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By *mmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Greater London

Off to Brighton today for the weekend. Any suggestions to what could be done there club wise? Came across the Bristol Gardens Health Spa. What would people think of it or any other places/meets etc? Please do advice us. Thanks

Emma n Ray x

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By *arlee72Couple
over a year ago

Ewell

We've been to BGHS a couole of times although was during a week day. We didn't play on either occasion. During week is mostly single blokes but I think maybe different at weekends and evenings.

We love the spa facilities themselves. It makes for a real escape from the outside world. Staff are friendly although last time were very strict in any touching they deem as sexual. A bit OTT we thought as we got a telling off for Mrs.M having her legs resting on my lap in the steam room!

There are play rooms which we didn't use. We had a look at just one but it was very small.

We'll definitely use them again but as I say, more for their great spa facilities than anything else but who knows what next time will behold!

Enjoy if you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been the once and there are a couple of bigger rooms including the vaulted mirror room which is fantastic. But, they appear to have no locking rooms so expect single men trying to watch or join in.

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By *mmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Greater London

Thank you guys for your comments. We see that not much goes there it seems as there are not many meets published in the area as well. But hey thats alright..we might just flirt around n flash someone lucky haha. But thanks again for your advice. If we do go to the spa we'll defo follow the advice

Happy weekend xx

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

After 6pm at weekends all the singles leave.

Then the rest rooms are much busier with plenty going on.

Rules downstairs are strict but it's only to stop people playing and then trying to get away with it by claiming that they were just cuddling etc.

Well worth a visit, we go all afternoon and evening. Just enjoy the spa during the day and ignore the single men then have fun once they go.

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

"Thank you guys for your comments. We see that not much goes there it seems as there are not many meets published in the area as well. But hey thats alright..we might just flirt around n flash someone lucky haha. But thanks again for your advice. If we do go to the spa we'll defo follow the advice

Happy weekend xx"
shame you wasn't there next weekend would love to follow you up the escalator

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

I've been there a few times, its a lovely friendly place

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

Thinking of taking my wife there next weekend and trying the soft downstairs only area is she allowed to place her towel around her and do many couples go

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By *mmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Greater London

Well we're just getting hats n gloves now since its raining n cold haha. Lets see how the rest of the day goes x

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By *udeSpaLoverMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Towels are allowed but in the wet area obviously you can't use any of the facilities with a towel on so it's a bit pointless. In the lounge area they are required as standard. Think if you're going to a nude spa it's a bit silly to have the mindset that you'll cover up with a towel as much as possible - why not just go to a non nude one if she's not comfortable being naked?

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

"Towels are allowed but in the wet area obviously you can't use any of the facilities with a towel on so it's a bit pointless. In the lounge area they are required as standard. Think if you're going to a nude spa it's a bit silly to have the mindset that you'll cover up with a towel as much as possible - why not just go to a non nude one if she's not comfortable being naked?"
she may be ok with it but you know what it's like some people go over the top and pester you just because your naked they think you must be there just for sex fingers crossed I talk her into going

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"Towels are allowed but in the wet area obviously you can't use any of the facilities with a towel on so it's a bit pointless. In the lounge area they are required as standard. Think if you're going to a nude spa it's a bit silly to have the mindset that you'll cover up with a towel as much as possible - why not just go to a non nude one if she's not comfortable being naked?she may be ok with it but you know what it's like some people go over the top and pester you just because your naked they think you must be there just for sex fingers crossed I talk her into going "

If anyone does that a quick word with the staff will have them given a bollocking swiftly followed by being asked to leave if they don't stop. It's done regularly, that's why there's a few bad reviews, they're usually from people who have been asked to leave because of that type of behaviour.

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By *mmers OP Couple
over a year ago

Greater London

So basically we summed up that theres no sex or foreplay allowed in the premises, even the area where staff cant go. The receptionist kept emphasising on the fact that this is not a swingers club whereas its listed here as one. Hence we didn't go. We'd eventually like to socialise n have a bit of play too u see

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By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

Sunday afternoon are good depends what your looking for had 4 or 5 meets there lots of fun

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By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

Sunday afternoon are good depends what your looking for had 4 or 5 meets there lots of fun

Might so Sunday afternoon if you guys are going

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"So basically we summed up that theres no sex or foreplay allowed in the premises, even the area where staff cant go. The receptionist kept emphasising on the fact that this is not a swingers club whereas its listed here as one. Hence we didn't go. We'd eventually like to socialise n have a bit of play too u see

There's quite a bit goes on upstairs that the staff just turn a blind eye to, unless you're a screamer that can be heard in reception, lol. It's worth a go.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

We went to BGHS at the weekend. It is a spa with a very clearly delineated 'play' area (the "restrooms"). There is plenty of sex going on in the rest rooms.

It is high quality, sociable, they serve soft drinks and food in the bar/lounge area. There are a lot of different hot tubs, plunge rooms, steam rooms, etc. It is naturist with lockers.

We loved it. Good quality, Great people.

They are strict about behaviour in the spa - apart from the "rest rooms". We ended up on the big bed in the vaulted mirror room with several other couples and had a great time.

I'd recommend it.

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

We are there on Friday for two nights hoping to have some fun in Brighton

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

I went there years ago...probably 15yrs ago so may have changed.

Loved the spa area. It had a really relaxing, quality vibe to it.

Not much happening when we went. It was mostly single guys (during day), and sum total of play was a guy wanking me off in a jacuzzi whilst I was sat next to my partner. So I deduced that it was probably more bi/gay during the day than it is in the evening.

It was very relaxed though and not very hardcore, so made a nice diversion from the outside world.

Would perhaps like to try there again one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might pop in this Saturday if anyone is about?

I've never been to a naturist spa so if anyone wants to join me your more than welcome

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By *ammer54Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Emmers can i ask if you went to BGHS and what you thought of it? am thinking of taking my gf there soon...grateful for your view...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi went there on my own on a daytime in February. If you go as a single before 6pm (after 6pm is couples only) not much sex tjere were 3 couples in who might have played upstairs but the facilities are amazing so basically if your a man on your own going go to enjoy the facilities and anything else is an unexpected bonus. Oh and some of the men were indeed hot i almost got tempted!

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

"Hi went there on my own on a daytime in February. If you go as a single before 6pm (after 6pm is couples only) not much sex tjere were 3 couples in who might have played upstairs but the facilities are amazing so basically if your a man on your own going go to enjoy the facilities and anything else is an unexpected bonus. Oh and some of the men were indeed hot i almost got tempted!"

Very fair assessment. We went Saturday and the spa aspect was fine, which is what they advertise as.

From a play point of view not so great tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After 6pm at weekends all the singles leave.

Then the rest rooms are much busier with plenty going on.

Rules downstairs are strict but it's only to stop people playing and then trying to get away with it by claiming that they were just cuddling etc.

Well worth a visit, we go all afternoon and evening. Just enjoy the spa during the day and ignore the single men then have fun once they go."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and 9 other lads in Brighton for the weekend of the 9th June we have fired a 5 bedroom house and are looking for some exceptional couples or single females to come join us, play is not required but is possible.. social weekend long partying with the rooms available for anyone willing.. bring your own drink !! It's my 30thhhh let's make it a special weekend !!

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