FabSwingers.com forum: Chameleons on a Friday afternoon

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thinking of going on Friday afternoon for the first time (first time at a club too) I'm a bit nervous so I want there to be plenty of action so I feel comfortable to throw myself in and for there to be plenty of choice. Is it busy on a Friday afternoon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not bad normally obviously Friday night is very busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like Fridays there, afternoons can be hit and miss. Your find lots there early afternoon but drift away around tea time, it then fills up for the night which is busy as a rule.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. As its my first experience, I'm a little bit nervous about what to expect!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Thanks for the replies. As its my first experience, I'm a little bit nervous about what to expect!"
Chams was our first club, a Weds daytime as I recall, quite a few in, very welcoming and couldn't recommend it more highly , good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most weekday afternoons are relatively quiet, at least compared to the evenings but sometimes smaller is better?!

Friday nights are generally pretty busy and tend to have quite a high ratio of single guys especially if it's a party night.

Hoping to get along this Friday after lunch for a jacuzzi and a chill out. No need to be nervous or shy - it's a great place and the staff are fantastic. You'll have a good day or night whatever happens.

Hope to bump into you on Friday...Let me know if you need any more info...

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

"Thinking of going on Friday afternoon for the first time (first time at a club too) I'm a bit nervous so I want there to be plenty of action so I feel comfortable to throw myself in and for there to be plenty of choice. Is it busy on a Friday afternoon? "

We went to Chams as our first club and had an amazing time, we did however go on a Sunday so it wasnt as busy. As a couple we didnt really enjoy our Friday night that we had there, we have however enjoy our Saturday and Sundays there.

Someone on here gave us some good advice - think of it as going to a Spa but with some naughty fun if you want it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afternoons are always hit and miss but fridays seem to be busier than other afternoons... or so we have found.

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

As with all places its very Hit and Miss regarding numbers.

Generally I have found that you will get people coming in around lunchtime - some to chill, some using it as a cheap alternative to a hotel (they go straight to a private room together, shower and leave) and some coming for playtime. It does seem to empty out around 4 ish but then gets busier around 8 and is heaving on a Friday from around 10.

As it’s your first time to a club it may be better being quieter as you can find your way around. I assume you are going as a couple which is good as you will get loads of attention as it gets busier and from the profile I imagine that’s a good thing.

Out of interest is the afternoon idea as a result of only having that time to get there or is it a choice?

Just remember you are in charge – if you don’t like something (too much attention say) just say no. If you fancy a guy / girl there don’t be afraid of going up to them and starting a conversation – and if you fancy taking it further then ask if they want to play. If you play in an open room expect lots of people to appear from nowhere – it just happens ! again if you fancy someone around you grab them (if there a bloke) - (they may be too reticent of coming forward ) if someone is pushy – tell them to stop. If someone asks you to play that you don’t fancy then just say your still looking around (it’s a bit more polite than saying fuck off you minger !!)

I am due that way next week on Wednesday and Thursday so as I expect you will love it I may see you then (it can be addictive !)

Alan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great advice

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