FabSwingers.com forum: Visiting a swingers club but not playing

By *atie Shay OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Morning funky Fabsters!

I'm new to the club scene having only ever visited Quest twice.

I had a great chat with my girlfriend at the weekend whilst we were both in our lingerie

She wants to visit a club with me but does not want to play with anyone else - she loves the idea of a club environment were we can both dress sexilly, chat and socialise with other like minded folk and be watched whilst we play.

I told her about the room with the one-way window at Quest and she loves the idea. We've had sex in public a number of times she loves the thought someone may be watching.

So considering all that would it be acceptable club behaviour? Or frowned upon to attend and play ourselves but not with others?

Thanks in advance for your advice!!

XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If course it's ok to go and do that. The great thing about clubs is that all sorts of people go for different reasons, some to watch, some to be watched, some just for social nights, some to play with others

We have gone to clubs and only played with each other before and never had an issue with this at all.

Go and have fun

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

You play with who you want when you want, no one is gonna tell you who or how many you should play with.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We go to club as often as we can , we don't always play with others . Like others have said go as far as u feel you want to go we always go with the intention of playing but if no one we like we will either play alone , put on a show or watch others while socialising ??

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By *atie Shay OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies!

If we do go I'd like her first experience to be a great one which is why I wondered about whether it would be frowned upon. I want her to feel as good as I did after my first visit (I didn't play, just socialised) but that was as single me not as a couple.

We'd be going on a couples only day so just wanted to be sure we'd be okay with the above on such a day

XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this plenty of times, most recently at chams. We do go to play but sometimes we arnt feeling it or there is nobody to take our fancy. It's not a given that you play at clubs anyway.

We love to go to watch other and be watched. We love the sounds smells, atmosphere and we always have much better orgasms than when we are at home (trying to be quiet so the kids can't hear!!) so for us clubs give us freedom to truly fuck each other

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By *atie Shay OP TV/TS
over a year ago

"We go to club as often as we can , we don't always play with others . Like others have said go as far as u feel you want to go we always go with the intention of playing but if no one we like we will either play alone , put on a show or watch others while socialising ??"

"Put on a show..."

I think I was beating about the bush a bit but that's exactly what we're thinking haha hence me asking if it would be acceptable

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"We always have much better orgasms than when we are at home (trying to be quiet so the kids can't hear!!) so for us clubs give us freedom to truly fuck each other "

As an aside, is this true of a lot of couples?

A friend said at Swingfields this year, amid all the racket going on, "Do some people have to be that noisy or are they just putting it on?" and I wondered if people were way louder than normal when they weren't worrying about being overheard by kids, parents, neighbours, the landlady, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always have much better orgasms than when we are at home (trying to be quiet so the kids can't hear!!) so for us clubs give us freedom to truly fuck each other

As an aside, is this true of a lot of couples?

We certainly enjoy the freedom and like that fact we can be louder at clubs (and Swingfields) because we don't have the worry we will be waking up the kids or neighbours. I find I can let myself go more and no I don't put it on.

Although I have seen it where I do think some people may be doing it to put on a show and it may not be realistic as well

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

I visit clubs with my fiance a couple of times a month and quite a lot of the time we play by ourselves and just enjoy chatting to people and soaking up the atmosphere. The way we see it is if there's a couple there we hit it off with great, if not we'll still have a good night

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