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I've never been to a club but I'd like to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the deal when going to a club? I've never been to one and think I'd be a bit like a rabbit in the headlights lol. I'm open to exploring new experiences though. Just need to find someone to go with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone feels the same the first time they go, and its weird as everyone in the club at some point attended a club for the first time. I think it's the not knowing that does it. My advice is look at the club reviews of those in your area, and chat to a few people that have been from their reviews to get an idea. You will love it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, check out the reviews. I have been to clubs alone when Mr has been away. Never had a single issue and been well respected, staff and fellow guests look out for you. Most important thing is go with a positive attitude, don't be afraid to say no, go to enjoy being sociable with people and don't put pressure in yourself or let others in you, and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal when going to a club? I've never been to one and think I'd be a bit like a rabbit in the headlights lol. I'm open to exploring new experiences though. Just need to find someone to go with! "

Mentioned this to another bloke earlier! Firstly, find a club you're interested in going to, then take a look at their homepage or "profile" on here if they have one. You will probably find a section detailing what happens on your first visit. When I went to a club for the first time I was given a tour of the place and shown the facilities that were available.

If you're still unsure, contact the club beforehand, and I'm sure they will answer any questions you may have, and put your mind at rest if you're a bit nervous!

Wishing you all the best in your search, and hope you find a club buddy to go with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus, as a single woman going you will be in demand. A lot of clubs operate a strict policy out No means no, so you will (read, should) feel safe. Ideally, see if there are any newbie nights on near you. Va is our local, and its fantastic, but obviously miles away from you.

You could even just pop along for a drink just to get a feel for the place first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a message you are welcome to come with me to a club save going on your own for the first time

Go most weekends to different clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal when going to a club? I've never been to one and think I'd be a bit like a rabbit in the headlights lol. I'm open to exploring new experiences though. Just need to find someone to go with! "

Cupids - we have PM'd you xx

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

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Come along to amour. It's free mon / tues and a great night. Great social. X

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