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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

Something that I read often from couples is that single men were wanking to close to us in an open room

Now as a single guy I was thinking what is to close especially in an open room or bed.

I suppose it is hard to judge what's to far but what's to close.

Do couples that play with single guys mind if people wank closer whilst couples that only play with other couples prefer guys to be further back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of "range" is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close!

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close! "

Agreed would a meter (3ft in old money) have been ok HH

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Out of "range" is fine. "

About covers it, or doesn't as the case may be I'd consider "hitting" anyone as part of play not part of watching tbh.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close!

Agreed would a meter (3ft in old money) have been ok HH"

As long as I'm out of the PSZ (potential splash zone) seems a good starter for ten.

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close!

Agreed would a meter (3ft in old money) have been ok HH

As long as I'm out of the PSZ (potential splash zone) seems a good starter for ten. "

Sniggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 meters unless the guy is VWE then it had to be 2 meters and 4 inches.... we take an oche and meter stick just to be sure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite in eyeline - if I'm putting on a show, I find it very distracting! I guess I'm just not very professional

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close! "

I've had this happen, but then he proceeded to wiggle his cock near my mouth, in the hope I'd just open it. Told him to remove himself before I bit the fucker to pieces.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Watching and joining two different things. If your watching take a seat away from the action and enjoy the show. If you are joining ask permission!

Simple really.

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close! "

I would t get that close because I'd find it disrespectful although I can't blame the guy

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I would say a couple of feet from the bed. Any closer and it is off putting as all you can see out of the corner of your eye are guys fapping away. Had one ask if he could watch who then proceeded to sit on the bed with us. Was worried he would try to join in so made me very tense and ruined the moment

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"space" invaders....... its a particular bugbear of mind.... especially the guys who go into business for themselves and have to barge everyone out the way....

you know the ones!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still can't see why a guy would want to wank while watching us. Let alone be too close.

I've never seen a woman strumming away near us.

Etiquette gents. If you get invited you don't have to be beating your meat beside people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something that I read often from couples is that single men were wanking to close to us in an open room

Now as a single guy I was thinking what is to close especially in an open room or bed.

I suppose it is hard to judge what's to far but what's to close.

Do couples that play with single guys mind if people wank closer whilst couples that only play with other couples prefer guys to be further back

"

If there is a guy who won't bugger off, I fart...tends to clear the room - Mr

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

My first ever club visit there was no private rooms so we played in public soon enough there was 4 or 5 fellas wanking I found it off putting as first but then thought its be who's having fun so sod 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a voyeur for a few years now ,I 've always kept at least 7 feet away and only got closer if invited ,which luckily I have on many occasions ! ??

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Last time we played we had a range of people watching.

None of it felt too close. But it will vary for different people. Some will want further others will be less concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do us guys need to drape a tape measure around our shoulders? Politely watch, ask, measure, fap? A club virgin.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Do us guys need to drape a tape measure around our shoulders? Politely watch, ask, measure, fap? A club virgin. "

No measuring required simply ask yourself would you want a guy you are not attracted to wanking in your face?

If not how close would you want him to be. Close enough to spunk over your body?

Or maybe just far enough that it does not distract from the fun you were having with however you are attracted to!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Something that I read often from couples is that single men were wanking to close to us in an open room

Now as a single guy I was thinking what is to close especially in an open room or bed.

I suppose it is hard to judge what's to far but what's to close.

Do couples that play with single guys mind if people wank closer whilst couples that only play with other couples prefer guys to be further back

"

Only guessing here but couples who only play with couples might not want single men there at all??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you get is the "wank shuffle" where they edge slowly closer in the hope that if they get close enough you'll magically say "Oh come on then, join in"

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

From our point of view if we want to watch we will pick a spot that is not intrusive.

So a room with lots of space we'll have our own fun at least more than an arms length away.

If it's a small room then we would ask a couple if we were OK to join them on the bed?

It's just basic politeness. Sure they don't own the bed, but they were there first so we would find it rude not to ask.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Its the sodding locker keys jangling thats most off putting

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"What you get is the "wank shuffle" where they edge slowly closer in the hope that if they get close enough you'll magically say "Oh come on then, join in""

Hahaha !

Hilarious sir !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can hear the fapping sound, it's too close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this problem at a club. One guy asked if it was ok to come into the room and watch, we said that was fine. Cue 6 guys surrounding us and edging closer and closer. One guy literally kept stretching his cock so that it would touch me. I had to say a total of 5 times "no touching" as he kept doing it. Even another guy told him off! It was hard not to laugh though when he started stroking my husbands hair as though hubby would go "aww that's lovely, come and join us!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this happen..now I'm not small and I can get upset real quick but some wanker wanking talking to us in a club that wouldn't leave us alone got the fella a bollocking...from staff..

I just decided it's couples only and all them dad wankers can fuck right off

Funny how couples don't do that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the question has to be asked for singles is. Do you go to the club to masturbate? Voyeurism is one thing, watching and watching alone. We do it often. We watch. That's it. That's our enjoyment.

Myth doesn't start strumming on her C string and Legend certainly doesn't start spanking his monkey in hope to get an invite. Couples and groups are aware of who is around them and will discuss and ask.

Some like it. But the majority find it off putting.

Again I refer to my original question. It's just etiquette. Nobody really wants to see it. Referring to my previous post. I have never seen a single girl do this so why men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the question has to be asked for singles is. Do you go to the club to masturbate? Voyeurism is one thing, watching and watching alone. We do it often. We watch. That's it. That's our enjoyment.

