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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're off to our first swinger club a week on Saturday and quite nervous! Never been to one before! Hopefully going to Cupids which from what we've read sounds pretty good. Anyway what do you girls generally wear? Thinking of corset, suspenders, heals and not much else?!

We've had a look online at pics of rooms etc. Do people generally walk around the club with not much on or do they generally stay covered up when not in play rooms and at bar etc? Sorry to ask such obvious questions! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your costume sounds fine.

Works for most clubs.....in "wet" clubs a towel or even skin is often fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it all depends on the club..some have areas mainly the bar and dance floor where you are expected to be fully dressed..others it's simply towel or shorts for men and sexy clothing or a towel for ladies..

Not been to cupids so can't comment on the expectations there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife normally wears lingerie of some description. On some occasions just smart dressy clothes.

On one occasion just stockings, heels and a butt plug. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to cupids and I tend to wear lingerie suspenders stockings etc I don't wear heels simply because of the stairs that lead Down to some of the play rooms (not a classy look for me lol ) after we've had a play then Yh I'll walk round with my boobies out , some ladies will walk round just in knickers some in nothing but a towel, your outfit sounds fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're off to our first swinger club a week on Saturday and quite nervous! Never been to one before! Hopefully going to Cupids which from what we've read sounds pretty good. Anyway what do you girls generally wear? Thinking of corset, suspenders, heals and not much else?!

We've had a look online at pics of rooms etc. Do people generally walk around the club with not much on or do they generally stay covered up when not in play rooms and at bar etc? Sorry to ask such obvious questions! xx "
that will be fine.. cupids is a dress down on arrival club so lingerie is the norm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife normally wears lingerie of some description. On some occasions just smart dressy clothes.

On one occasion just stockings, heels and a butt plug. Lol"
Now that is horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I've been to Cupid's many many times. Feel free to PM me any questions you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife normally wears lingerie of some description. On some occasions just smart dressy clothes.

On one occasion just stockings, heels and a butt plug. LolNow that is horny "

Yes it was a lot of fun. She was totally naked in a roomful of strangers. Two of the wife's were totally smitten and kept licking her nipples and playing with her butt plug in front of everyone.lol

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By *ime 2 CumCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"We're off to our first swinger club a week on Saturday and quite nervous! Never been to one before! Hopefully going to Cupids which from what we've read sounds pretty good. Anyway what do you girls generally wear? Thinking of corset, suspenders, heals and not much else?!

We've had a look online at pics of rooms etc. Do people generally walk around the club with not much on or do they generally stay covered up when not in play rooms and at bar etc? Sorry to ask such obvious questions! xx "

Yes your outfit sounds absolutely fine and as for your other half he can either wear just a towel or his keks.... It's a lovely club and probably perfect for your first ever time, just tell them when going in and they'll give you a tour and make you feel welcome.

We go to Cupids when we can and really like the place so hope you have fun

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Our experiences are that people will wear clothes and mingle for the first Lillie while then start heading off to hot tubs or rooms etc. After a little while most will be down to lingerie or baked and if walking around people will cover up with a towel.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Skimpy is usually thw norm once the party has started but clothing to begin xx I find a little low cut dress that can easily be pulled up is the most fun and versatile xx

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By *ptonguy2015Man
over a year ago

market Harborough

When I was at VA with my ex in the bar to start it was just normal pub clothes, and when we went into hot tub and round the 'naughty area' everyone was naked. When we went back to the bar the guys had towels on and the women had next to nothing as well. Great place. Haven't been for about a year now ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great thanks everyone! Sounds like lots of horny fun! We have option 1 cupless corset and option 2 cupped corset. Just need to decide which one now

Last question. When does Cupids start to fill up? We didn't want to get there too early and be on our own. We'll probs go for a few drinks first and then head over.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're off to our first swinger club a week on Saturday and quite nervous! Never been to one before! Hopefully going to Cupids which from what we've read sounds pretty good. Anyway what do you girls generally wear? Thinking of corset, suspenders, heals and not much else?!

We've had a look online at pics of rooms etc. Do people generally walk around the club with not much on or do they generally stay covered up when not in play rooms and at bar etc? Sorry to ask such obvious questions! xx "

Alexa hit thr pole and waltzed around it in her football kit & stripper heels .five mins later we were inna private room....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our experiences are that people will wear clothes and mingle for the first Lillie while then start heading off to hot tubs or rooms etc. After a little while most will be down to lingerie or baked and if walking around people will cover up with a towel. "

Cupids is immediate dress down so maybe a bit different to what you are used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually wear party dresses to clubs. Alway 4 inch heels. Hold up stockings with the exception of summer time when I have bear legs. Would like to invest in a corset though, and get kinkier.

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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

If its you first time , somewhere like the Townhouse Wirall might be a good option if your nervous at all. They have dress down areas upstairs and it pretty much casual down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually on a slightly different topic, if ladies are wearing heels, are the men barefoot? I wouldn't want to spear his toes with my stiletto!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the support. Went to Cupids and had a great night! Had a nice audience and found it very hot with everyone watching

Definitely going again soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife normally wears lingerie of some description. On some occasions just smart dressy clothes.

On one occasion just stockings, heels and a butt plug. LolNow that is horny

Yes it was a lot of fun. She was totally naked in a roomful of strangers. Two of the wife's were totally smitten and kept licking her nipples and playing with her butt plug in front of everyone.lol"
That is seriously hot ! I'm burning up

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By *yomaMan
over a year ago

hove

in doubt, come in naked

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Men! thats what they should wear, all over them

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Thanks for all the support. Went to Cupids and had a great night! Had a nice audience and found it very hot with everyone watching

Definitely going again soon!"

Glad you had a good night at Cupids, it's a brilliant club xx

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I wear the lingerie like I have in my pics. Most ladies seem to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoes are a good start, everything else is optional!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're off to our first swinger club a week on Saturday and quite nervous! Never been to one before! Hopefully going to Cupids which from what we've read sounds pretty good. Anyway what do you girls generally wear? Thinking of corset, suspenders, heals and not much else?!

We've had a look online at pics of rooms etc. Do people generally walk around the club with not much on or do they generally stay covered up when not in play rooms and at bar etc? Sorry to ask such obvious questions! xx "

Trust me, clothes are always a good idea as not everyone looks good naked!!

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