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By *ussetdevil OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

Hi all... We have attended a club both as a couple and with a male fab fb,... My question is would it put people off chatting and maybe playing if we are a three rather than a couple... I don't see the point in going and just socializing with my fb, would like to chat and meet new fab people..... Thoughts please.... Thanks in advance

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Wouldn't put me off, if anything 3 is better than a couple to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't put me off, if anything 3 is better than a couple to me

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

It wouldn't put me off, but people may not approach you if they think they could be disturbing the pre play getting to know you chat.

If I see a group chatting I will leave them to it in case I am butting in.

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By *ussetdevil OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

"It wouldn't put me off, but people may not approach you if they think they could be disturbing the pre play getting to know you chat.

If I see a group chatting I will leave them to it in case I am butting in."

That's what I thought, good to know.yr views thanks

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By *ussetdevil OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

"Wouldn't put me off, if anything 3 is better than a couple to me

That's good to know...

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We have come across this scenario a few times in the past. If the threesome are chatting to everyone its fine but if they just chat to each other its very off-putting.

Be inviting especially to other couples and the bet is that it will soon develop.

G&A

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By *ussetdevil OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

"We have come across this scenario a few times in the past. If the threesome are chatting to everyone its fine but if they just chat to each other its very off-putting.

Be inviting especially to other couples and the bet is that it will soon develop.

G&A"

Thanks that's the way it felt last time, think we will go alone and hope to chat to some new ppeople....

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

People stayed away when I went with my ex and her friend. We were new, so pretty shy so we didn't try to talk much either so we were pretty isolated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to a club where we may up with 3 friends (a couple and single)

Whilst at the bar one of the other ladies was asked which one of us was the spare

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By *ussetdevil OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

Thanks for all the advice, I think we will go alone and try to meet new people... We can play as a three anytime....

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Thanks for all the advice, I think we will go alone and try to meet new people... We can play as a three anytime...."

If you are the kind of people who are happy to do the approaching, to go over to someone and start the conversation, then go as a 3. But if you aren't, you prefer others to come to you and start the chat then you would probably have better luck as just the pair of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wouldn't put me off, but people may not approach you if they think they could be disturbing the pre play getting to know you chat.

If I see a group chatting I will leave them to it in case I am butting in."

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops no pun intended with the pic of my butt! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of the three is male get him to follow couples around, wank in front of other couples playing, talk in play rooms and join in without being asked.

Next day get him to write a shitty review in the clubs section about not getting to play.

If the 3 is a girl, guard her with jealous eyes at all times, as you are likely to be murdered and your unicorn stolen by other couples unable to 'find' one themselves despite looking at single girl profiles on fab for ages.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I sometimes travel to a club when I know friends (couple ) are also travelling there.

While we do spend time together in do also wander by myself and they go off by themselves ...

I guess it's making it visible to others that you are not just in that group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly wouldn't put us from chatting at a club. We arrange meets with a single in clubs so most of the time we are also a 3 and still get plenty of social time as it's part if the scene and helps us to get in the mood and horny especially when other guys are looking at the wife she gets a buzz from it but what women doesn't like admiring looks and compliments

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

It will all depend on what everyone is after.

For some it will attract others it won't.

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By *ussetdevil OP Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

Thanks for all advice... We went to a club as a couple and spoke to loads of people so think it's the way forward.....

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