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By *iss AC OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

Hi....

Has anyone got any advice for visiting clubs as a single female? Is it safe?

I love being naked in a social environment and would love to get to know some like minded people.... I am not opposed to a little fun, in fact I would certainly be open to it, but its not the main reason for my going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on my own when Mr has been away, for socials and catch up with friends and not to play at all.

It's perfectly safe, everyone looks out for you, staff and fellow guests, I've never had any hassl doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to swingers clubs on my own, often have fun. try nudist places too! M x

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By *iss AC OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


"I have been on my own when Mr has been away, for socials and catch up with friends and not to play at all.

It's perfectly safe, everyone looks out for you, staff and fellow guests, I've never had any hassl doing so "

Thanks K xx hopefully the clubs down south are as friendly

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By *iss AC OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


"I go to swingers clubs on my own, often have fun. try nudist places too! M x"

Thanks M xx Nudist would be my ideal at the moment but as I say, not against a little fun if the opportunity arises

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By *ley2Couple
over a year ago

Bermondsey

Hi, Eureka would be an ideal place for a single lady to go, I think. If you encounter any trouble or unwanted harassment the staff go above and beyond to deal with it.

You'll find that clubs really want single women attending so the staff alway look after them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on my own when Mr has been away, for socials and catch up with friends and not to play at all.

It's perfectly safe, everyone looks out for you, staff and fellow guests, I've never had any hassl doing so

Thanks K xx hopefully the clubs down south are as friendly "

I'm sure they will be, hope you find somewhere nice and enjoy yourself x

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I go to swingers clubs on my own, often have fun. try nudist places too! M x

Thanks M xx Nudist would be my ideal at the moment but as I say, not against a little fun if the opportunity arises "

Kestrels would be a great place for a lady to visit on her own (and many do). It's naturist swinger's spa with pool, hot tubs and places to play if the mood takes you. You'd be well looked after so no worries about safety - take a book, something to eat and drink (fridges provided) and enjoy some time chilling in the sunshine on a lounger

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By *iss AC OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


"Hi, Eureka would be an ideal place for a single lady to go, I think. If you encounter any trouble or unwanted harassment the staff go above and beyond to deal with it.

You'll find that clubs really want single women attending so the staff alway look after them "

Thanks guys xx will have a look..

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By *iss AC OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


"I have been on my own when Mr has been away, for socials and catch up with friends and not to play at all.

It's perfectly safe, everyone looks out for you, staff and fellow guests, I've never had any hassl doing so

Thanks K xx hopefully the clubs down south are as friendly

I'm sure they will be, hope you find somewhere nice and enjoy yourself x"

I'm sure I will xx

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By *iss AC OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


"I go to swingers clubs on my own, often have fun. try nudist places too! M x

Thanks M xx Nudist would be my ideal at the moment but as I say, not against a little fun if the opportunity arises

Kestrels would be a great place for a lady to visit on her own (and many do). It's naturist swinger's spa with pool, hot tubs and places to play if the mood takes you. You'd be well looked after so no worries about safety - take a book, something to eat and drink (fridges provided) and enjoy some time chilling in the sunshine on a lounger "

Thanks guys xx Kestrels is where I've been looking at... sounds perfect for what I'm after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to find your 'polite assertive' voice when visiting clubs alone as a single lady. Don't give people false hope of play - a polite no thank you should always be respected. Similarly a 'I'm not playing now but maybe up for fun later' if there is an attraction, but you don't feel like playing right then.

Any unwanted touching, even in a non sexual way needs to be dealt with assertively, as ignoring it can lead to it escalating quickly.

Make the staff aware that you are alone and report anything you are not happy with.

Most of all have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to find your 'polite assertive' voice when visiting clubs alone as a single lady. Don't give people false hope of play - a polite no thank you should always be respected. Similarly a 'I'm not playing now but maybe up for fun later' if there is an attraction, but you don't feel like playing right then.

Any unwanted touching, even in a non sexual way needs to be dealt with assertively, as ignoring it can lead to it escalating quickly.

Make the staff aware that you are alone and report anything you are not happy with.

Most of all have fun."

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"I go to swingers clubs on my own, often have fun. try nudist places too! M x

Thanks M xx Nudist would be my ideal at the moment but as I say, not against a little fun if the opportunity arises

Kestrels would be a great place for a lady to visit on her own (and many do). It's naturist swinger's spa with pool, hot tubs and places to play if the mood takes you. You'd be well looked after so no worries about safety - take a book, something to eat and drink (fridges provided) and enjoy some time chilling in the sunshine on a lounger

Thanks guys xx Kestrels is where I've been looking at... sounds perfect for what I'm after "

Also the staff there are really friendly and professional. They'll really look out for you if it's your first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to swingers clubs on my own, often have fun. try nudist places too! M x

Thanks M xx Nudist would be my ideal at the moment but as I say, not against a little fun if the opportunity arises

Kestrels would be a great place for a lady to visit on her own (and many do). It's naturist swinger's spa with pool, hot tubs and places to play if the mood takes you. You'd be well looked after so no worries about safety - take a book, something to eat and drink (fridges provided) and enjoy some time chilling in the sunshine on a lounger

Thanks guys xx Kestrels is where I've been looking at... sounds perfect for what I'm after "

Couldn't agree with you more. The staff will look after you and there is a group of single ladies who attend who aren't cliquey at all and will engage with you. The guys too are on the whole pretty civilised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever gone to clubs on my own, and I love it. I can't really add much to the advice already given, but defo agree with letting the staff know. I went to townhouse for my first time, very nervous, shaking like a leaf, but they showed me round and introduced me to a few people and I haven't looked back since. Some guys can be a bit annoying, but have always listened when I have said no thanks. Just go and enjoy yourself!! X

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