

So, we've had quite a few experiences over the years mmf ffm mmff and a couple of parties etc, but we've never been to a club

One thing that Mrs N doesn't like the idea of, is wearing very little clothing, and having bits on show to everyone - it's different if it was later and playing, but she doesn't feel comfortable walking around and chatting to people feeling exposed.......... Kind of seemed different at the parties as we were in contact with the other people that were invited too.

Mrs N said an ideal first club night would be a beach theme so she could wear a bikini and feel like everybody else!

Thanks for any input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys, we've got a bit of an odd question lol

So, we've had quite a few experiences over the years mmf ffm mmff and a couple of parties etc, but we've never been to a club

Mrs N said an ideal first club night would be a beach theme so she could wear a bikini and feel like everybody else!

Thanks for any input

Most clubs allow you to wear clothes in the bar area until either you go to play or its dress down

At dress down she could wear a body stocking, bikini, normal underwear, baby doll she certainly doesn't have to be naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the club we go to I wear a little black dress stockings and heels and don't get 'naked' until we are in a room playing

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Hi guys, we've got a bit of an odd question lol

So, we've had quite a few experiences over the years mmf ffm mmff and a couple of parties etc, but we've never been to a club

Mrs N said an ideal first club night would be a beach theme so she could wear a bikini and feel like everybody else!

Thanks for any input

x"
just a little black dress would do to enter any club ive been to..unless they are dress down clubs where the women wear as sexy as they dare and men wear a towel or boxers..so she can remain comfortable wherever she goes..just check the club you are going to for their specific dress etiquette. people in clubs rarely run around naked when socialising at the beginning of the night...i wouldnt worry about it. i also prefer to choose when to take of my clothes...sometimes i slip into lingerie or a towel and sometimes i keep my clothes on all night. dont choose a dress down club at fist (unless they have a clothed socialising area) if you are still worried xx enjoy yourselves x

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

The only time you would expected to have large amounts of flesh on show would be on a Tuesday night at Chameleons when it`s nude night! I have seen ladies wearing a bikini in the jaccuzzi as well although that`s quite rare. It sounds like a night cub style club like Xtasia would be more suitable for you for a first visit.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

All clubs are different, some are dress down straight away which means a towel for the guys and lingerie for the ladies. Some are dress down after a certain time and some don't have any rules about how much or little you should wear.

The club I go to doesn't have dress down rules and I wear a dress or skirt and top. I am a little body conscious so wouldn't feel comfortable in just lingerie.

The best advice I could give is to check the rules for the club you are thinking of going to and just wear something really comfortable and that you feel good in. On my first visit I wore a dress I have had for about 5 years. It's something I know looks great on me and I always feel confident wearing it. If you feel good then you will look good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya, we have been to a couple of places and although on one occasion, there was a lady not wearing anything (this was later in the night) the bar area was full of fully clothed people. I have worn dresses or play suit, something that shows a bit of flesh but I've been comfortable wearing it. We have seen everything from proper bondage gear to body stockings or more revealing dresses, hot pants and crop top.

At the end of the day, you are going into an environment that, unless you have arranged to meet someone, you will be meeting people for the first time, for me to do that, I have to feel comfortable and confident so wear what makes you feel like that, then bare all when you are ready to play (or wear some sexy lingerie if not). One thing I like about clubs, in my experience, no one judges, so if you want to wear a bikini, wear one with pride!! hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah thanks for the replies! Makes me feel better already!

Wearing something I'm comfortable in is great advice, as I would feel a lot more confident

Mr N says I shouldn't be body conscious, but it's just the thought of having my nipples out or other bits and being around people that I don't know if I'd be attracted to them.

Thanks again

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Wear whatever you feel comfortable in.. apart from anything else.. covering up a little is often sexier than having it all in display!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wear whatever you feel comfortable in.. apart from anything else.. covering up a little is often sexier than having it all in display!"

That's exactly how I feel!! I'm glad it's not just me, I was kind of worried I'd look over dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a whole range of clothing choices for ladies - we been to dress down clubs and seen ladies wearing tshirts, mini-skirts, silky dressing gown with just a hint of cleavage, body stockings, playsuits, hotpants, partially unbuttoned man's shirt and high heels....

if you feel comfortable it will help you relax. We have been to clubs that don't have a dress down policy too and seen similar clothing being worn! Enjoy the non-judgemental atmosphere of a swingers club.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I never get naked. Even when I am playing I somehow manage to keep something on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear exactly what you want, sexy as you dare should be your mantra

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Go to a dressed club rather than a towel/sauna based club. There are plenty about if you look at their dress code.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I have been to several clubs wearing ankle-length skirts and a 3/4 sleeve blouses; basically, street clothes. The organisers have never objected to my choice

The only exception is Kestrel where clothing is not allowed but one can wear a short wrap or use a large towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys

makes me feel a lot better!!!

I love the non judgemental attitude

Xxx

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