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By *tudent101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs "

Don't talk to them .. I hate it when someone talks to me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i find that all good conversations start with the word "hello"

just because you are in a club that centers around sex, it doesn't mean the chat has to be.....

the more normal the better

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs "

How would you talk to a woman down the pub? Or at a bus stop? Do you EVER talk to women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs

How would you talk to a woman down the pub? Or at a bus stop? Do you EVER talk to women? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grasshopper..the way to talk to women is...

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By *tudent101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs

How would you talk to a woman down the pub? Or at a bus stop? Do you EVER talk to women? "

Lol very funny I do of course just wondering as last night seen I guy quote wag1 babes u look a hottie and she was all on to him. I ment you speak like that or be yourself

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs

How would you talk to a woman down the pub? Or at a bus stop? Do you EVER talk to women?

Lol very funny I do of course just wondering as last night seen I guy quote wag1 babes u look a hottie and she was all on to him. I ment you speak like that or be yourself "

Maybe they know each other or she was straight up feeling him that she didn't even understand what he just said.

Could also be that she wants such talk, but it's safer to look around and see who you fancy/ who's looking your way then go say hello.

Try not to just talk to the woman alone as it might backfire when she goes toilet and you're left with her man whom you never bothered asking his name lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a couple just chat to them both don't leave the other out as this puts them off. I met a couple the other night. It was their first time at a club. We spent time chatting and trying to make them comfortable. I was invited to a private room. It's the same for single women just chat be friendly and don't follow them about. If they go to a room with someone don't be in their face also if the door is locked or closed don't start knocking as this really puts everyone off. Especially when it's a couples only room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a couple just chat to them both don't leave the other out as this puts them off. I met a couple the other night. It was their first time at a club. We spent time chatting and trying to make them comfortable. I was invited to a private room. It's the same for single women just chat be friendly and don't follow them about. If they go to a room with someone don't be in their face also if the door is locked or closed don't start knocking as this really puts everyone off. Especially when it's a couples only room. "

Ha ha......

that knocking was such fun!!!!

OP......just be yourself x

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"If a couple just chat to them both don't leave the other out as this puts them off. I met a couple the other night. It was their first time at a club. We spent time chatting and trying to make them comfortable. I was invited to a private room. It's the same for single women just chat be friendly and don't follow them about. If they go to a room with someone don't be in their face also if the door is locked or closed don't start knocking as this really puts everyone off. Especially when it's a couples only room. "

That is good advice.

We much prefer it if a guy chats to us in the bar/lounge of a club.

Many times Mrs Hotlove has had a good session with a guy that she would normally avoid, but because he came to chat to us and and made a connection it broke down the barrier. It doesn't work every time, sometimes it just doesn't click and nothing else will happen, but more often than not it will.

Opening lines are nearly always cheesy but just "hello my name is...." maybe followed by something like "are you on FAB I'm sure I've seen your profile" would be a good start then take it from there.

Try it and I'm sure you will get a 50% success rate.

However "Hi fancy a fuck" is not recommended.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"If a couple just chat to them both don't leave the other out as this puts them off. I met a couple the other night. It was their first time at a club. We spent time chatting and trying to make them comfortable. I was invited to a private room. It's the same for single women just chat be friendly and don't follow them about. If they go to a room with someone don't be in their face also if the door is locked or closed don't start knocking as this really puts everyone off. Especially when it's a couples only room.

That is good advice.

We much prefer it if a guy chats to us in the bar/lounge of a club.

Many times Mrs Hotlove has had a good session with a guy that she would normally avoid, but because he came to chat to us and and made a connection it broke down the barrier. It doesn't work every time, sometimes it just doesn't click and nothing else will happen, but more often than not it will.

Opening lines are nearly always cheesy but just "hello my name is...." maybe followed by something like "are you on FAB I'm sure I've seen your profile" would be a good start then take it from there.

Try it and I'm sure you will get a 50% success rate.

However "Hi fancy a fuck" is not recommended.

"

I would just add that we are in the UK for a few days next weekend and will almost certainly be at Infusions (Blackpool) on Friday 4th Nov.

So anyone who is around has a chance to put it to the test.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Hi just wondering if you guys give me tips on talking to females in clubs

How would you talk to a woman down the pub? Or at a bus stop? Do you EVER talk to women? "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also get there early, for us it is the people that we have spent time talking to that we end up playing with. So the more time talking and interacting will get you more action later on.

We met a couple on Friday and the guy was so impressed the Mr T was talking to them both. He said usually guys just talk to his misses and leave him out!!!For us we both have to feel comfortable about them, have a spark and its not always the hottest people that we end up playing with.

The bar, smoking area is the place to get chatting and as others have said the most of putting thing is being followed.. Good luck and just be yourself x

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