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Never been to a club! - shock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is a couple who's female half I have met a few times and we get on very well. One thing she suggested at one time is to see if clubs were for me as it is a great way of expanding into the swinging scene.

Since I've never been and due to lack of research I don't really know all that much about it.

What do you say to a young single male who would want to venture into the club scene?

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Go for it you have nothing to loose and lots to gain just listen to the rules as a newbie myself I wish I had done it years ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do it. My first club experience was mind blowing!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You may love it you may not,there's only one way to find out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found going to clubs to be a great way of getting your self known by a larger number of people who you wouldn't normally get to interact with. Yeah its quite daunting at first but worth it all in all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat....so tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest barrier is cost. The first visit as a single man can cost a fortune. It proves you are not a time waster tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at socials/events that are being held at clubs you may be interested in attending. The ones where you don't have to become a member are great as you can check out the club/clubs without having to commit to membership. If you like it, become a member, if you don't you haven't wasted too much time becoming a member.

There are plenty of clubs that don't cost a fortune for single guys to attend, just make sure that you do your homework first.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"The biggest barrier is cost. The first visit as a single man can cost a fortune. It proves you are not a time waster tho. "

At The Vanilla Alternative the first visit for a single guy on a Friday night is the same as for any other Friday night. Single guys must register online via the club's website (no cost) and telephone the club early in the week they want to attend to book in, as only 10 allowed in each time.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Go and socialise, have no expectations about sex and see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest barrier is cost. The first visit as a single man can cost a fortune. It proves you are not a time waster tho.

At The Vanilla Alternative the first visit for a single guy on a Friday night is the same as for any other Friday night. Single guys must register online via the club's website (no cost) and telephone the club early in the week they want to attend to book in, as only 10 allowed in each time."

That's decent. First trip to my local club would be £60.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As just mentioned go to socials they are lower pressure environment for all involved. My first social I ended up at an after party and it was certainly sociable

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Go for it you have nothing to loose and lots to gain just listen to the rules as a newbie myself I wish I had done it years ago x"

Finally been to a club and loved it! Do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple who's female half I have met a few times and we get on very well. One thing she suggested at one time is to see if clubs were for me as it is a great way of expanding into the swinging scene.

Since I've never been and due to lack of research I don't really know all that much about it.

What do you say to a young single male who would want to venture into the club scene? "

Do some research into clubs nearby, be prepared to travel to the one that suits you best. Great section on her with people's reviews. Maybe look for a club that caters more for your age group. Most clubs have their own Web site

Once you've decided give them a ring, explain you've never been to a club and if they are any good they will alay your fears and.look put for you.

Have no preconceived ideas go with the outlook it's a social event. Once there abide by the club rules but be sociable talk to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input everyone! Keep it coming!

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By *winny445Man
over a year ago

battersea

for a new club i try to go on its quietest day the first time.

ie a sunday or a weekday during daytime.

generally people are pleasant. girls and guys (if you are)

just feels like ure in any social gathering, just without clothes.

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