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By *edylogos OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Been here for a year now and thinking of actually going to my first club...

However as a single male I'm a bit nervous about turning up on my own! What should I expect also is there any kind of etiquette that needs to be observed?

Any help will be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Commenting...as I want to be nosy and see the replies

maybe one day I won't be such a chicken and go too!

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By *edylogos OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Haha well I've been thinking about it for a while, but I'm the only person I know personally who is into the scene...

So it's not like I can take someone for moral support! Or even ask direct advice. My local club is chams so if anyone goes there let me know. Would be very interested in hearing from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really nothing to be fearful of - my experience when I first went to clubs was that everyone was really friendly IF:

You make the effort to smile and speak to people (and that means both members of a couple)

You don't follow people around in random acts of desperation!

You ALWAYS ask to to join or ask to touch before doing so!

You arrive expecting to meet some new people, not expecting to play!

Tick all of these boxes and you'll have a great time!

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By *edylogos OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If I'm honest the first time around it will be solely just to meet and talk to like minded people.

It's just that I know no one else from the scene so just a tad apprehensive about going on my own as don't fancy sitting at the bar on my own.

Hopefully people are as friendly as you've said, I'm in no way pushy and when it comes to couples I'm fully aware they come as a pair

Thank you for the advice i feel a little less apprehensive about it from reading that

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

Talk to the other single guys as well as any couples or single women. If they've been on the club scene for a while they will have lots of advice for you.

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By *ittyskitchenWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Haha well I've been thinking about it for a while, but I'm the only person I know personally who is into the scene...

So it's not like I can take someone for moral support! Or even ask direct advice. My local club is chams so if anyone goes there let me know. Would be very interested in hearing from you "

I'm going to chams on Sunday for the BBW Halloween do. I'd gladly chat to you if you were there. My first time there but been to lots of other clubs x

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By *edylogos OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Haha well I've been thinking about it for a while, but I'm the only person I know personally who is into the scene...

So it's not like I can take someone for moral support! Or even ask direct advice. My local club is chams so if anyone goes there let me know. Would be very interested in hearing from you

Aww bless you - let me check my diary and I may just make an appearance

I'm going to chams on Sunday for the BBW Halloween do. I'd gladly chat to you if you were there. My first time there but been to lots of other clubs x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nothing to be fearful of - my experience when I first went to clubs was that everyone was really friendly IF:

You make the effort to smile and speak to people (and that means both members of a couple)

You don't follow people around in random acts of desperation!

You ALWAYS ask to to join or ask to touch before doing so!

You arrive expecting to meet some new people, not expecting to play!

Tick all of these boxes and you'll have a great time!

"

Good advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha well I've been thinking about it for a while, but I'm the only person I know personally who is into the scene...

So it's not like I can take someone for moral support! Or even ask direct advice. My local club is chams so if anyone goes there let me know. Would be very interested in hearing from you "
hi we visit chams quite often normally go Sundays great club with friendly atmosphere xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Have you contacted Chams about membership? They may not let you in on the night.

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

I am a single man to I had my 1st visit to a club a few weeks ago. I had a fab time no sex but sill a fab time. I met and made new friends roll on the next one. Just go for it and enjoy do not expect to get sex straight away work a it it will come

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