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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're looking to go to a club soon, however for our first go we do not wish to play with any men. How do we make this known? And would it be awkward?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nobody is under any obligation to play with anyone and a polite no thank you is sufficient. If anyone in a club is pressuring you after you have said no then report them to the club staff.

You may feel more comfortable going to a club on an evening when single males aren't allowed. Many clubs have nights just for couples and single ladies.

One thing to bear in mind though is some clubs do have age restrictions, i.e over 21's so it's worth checking this out with your chosen club before you go. It would be a massive disappointment to be turned away at the door because you are younger than this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell anyone who approaches you what your looking for quite early on, the majority of people are respectful, for the very few more pushy ones a firm "no" should do the trick. We're going to quest on Friday if you see us there feel free to come and chat to us (obviously we won't try to play as we know what you're looking for)

Ess

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

You remain polite chat but if asked to play say no thank you.

They are swingers clubs not sex clubs ... it's still about what you want!

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

One of the biggest problems with new couples looking for single women is that most single women prefer single guys. I've found over the years that new to the scene couples want to see the wife play with a woman and the wife's never keen on the single woman getting anything other than soft play from the husband .... " almost rent a gob " as it was eloquently put once . Having played with 1000s and done lots of things mff is without doubt the most boring and hard to do well. It's hard to please one woman never mind two at once ..... When you speak to the " new Couple " and listen to the much used mff fantasy the " so where are you going to cum ? Question " always brings the " " oh Iv not thought of that " reply.

Don't be put off by single guys. They add to the night. Just be firm and say your not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely play with others, our main enjoyment of clubs is being watched. Thought it would be awkward when we explained to others but people are very understanding of it.

I think you will be incredibly lucky to find women to play with first club experience... I would suggest focusing more on how you want to play together and be aware of what your boundaries are if other opportunities arise, but certainly don't be under any illusion of finding single women easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps try and couples and single females night?

Red xx

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden


"We're looking to go to a club soon, however for our first go we do not wish to play with any men. How do we make this known? And would it be awkward?"

awkward for yourselves, but over time saying no will be easy, but make sure it's a firm NO ( nothing inbetween) good luck u will enjoy it do wot u both went to enjoy, some clubs u can find lots of single ladies, an there happy to play with both sexs!!!!

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Perhaps try and couples and single females night?

Red xx"
this is perhaps the best starting place. You may find that it's much easier to have the discussion & leading to fulfilling your desires. Cupids on Wednesday nights is argueably the best attended couples & single ladies night in the north west. We are 2.5 miles from piccadily station - central Manchester. Xx

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