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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie.."
You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt "

Well I wouldn't want to look like a 'twat'..

The reference to trunks/short was for when things get a bit more relaxed after 11 (I believe although maybe I'm wrong)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt

Well I wouldn't want to look like a 'twat'..

The reference to trunks/short was for when things get a bit more relaxed after 11 (I believe although maybe I'm wrong)...

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bar area is ....a bar area,you take your clothes off upstairs and put them back on after....take a towel for the wet area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt

Well I wouldn't want to look like a 'twat'..

The reference to trunks/short was for when things get a bit more relaxed after 11 (I believe although maybe I'm wrong)...

bar area is ....a bar area,you take your clothes off upstairs and put them back on after....take a towel for the wet area"

That's helpful thanks. I know pretty much nothing about what goes on there on a practical basis so don't assume any level of knowledge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and I are making our first visit there and are both nervous but really looking forward to the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot of men don't fully dress afterwards some use a towel or gown it is very relaxed and not at all as scary are you mite think ..... try not to over think it and go with the flow ...hope that's helpful x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife and I are making our first visit there and are both nervous but really looking forward to the evening "

Say hello then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Towels can be hired from the club also

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie.."

first of all if you are going as two singles... i would ring them to make sure there are single guy spaces... as refusal at the door (even if you are platonic friends) can be embarrassing....

when you do call them, they will go over the rules of dress on a saturday night.. as they have different rules for the different nights....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..

first of all if you are going as two singles... i would ring them to make sure there are single guy spaces... as refusal at the door (even if you are platonic friends) can be embarrassing....

when you do call them, they will go over the rules of dress on a saturday night.. as they have different rules for the different nights...."

Good point _abio. .. as a couple we didn't think of that ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt "

That was a bit of an arsey response to someone who wuite clearly said they had no experience of the club and was looking for advice

OP in fairness ive only been to clubF once ... But when i was there there were people fully dressed in the bar , but also a lady in just a corset and thong and a man singing karaoke in nothing but tight white boxers ... There was also an older couple who i never saw with clothes on at all ... They had nothing but towels wrapped round them from the moment i got there

There are lockers to store things in (but they are not huge) so come dressed as you would for a normal bar , the rules are you must dress down when upstairs ... Then just see how you feel about what you want to wear when you comeback down ... Just go with the flow of what you are comfortable with

The girls giving the tour when you get there are great and so friendly ... They will be able to tell you if there are any rules about what you can and cannot wear in the bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Planning to attend Club F on Saturday with a (platonic) lady friend. LittleL400. This will be both our first times so clearly we are a little cautious. I know she's got herself a nice, sexy outfit but I'm kind of wondering what to wear myself, especially when 11 passes. I was thinking maybe just underwear trunks/running shorts? Thankfully as a runner I've got decent legs so won't feel too self conscious. Do guys wear things on top though - T/polo shirt? I think I might feel a bit exposed with nothing, at least at first anyway.

I know people are going to say dress in what you feel comfortable in but I really don't want to look out of place or a complete newbie..

first of all if you are going as two singles... i would ring them to make sure there are single guy spaces... as refusal at the door (even if you are platonic friends) can be embarrassing...."

Cheers, good point, but we are going as a couple on a (albeit still to be obtained) couple membership.

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over a year ago


"My wife and I are making our first visit there and are both nervous but really looking forward to the evening

Say hello then!"
we certainly will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually go dressed for a normal night out then approximately 9/10pm I (mrs) get changed into something a little sexier and Mr trunks/boxers and a towel or dressing gown (hired from the club). It is a great club full of lots of really friendly people and the staff will go over everything you need to know and always happy to help.

What you wear is what makes you comfortable

Have a great night and just relax and enjoy

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt

That was a bit of an arsey response to someone who wuite clearly said they had no experience of the club and was looking for advice

OP in fairness ive only been to clubF once ... But when i was there there were people fully dressed in the bar , but also a lady in just a corset and thong and a man singing karaoke in nothing but tight white boxers ... There was also an older couple who i never saw with clothes on at all ... They had nothing but towels wrapped round them from the moment i got there

There are lockers to store things in (but they are not huge) so come dressed as you would for a normal bar , the rules are you must dress down when upstairs ... Then just see how you feel about what you want to wear when you comeback down ... Just go with the flow of what you are comfortable with

The girls giving the tour when you get there are great and so friendly ... They will be able to tell you if there are any rules about what you can and cannot wear in the bar "

The "twat" comment made me laugh.. thanks for a great answer! X

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Damn I read it wrong, thought it said F Cup dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You will look a twat in the bar area going as Mo Farrah...try jeans and a shirt

That was a bit of an arsey response to someone who wuite clearly said they had no experience of the club and was looking for advice

OP in fairness ive only been to clubF once ... But when i was there there were people fully dressed in the bar , but also a lady in just a corset and thong and a man singing karaoke in nothing but tight white boxers ... There was also an older couple who i never saw with clothes on at all ... They had nothing but towels wrapped round them from the moment i got there

There are lockers to store things in (but they are not huge) so come dressed as you would for a normal bar , the rules are you must dress down when upstairs ... Then just see how you feel about what you want to wear when you comeback down ... Just go with the flow of what you are comfortable with

The girls giving the tour when you get there are great and so friendly ... They will be able to tell you if there are any rules about what you can and cannot wear in the bar

The "twat" comment made me laugh.. thanks for a great answer! X "

You're welcome ... I hope you have a great time and am a little jealous ... I would love to live closer and go back i thought the place was fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a lot of men don't fully dress afterwards some use a towel or gown it is very relaxed and not at all as scary are you mite think ..... try not to over think it and go with the flow ...hope that's helpful x"

Can highly recommend. You say hi to c and r has they are a lovely fun sexy friendly couple and will show you the ropes then get yourself down to quest Leeds in October with the Geordie crew and meet us lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually go dressed for a normal night out then approximately 9/10pm I (mrs) get changed into something a little sexier and Mr trunks/boxers and a towel or dressing gown (hired from the club). It is a great club full of lots of really friendly people and the staff will go over everything you need to know and always happy to help.

What you wear is what makes you comfortable

Have a great night and just relax and enjoy

Jane x"

Well said hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a lot of men don't fully dress afterwards some use a towel or gown it is very relaxed and not at all as scary are you mite think ..... try not to over think it and go with the flow ...hope that's helpful x

Can highly recommend. You say hi to c and r has they are a lovely fun sexy friendly couple and will show you the ropes then get yourself down to quest Leeds in October with the Geordie crew and meet us lol xx "

Aww thanks guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually go dressed for a normal night out then approximately 9/10pm I (mrs) get changed into something a little sexier and Mr trunks/boxers and a towel or dressing gown (hired from the club). It is a great club full of lots of really friendly people and the staff will go over everything you need to know and always happy to help.

What you wear is what makes you comfortable

Have a great night and just relax and enjoy

Jane x

Well said hun x"

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, never seen the dress down only upstairs rule. I mean by the time we move upstairs we are usually in robes anyway but in previous visits it's never been an issue to be clothed in those areas and they didn't mention it to us when L was given her introduction tour last week.

I think OPs question has already been answered so I have nothing more to add to the comments already made, other than to say good luck, and enjoy yourself. F is a very decent club, and has some really friendly characters. I'd recommend the smoking room rather than the bar myself, even if you aren't a smoker (we aren't. Ecigs only which we could use inside) it just has better conversation.

They could turn the bloody hot tub up a few degrees though. Winge at them about it, if enough of us do they might throw some more coal on it :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once again thanks for all the comments and advice. I do appreciate it.

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