FabSwingers.com forum: Single fem at club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been debating trying the club scene again for a while now, and interested to know if many females go alone? If so, do couples approach you? Do you get "mobbed" by single men? I'd hate to think I went to one but ended up "hanging around like a spare part" .

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I been to a club a few times, always on my own, and i do enjoy it.

I've never had a problem with crowds of single men. Most clubs do limit the amount of single men they allow in to try and keep a good mix of singles and couples.

One thing to bear in mind though is to try not to just hang around waiting for others to come to you for a chat/flirt. Have a wander around, mingle with people and introduce yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I been to a club a few times, always on my own, and i do enjoy it.

I've never had a problem with crowds of single men. Most clubs do limit the amount of single men they allow in to try and keep a good mix of singles and couples.

One thing to bear in mind though is to try not to just hang around waiting for others to come to you for a chat/flirt. Have a wander around, mingle with people and introduce yourself. "

Thank you for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could get mobbed by couples being a unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply say so not for me and no means no simple end of others will respect you wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a few times to swinging clubs alone, but have always found that there wasn't enough choice/variety in the men there so I've been left a bit in the cold.

I find fetish clubs better as a single woman if you're into that kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could get mobbed by couples being a unicorn

Haha I seriously doubt that. Us unicorns aren't that sought after x

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By *arlee72Couple
over a year ago

Ewell

Mrs. Marlee sometimes goes alone especially if I'm working very late. She does get alot of attention from the single guys but manages to pick out the guys she likes and usually takes them to a private or couples room to play.

We went as a couple a few weeks ago but agreed that once we got in we'd pretend we were singles so that I could watch how the guys came onto her. We both had a great night. She got carried away at one point in the landing and ended up being led to an open room and surrounded by a "mob" of singles guys. She enjoyed it for a while but soon got overwhelmed. She decided she'd get out and head for the bathroom where she was followed in by 2 of the guys. She enjoyed being fucked from behind by one of the guys whilst the other played with her. I stood outside the door getting hard as I listened to her groans getting louder as she came again and again !

So go along, you should be able to choose how far you want to go in terms of single guys joining in.

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs. Marlee sometimes goes alone especially if I'm working very late. She does get alot of attention from the single guys but manages to pick out the guys she likes and usually takes them to a private or couples room to play.

So go along, you should be able to choose how far you want to go in terms of single guys joining in.

Have fun!

Interesting night for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been debating trying the club scene again for a while now, and interested to know if many females go alone? If so, do couples approach you? Do you get "mobbed" by single men? I'd hate to think I went to one but ended up "hanging around like a spare part" ."

I go alone and have never felt pressured by couples. A few times I've had to be quite firm telling a single bloke that I'm not interested but apart from that it's been rather enjoyable

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By *assie400Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

I also go alone alot

as others have said, smile flirt talk to people and things will happen.

No always means no, any problems of that nature talk to the staff and they will usually make sure you are safe and not pressured

I have always had a good night at a club even when I have chosen not to play

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I mainly go alone and I've always enjoyed myself

I agree though sometimes there's not enough hot single men etc. It all depends on what night and which club you go to? X

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By *mega_1Woman
over a year ago

Birkenhead

I attend Townhouse on my own all the time, I've always had a great time, I've always found the guys very respectful and if I've said no they've moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consistently have single ladies in the club on everyday social swing events. Always remember you arrive a princess instantly become a goddess & should always be treated like a LADY. The choices are ALL yours to make & for your pleasure xx have fun xx

Cupids "where the customer always comes first" !

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

I always go on my own but i do take a book with me and find that often starts conversations plus i have found the regulars look out for you in case of any bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We consistently have single ladies in the club on everyday social swing events. Always remember you arrive a princess instantly become a goddess & should always be treated like a LADY. The choices are ALL yours to make & for your pleasure xx have fun xx

Cupids "where the customer always comes first" !"

I prefer to treat people like equals rather than differently because of their gender...

Being told I'm going to be treated like a 'lady' and a 'goddess' is actually really offputting. I just want to be treated like a human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids "where the customer always comes first" !

I prefer to treat people like equals rather than differently because of their gender...

Being told I'm going to be treated like a 'lady' and a 'goddess' is actually really offputting. I just want to be treated like a human."

Your saying you dont like these women to feel entitled...because i feel theres a lot of that....i just read one post on here saying she has a problem that theres not enough hot men go !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids "where the customer always comes first" !

I prefer to treat people like equals rather than differently because of their gender...

Being told I'm going to be treated like a 'lady' and a 'goddess' is actually really offputting. I just want to be treated like a human.

Your saying you dont like these women to feel entitled...because i feel theres a lot of that....i just read one post on here saying she has a problem that theres not enough hot men go !!!!

She was replying to the post I made, I believe, where I said that I often don't feel like there is enough of a variety of men at clubs because the numbers are suppressed artificially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mainly go alone and I've always enjoyed myself

I agree though sometimes there's not enough hot single men etc. It all depends on what night and which club you go to? X "

Heres the quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you've been before, I've never been but would like to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you've been before, I've never been but would like to lol

There not all there cracked up to be...maybe try a house party ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mainly go alone and I've always enjoyed myself

I agree though sometimes there's not enough hot single men etc. It all depends on what night and which club you go to? X

Heres the quote "

I'm unsure what point you're making. That women shouldn't express that they couldn't find anyone they found attractive at a club night?

That's not entitlement or special treatment - that's just an opinion on what they find attractive. Nobody has to have sex with anyone at a club.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Don't know about Clubs in the NE but we have seen and met lots of single women that go to the Clubs that we go to. Look out for the big organised events that publish guest lists and you can chat to others before you even go. One Club in the Midlands does a free event for Fab members three or four times a year and it is always packed with people from all over the country because there is a hotel right next door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mainly go alone and I've always enjoyed myself

I agree though sometimes there's not enough hot single men etc. It all depends on what night and which club you go to? X

Heres the quote

I'm unsure what point you're making. That women shouldn't express that they couldn't find anyone they found attractive at a club night?

That's not entitlement or special treatment - that's just an opinion on what they find attractive. Nobody has to have sex with anyone at a club."

I was being cynical lol...but heres a thought...maybe theres not many HOT guys go...not my quote...because theres not that many HOT women go either...just a thought...oh and im not hot..im just a normal guy..who has attended clubs in the past and has seen awful behaviour from all sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been once - (excluding all fem events) - and i was way out of my comfort zone - cant explain it and i had friends there as well - was a good social evening but id be pushed to repeat it -

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