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are clubs the best way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it best to meet at a club?as no luck normally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your looking to get verified and find it hard work on here have a look at some club websites and find out if they have any events on. Ring them and ask any questions you need to. They are there to help. Socialise with guests without being expectant and I'm sure you'll have a great night and a couple of veris on your profile. Once people read your genuine it should become alot easier. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it best to meet at a club?as no luck normally"

It's the best way to meet and get talking to people, I'd also suggest socials too. They can be just as rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've seen of single guys at clubs, you'll end up in the herd following people around all night. if you're going to go alone try and arrange to meet someone there first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me at the moment, yes, it is.

I've pretty much given up trying to find someone who lives locally anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing I notice most about new people in clubs is they either sit in a corner with poor body language or follow people around and just become creepy.

The assumption is that everybody in the club has been going for years and you are the only person there on your first day.

2 good areas being the bar/eating area.

and the smoking area.

The thing is to be normal and nice and not presume sex.

The same sort of ice breaking questions we use in real life.

Go with the aim of having a nice night and meeting a few friends.

I went to Gatehouse in Bolton a few months back and there was 8 people in the main room.

None where talking to each other and all looked bored out of there skull.

I sat down and queried to the group if I could sit down and then asked if I was allowed to speak only it was like a library?

A few people laughed and then I asked how many times people had been.

It turned out that all where new with the exception of a couple who had been a few times in the year and a man who comes from Spain every year.

10 minutes later everybody was talking and (on my return ; an hour later) everybody was busy in rooms.

Clubs are great for meeting people too as if they don't turn up you can still have a fun night.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"From what I've seen of single guys at clubs, you'll end up in the herd following people around all night. if you're going to go alone try and arrange to meet someone there first. "

You obviously don't go to the right clubs. I avoid clubs where there are way too many single guys hunting for sex.

Some clubs have maybe six or ten single guys, but also are attended by single ladies for the reason that they don't feel pressured, as well as plenty of couples obviously.

Clubs do exist where men have chance to chat and get verifications easily. Nobody guarantees single guys will get sex, but the chance to play varies club to club.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

The problem that many single guys have is that their expectations tend to be a million miles from reality and so consequently they make little to no effort with their appearance, their chat and their overall presence.

Whether couples/women are swingers or not, they are going to need to feel an attraction and far too many guys in Clubs are woefully unprepared with a number of failings including poor physique, long and dirty finger nails, toe nails that belong on a sea eagle, poor personal hygiene, untrimmed, unkept and generally looking like a bag of shit.

The single guys that we know who are very successful swingers know what it takes to attract women and it involves effort. Any good looking guy, with a good physique and who is well trimmed and looks and smells nice should have no problem at all in a Club environment.

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

The most sucessfull guys are the ones that don't pester. The ones that sit at the bar and just say hello You'll be amazed successfully they are. Polite get you everywhere

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"The most sucessfull guys are the ones that don't pester. The ones that sit at the bar and just say hello You'll be amazed successfully they are. Polite get you everywhere "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have reasonable social skills and can hold a conversation then you'll be fine in a club x

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