Myth doesn't start strumming on her C string and Legend certainly doesn't start spanking his monkey in hope to get an invite. Couples and groups are aware of who is around them and will discuss and ask.

Some like it. But the majority find it off putting.

Again I refer to my original question. It's just etiquette. Nobody really wants to see it. Referring to my previous post. I have never seen a single girl do this so why men. "

Desperate sad and individuals.they are no different than the thousands on here that thinks cock shot is acceptable to look at..

Plus if they are pushy they are first in the q if some couple did want a pushy desperate guy

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close!

I've had this happen, but then he proceeded to wiggle his cock near my mouth, in the hope I'd just open it. Told him to remove himself before I bit the fucker to pieces. "

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Actually had two soo close I felt a dick on my back whilst in the missionary position. Certainly told them where to go!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you get is the "wank shuffle" where they edge slowly closer in the hope that if they get close enough you'll magically say "Oh come on then, join in"

Hahaha !

Hilarious sir !"

The wank shuffle could be the new dance craze

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close! "

I've also had this happen, I had ball drag marks on my glasses after, I was not amused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close!

I've also had this happen, I had ball drag marks on my glasses after, I was not amused!"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Based on an experience at a normally lovely club recently with Number One Chap, too close is when a gent politely asks if we mind him watching whilst we were having fun and, once Mr nodded a yes, said gent proceeded to kneel one leg either side of my head and wank about an inch from my nose. THAT was too close!

I've also had this happen, I had ball drag marks on my glasses after, I was not amused!

"

It was gross cos he was sweaty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of weeks ago we were at chams on bed and I was playing with hubby.

I could feel I was being watched and looked up to find 7 or 8 guys stood behind us wanking in deadly silence. It was horrible no noise just the phwp phwp. I stopped and told them it was off putting and going to get them absolutely nowhere.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

A good few feet back is fine if done respectfully and unintrusively - it's when they stand with their shins pressed against the base of the bed that it's too close and then when asked move all of an inch away!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 meters unless the guy is VWE then it had to be 2 meters and 4 inches.... we take an oche and meter stick just to be sure ."

If you were brandishing a meter stick I'd definitely keep back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then only reason single guys go to clubs is coz they are too tight to pay for a brass.

I forgot about the time some fucker put his hand on her arse when we were chatting..seemed weird stopping the conversation to say can you get your hand off my birds arse ..i didn't say please either the cheeky cunt

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

We did go on a mixed night once but when we explained we were not interested in single guys we got a response of we should not have come. So we have always kept to that advice since.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Something that I read often from couples is that single men were wanking to close to us in an open room

Now as a single guy I was thinking what is to close especially in an open room or bed.

I suppose it is hard to judge what's to far but what's to close.

Do couples that play with single guys mind if people wank closer whilst couples that only play with other couples prefer guys to be further back

If there is a guy who won't bugger off, I fart...tends to clear the room - Mr"

Cleaver bugger i must try that one sometime. Lol

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"We did go on a mixed night once but when we explained we were not interested in single guys we got a response of we should not have come. So we have always kept to that advice since.

"

Ignore morons. Never feel constrained to go where you want when you want. Its them thet are prats!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"What you get is the "wank shuffle" where they edge slowly closer in the hope that if they get close enough you'll magically say "Oh come on then, join in"

Hahaha !

Hilarious sir !

The wank shuffle could be the new dance craze "

It does make the mind boggle how embarrassingly sad some guys are!

I swear most single guys in those situations will have depraved fetishes

Dance craze haha ! Id rather do that dance new dance craze when i get waved over by a couple at the other side of the room.

That way i have a long walk to get my groove on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of "range" is fine. "

I've had a few guys cum over me in clubs that I wasn't even playing with, that's too close

I asked one guy to back off once as he was that close he was almost hitting my nose on the out stroke, I was told it was an open room he can sit where he wants

Surely even in a sex club personal space should still be respected, you wouldn't go into a pub and sit in somebody's knee and say it's a public place I can sit where I like

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People often get way too close. Assume that you should be further away than if you were watching television. And, unlike the guy who I'd said 'no thanks' to at the last club visit, that it's not acceptable to then make a quick touch of my breasts etc.

As a voyeur you're not in the group except for there being no skin contact - distance and separate yourself, for the comfort of those you're watching.

If anyone can take along a cattle prod, to keep the zombies at bay, it would be a valuable social service.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Out of "range" is fine.

I've had a few guys cum over me in clubs that I wasn't even playing with, that's too close

I asked one guy to back off once as he was that close he was almost hitting my nose on the out stroke, I was told it was an open room he can sit where he wants

Surely even in a sex club personal space should still be respected, you wouldn't go into a pub and sit in somebody's knee and say it's a public place I can sit where I like "

No and i suspect the managment of most clubs would agree with you. He should have been kicked out the door with his clothing to follow if he was good.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"People often get way too close. Assume that you should be further away than if you were watching television. And, unlike the guy who I'd said 'no thanks' to at the last club visit, that it's not acceptable to then make a quick touch of my breasts etc.

As a voyeur you're not in the group except for there being no skin contact - distance and separate yourself, for the comfort of those you're watching.

If anyone can take along a cattle prod, to keep the zombies at bay, it would be a valuable social service."

Sadly for some that would be a turn on and an encouragment!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Watching and joining two different things. If your watching take a seat away from the action and enjoy the show. If you are joining ask permission!

Simple really."

My view too

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